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Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 5:11am On Mar 12, 2016
STUPID MISTAKES SINGLE LADIES MAKE AND BLAME IT ON THE DEVIL.

A mistake is an error in action,calculation, opinion, or judgment caused by poor reasoning, carelessness,and insufficient knowledge, etc. This usually happen when a person’s confidence outstrips their skill and has little or nothing to do with the Devil. Even though it is generally believed that nobody is above mistake, making stupid mistakes is a sign of "foolishness". We are all prone to over estimating our abilities, to making impulsive decisions, and to lapses of attention. The simple realization of this makes stupid mistakes seem, perhaps, a little less stupid — and a little more human.

Being intelligent is a quality you should be proud of but it’s only useful when applied correctly. Men don’t really like smart women,especially for Flirting, No man goes out to a bar, to a nightclub, to a strip club for that matter to meet an intelligent woman but being smart about men isn’t the same as being book smart and that is why ladies need to be very careful when taking decisions that can make or mar their future.......it is good to wake up to reality and accept responsibility than transferring Blame to the Devil who has so many troubles already on him from God.

Now, let me share some of the most common issues that ladies need to address if they care about being better lovers, wives, friends, partners and personalities in the society.
Ladies, please consider this list as a launching pad as you embark on a mission to improve yourselves and your ability
to respect your personalities in the society.
These mistakes are avoidable but that will be a topic for another day.



«BEING CARELESS AND IMMODEST

Some women seem to be unaware of the danger of being sexually harassed when they dress immodest. this has influenced many cases of rape in the society which they turn out to blame the devil. “Modesty is not first an issue of clothing. It is primarily an issue of the heart. If the
heart is right with God, it will govern itself in purity coupled with humility and will express itself modestly.”
"Purity requires modesty, an integral part of temperance. Modesty protects the intimate center of the person. It means refusing to unveil what should remain
hidden." And this will spare u the energy wasted in blaming the devil.


«BEING EXCESSIVELY DEVOTED TO THE WRONG PERSON

Some women can sometimes be stupidly obstinate and remain devoted to guys who are not worth it because they are disrespectful, dishonest, unfaithful, and so on. It is worthy of note that women with low self-esteem tend to force things to work out with the wrong man.....these men in turn take advantage of this opportunity to either turn the lady to a punch bag, sex slave or money making machine "Lolz".........this is purely your personal mistake not devils


«COMMITING ABORTION..................

The deliberate termination of a human pregnancy, by removing a fetus or
embryo before it can survive outside the uterus......
Abortion has a lot of physical,psychological, spiritual and emotional risks and dangers associated with it that are not worth taking for a man that doesn't take you serious. In some cases it can lead to early death or barrenness........and when this happens, the devil takes the blame wrongly.


«PROSTITUTION

women sometimes do not realize their worth and let others abuse or take advantage of them. “It is your job as a woman, to become as fully realized as you can by having dreams, forging a purpose, building an identity, having courage, and making commitments to things outside yourself. Reducing yourself to the lowest echelon of ridicule in the profession of prostitution is to miss the glory of your identity as a lady because of money consciousness and materialism.


«HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX

I’m not a prude by any standard but if you’re actually on the lookout for something steady, don’t end up sleeping with every guy without protection. As cliché as it may sound, men do enjoy the chase and so like it raw but many ain't ready to take responsibilities...........the greatest danger associated with this is transmission of sexually transmitted diseases that may terminate all your dreams of life
So, no matter how wonderful the date is going, try to play safe and go solo like a good girl. If there is a magical moment, don’t hesitate to use protection and spare the devil the blame.


« UNREALISTIC RELATIONSHIP EXPPECTATIONS

You’re never going to find love if you keep finding flaws in every guy you meet. Perfection is impossible in a human and you’re
rarely going to come across someone who meets all your requirements.
Instead of setting impossible-to-meet standards, figure out what your relationship deal-breakers are and what you can compromise on. And when you meet someone you hit it off with, give him a chance even if he doesn’t meet your criteria. After all, love is not a checklist.
It’s only when you take the pressure off and stop looking so
hard for the “one” that you will find him.......this singular acts makes ladies stay single at late 30s/40s from where they turn to prayer warriors to fire the devil delaying their marriage...hahahahahahah


«INDULGING IN ILLEGAL/IMMORAL ACTS

It is of a common knowledge that ladies who get involved in hard drugs are prone to all sorts of immorality that are punishable under the state law.....under the influence of drugs, these ladies go as far as indulging in armed robbery, kidnapping,cultism,rituals,rape and even lesbianism and other petty crimes just to belong....the most painful part of it is most victims of this circumstance are ladies from poor background who out of their selfishness and greed want to live large by all means. the end is usually disastrous and blamed on the devil.


