A relationship is something that should bring you happiness, companionship and provide succor in your times of trouble.
It may sound like I just described what you wish you had.

Ladies, do you know that we’re sometimes the architects of our misery and relationship woes? Before you “yab” and call me”oversabi”, take a look at some of the common relationship mistakes we make:

1. Not Loving Yourself Enough
We’ve heard this many times before. How do you expect someone to love you when you don’t love yourself? Will someone treat you like the queen you are if you don’t treat yourself that way? This is a question of having the self-confidence and self-esteem to love who you are without the input of someone else. Your ability to love someone else is a 100 percent dependent on how much you love yourself.

Ftc on Ma boo's thread

2. Playing ‘Wife’ to a Boyfriend
Many of us are guilty of this. It’s understandable that you want to show your boyfriend how much of a good wife you’d make. But ladies, we totally need to dial this trait way down. Doesn’t it rankle when you invest your all in a relationship and your partner doesn’t? A relationship is a two-way street. Don’t cross a river for someone who wouldn’t jump a puddle for you.

3. Impatience
This one is another common mistake that every girl makes. You meet a cute, hot, bearded, rich fellow who ticks all the right boxes and meets all the proper standards. The next thing, you want to move things along to the next stage without getting to know if this “perfect guy” is actually perfect for you. This usually leads to the “had I known” scenario. Take some time to get to know who this guy is and enjoy being single because what would be, would surely be.

4. Confusing Lust for Love
This also ties in closely to Impatience. Most times, we tend to confuse lust with love. Just because sex is involved doesn’t mean he loves and respects you. Beware of the many “Yoruba demons” parading around claiming to want commitment. All they want is to fall in lust with you, never love. In this very harsh world, girls have to got to smarten up!

http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/relationship-mistakes-girl/?geoip
Cc: Lalasticlala

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EmperorLee:
Ftc on Ma boo's thread

how are you?

mizzbouqui:

how are you?

Am well, thanks and how are you?

Op please, do me a favor and go for a week break...

Your threads are becoming whack

BiafraBushBoy:
Op please, do me a favor and go for a week break...

Your threads are becoming whack

How sir

mizzbouqui:

How sir

EmperorLee:



Am well, thanks and how are you?

I'm good

BiafraBushBoy:
Op please, do me a favor and go for a week break...

Your threads are becoming whack

Bad mouth

[quote author=mizzbouqui post=47882807]4. Confusing Lust for Love
This also ties in closely to Impatience. Most times, we tend to confuse lust with love. Just because sex is involved doesn’t mean he loves and respects you. Beware of the many “Yoruba demons” parading around claiming to want commitment. All they want is to fall in lust with you, never love. In this very harsh world, girls have to got to smarten up!

http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/relationship-mistakes-girl/?geoip


Ure threads are insightful and these point are on prefect order bt aslong as it doesn't turn and make the gal too uptight and calculative. That can create it's own sets of problems. Cheers!

@op so it is only women that make such a mistakes?

BrokenHeart2016:
@op so it is only women that make such a mistakes?

Yeah I guess so

mizzbouqui:

how are you?

I would luv to know you more

Sacluxpaint:


I would luv to know you more

My name is not more

mizzbouqui:

My name is not more

Nice sense of humour, how is your week going?

Sacluxpaint:


Nice sense of humour, how is your week going?

Greatly

mizzbouqui:

Greatly

That's nice to hear, I think u r amazing though. I am not your typical Nairalander guy, but a 2 mins chat with u outside this forum will make better sense .What do you think?

Sacluxpaint:


That's nice to hear, I think u r amazing though. I am not your typical Nairalander guy, but a 2 mins chat with u outside this forum will make better sense .What do you think?

It won't make a single sense

Yoruba demon

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mizzbouqui:

It won't make a single sense

You sure do have a strong stance Thanks for the replies.

mizzbouqui:

It won't make a single sense

you no get joy ooo
That guy fit be tinubu son

czarr:
you no get joy ooo
That guy fit be tinubu son

And so? Me sef be obasanjo's daughter

mizzbouqui:

And so? Me sef be obasanjo's daughter

I'm not suprised

czarr:
I'm not suprised