I have been dating this girl for 4years now, recently I discovered she has a baby for someone else.should I go ahead and marry her? am still single and searching.

she gotta go meet her baby dad else yur an assss

For 4 years she did not tell you she has a baby for someone else?

Why are women like this?

God save us. I think the end time is actually women.

You look mature but this post doesn't.

Make sure the father of that child is no where near her.

thesicilian:
You look mature but this post doesn't.

what do mean?

There'll always b issues btwn u nd d baby's father but if it's me I wnt go ahead with her

Only matured people can date or marry baby mamas nd papas ow she values u matters o

I cant marry or date a baby papa who treats me like trash nd also his baby mama treats me like gabbage i will now b like a fool in d union bullshit

if d baby papa really gat my back nd shows it! I can withstand d baby mama drama

So op like ive said how she values matters and it will help u withstand her baby papa stress

Now let me paint this real scenario to you guys and then you can now judge by yourself if your advice to op is cool enough. There is this young girl of about in her early twenties dating an unknowingly married man. The man hid his marital status from her cos he is always on this offshore job of a thing. Along the line, the girl took him and joyful announced to the guy that she is pregnant for him and it was at this point ,that the guy opened up to her that he his married with three kids and the young girl was devastated. She braced up for the challenge and with advice from matured friends, copled with the fear of not knowing what would happen in future if she undergoes an abortion, she resolved to have the baby, with the said baby father agreeing to taking care of the baby by sending her monthly upkeep. The girl in question pleaded with her parents for forgiveness and they did forgive her, welcomed her and the child back home and today, she is living with her parents and also working. Now, with this little scenario or rather story that I have tabled here, what would you now advice op to do in terms of marrying a single mother. Oga op, my advice for you is to ask the lady in question what led to her having a child and the situation of things with her baby father. Get all the fact you can from her and if you are convinced enough that she did the right thing, then, go ahead and marry her, otherwise, you can quit. There is nothing wrong in marrying a single mother, what if Genevieve agrees to marrying you, wont you jump in excitement. Abeg, make una forgive any gbagannn sited in the course of reading, I don't enjoy writing long epistle.

KingCheezyPuff:

Not gon work..
.....he's the Daddy he has the right ta see his child.
Children bind ex lovers tagether in this way.
When you date/marry/get involved with a single parent havin' the ex around in some form is inevitable.
You find a way ta work with it an you deal.

Plus women are too emotional & any conflict wit d guy she can decide to find comfort in d arms of d baby papa & d rest is history.

hero01:
I have been dating this girl for 4years now, recently I discovered she has a baby for someone else.should I go ahead and marry her? am still single and searching.

so are you dating for 4 yrs OR single and searching?! if you indeed are single and searching then therefore this is THE reason why you certainly shouldnt marry this lady. you have no respect and dont value her.

hero01:
I have been dating this girl for 4years now, recently I discovered she has a baby for someone else.should I go ahead and marry her? am still single and searching.

U found out after 4yrs that she have baby and you are asking us stupid question if you should marry her. She didn't even tell you the 1st yr.