Finally, today is my birthday, please show me some love in your own kind of ways and remain blessed.

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Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by Nobody: 5:29am On Mar 12, 2016
The pix above,reminds me of those days
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by repogirl(f): 5:39am On Mar 12, 2016
I didn't actually read whatever's up there, maybe later.

For now, I'm just waiting.........
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 5:45am On Mar 12, 2016
sauceny:
The pix above,reminds me of those days

Badt. Guy
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by cruzita(f): 5:50am On Mar 12, 2016
Op I just hope there is a counter thread to this.Because if there isn't ,its useless reading this then
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by trendphemmy(m): 5:59am On Mar 12, 2016
meanwhile someone will do all d things listed above and still get d best husband. so op u got it wrong
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by ayoolataiwo(m): 6:17am On Mar 12, 2016
lol
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by Nobody: 6:23am On Mar 12, 2016
grin Lol...that pic was funny OP...

But joke aside, why a lady wud blame it to the devil when all her actions & the way she think was so wrong? If the devil cud only speak,surely he wud cursed everyone coz he done nothing yet ppol blaming him tongue
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 6:31am On Mar 12, 2016
cruzita:
Op I just hope there is a counter thread to this.Because if there isn't ,its useless reading this then

U mean the counter. Thread from me?
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 6:33am On Mar 12, 2016
trendphemmy:
meanwhile someone will do all d things listed above and still get d best husband. so op u got it wrong

Try again
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 6:35am On Mar 12, 2016
KashyBaby:
grin Lol...that pic was funny OP...

But joke aside, why a lady wud blame it to the devil when all her actions & the way she think was so wrong? If the devil cud only speak,surely he wud cursed everyone coz he done nothing yet ppol blaming him tongue



Yeah, but u knw many do that and that is Why they rush for Deliverances and breaking of curses. In different spiritual places
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by donbenedict(m): 6:42am On Mar 12, 2016
Nobody forced her to open her legs... so if he denies d pregnancy, she shouldn't blame him. cool

Reply at ur peril
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by firstking01(m): 7:06am On Mar 12, 2016
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Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by Oblitz(m): 7:39am On Mar 12, 2016
OK! counter thread loading.....
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 8:13am On Mar 12, 2016
donbenedict:
Nobody forced her to open her legs... so if he denies d pregnancy, she shouldn't blame him. cool

Reply at ur peril

Lolz
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by Oahray: 8:23am On Mar 12, 2016
donbenedict:
Nobody forced her to open her legs... so if he denies d pregnancy, she shouldn't blame him. cool

Reply at ur peril
why should he deny it? A man ought to take responsibility for his actions.
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by donbenedict(m): 8:29am On Mar 12, 2016
Oahray:
why should he deny it? A man ought to take responsibility for his actions.
and she ought to do so too..
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by Oahray: 8:33am On Mar 12, 2016
donbenedict:
and she ought to do so too..
true, but don't wait for her to do it first. Ladies seem to be born to play the victim. It would always be your fault, even for simply being there when she does something.
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by donbenedict(m): 8:37am On Mar 12, 2016
Oahray:
true, but don't wait for her to do it first. Ladies seem to be born to play the victim. It would always be your fault, even for simply being there when she does something.
u married?
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by Oahray: 8:40am On Mar 12, 2016
donbenedict:
u married?
no. Why?
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by donbenedict(m): 8:43am On Mar 12, 2016
Oahray:
no. Why?
I'm impressed with ur wealth of knowledge.. u stay in ph?
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 8:53am On Mar 12, 2016
donbenedict:
I'm impressed with ur wealth of knowledge.. u stay in ph?

Stop flirting on my thread

Lalassticlala,Mynd44 where una dey?
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by Oahray: 2:30pm On Mar 12, 2016
donbenedict:
I'm impressed with ur wealth of knowledge.. u stay in ph?
thank you sir. Em... No, I don't.
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 3:42pm On Mar 12, 2016
Oahray:
true, but don't wait for her to do it first. Ladies seem to be born to play the victim. It would always be your fault, even for simply being there when she does something.
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Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 5:15pm On Mar 17, 2016
firstking01:
.......
Hmmmmm
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by firstking01(m): 5:40pm On Mar 17, 2016
greatiyk4u:

Hmmmmm
lol, why the mutecheesy
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 8:21pm On Mar 17, 2016
firstking01:
lol, why the mutecheesy
Speechless
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by halfricanadian(f): 8:26pm On Mar 17, 2016
cool
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by firstking01(m): 8:43pm On Mar 17, 2016
In michael jacksons voice abi??
Re: Silly Relationship Mistakes Every Single Lady Regrettably Commit by greatiyk4u(m): 10:07pm On Mar 22, 2016

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