It is usually every woman's dream to date/marry a handsome,rich,caring,easy going fellow and all.Sometimes when the ladies mention all the qualities they want in a man the list will seem endless and impossible.Well I stand to say that those men exist but they are endangered species because the real mean are not accepted but rather exploited and they are always taken for granted.Girls don't even know the fact that responsible guys are always busy with their careers or studies to be too focused to wooing a girl that is forming hard to get for too long.As we go through life as kid when during adolescent we notice this strange attraction we suddenly start feeling toward the oppositionist sex in animals it's called bonding but in humans we pick a partner of our choice and date them.

In this relationship true feelings are supposed to be mutual but nowadays it's totally different,all we have nowadays are oppurtunists in the name of gold diggers and players,boys and girls who find themselves in this categories are were either victims of heartbreaks,exploitation by their ex partners or just greedy and lustful fellows.so they resort to victimizing the opposite sex to get satisfaction or revenge for what happened to them long ago.

Since everyone is now so "careful",we even hush our real partners away all in the name of keeping our gaurd on,only to end up with players again...there was a thread I made about a girl I wooed for two years,my guys were laughing at me saying I deserve an award for waiting that long,only God knows I meant well for the girl,she shut me out only to date another guy and break up two weeks afterwards

But coming to think of it,the "players" amongst the guys are the ones who get the attention and love of the ladies,while the nerds and shy guys are hushed away as being uncool or living a non-trendy lifestyle or so.So we shy guys are tired of ducking in a cage why can't we just join our fellow "players" and enjoy what they do instead of resorting to being homosexuals.Shy dudes still deserves some real loving.This is my opinion,air your views people!!!

So, ur nice but ur broke, is that what u tryna say?

KashyBaby:
So, ur nice but ur broke, is that what u tryna say?

lol who's talking about broke here do the word "broke" always have to revolve around you ladies ,rich or average "true" dudes are potential targets for being "magas"...please do I look broke to you I've been exploited for what I am before and it hurts when you find out the one you love was only there for the money just as being dumped by a chick for being broke is baby,since you loved from your heart and your partner didn't it hurts get it?

KashyBaby:
So, ur nice but ur broke, is that what u tryna say?

Haba Sister, did you read anything like"brokeness" up there?...why is ur life dependent on money?...even if you're a gold digger and your life depends on it like"termites" must you come on here to show ur stupidity?...eh shey wa mo ju owo(money) lo bayi?...that's why most of you get"used" and "dumped"....i don't and i'll never blame those guys that make people like you cry like bush babies....quote me and incur the wrath of God all the days of your life!

ElDaIllest:
lol who's talking about broke here do the word "broke" always have to revolve around you ladies ,rich or average "true" dudes are potential targets for being "magas"...please do I look broke to you I've been exploited for what I am before and it hurts when you find out the one you love was only there for the money just as being dumped by a chick for being broke is baby,since you loved from your heart and your partner didn't it hurts get it?

Juz trying to clarify since u said that most females only date handsome,RICH,caring etc & ignore those nice guys...

Not all females are Iike this, don't juz focus on ur women down there if that's what u thinking..coz here in abroad,ur compatriots (which is very common),Nigerian men are only dating rich women regardless of her looks..

thowbie7ven:
Haba Sister, did you read anything like"brokeness" up there?...why is ur life dependent on money?...even if you're a gold digger and your life depends on it like"termites" must you come on here to show ur stupidity?...eh shey wa mo ju owo(money) lo bayi?...that's why most of you get"used" and "dumped"....i don't and i'll never blame those guys that make people like you cry like bush babies....quote me and incur the wrath of God all the days of your life!

Yes I quote u back & I don't care who's ur god is....I'm talking to the op coz I need clarification but ur black ass wud juz jumped down & quote me with ur nonsense quote jz like u...abeg now,go to sleep and stop pestering my bright sunny day!

KashyBaby:




Juz trying to clarify since u said that most females only date handsome,RICH,caring etc & ignore those nice guys...

Not all females are Iike this, don't juz focus on ur women down there if that's what u thinking..coz here in abroad,ur compatriots (which is very common),Nigerian men are only dating rich women regardless of her looks..

please do not misquote me,please read the write up again for proper comprehension,I explained that even the rich guys are being exploited and girls normally end up with players.... Please don't say what I did not say o

KashyBaby:




Yes I quote u back & I don't care who's ur god is....I'm talking to the op coz I need clarification but ur black ass wud juz jumped down & quote me with ur nonsense quote jz like u...abeg now,go to sleep and stop pestering my bright sunny day!

when are you having Kids? You are fast nearing menopause, and I'm concerned about you, seriously.....

PaulKillerman:
when are you having Kids? You are fast nearing menopause, and I'm concerned about you, seriously.....

Mmmmm..worried abt my "menopausal" thing? And y is tat?

cc Lalasticlala more views and opinions are needed here bro

What position do you play from? Defence? Midfield? Attack? Tell us

STFUareyouGod:
What position do you play from? Defence? Midfield? Attack? Tell us

very sacarstic! But the kind of player I have in mind must be playing attack eg.2-5-2,4-3-3

ElDaIllest:
very sacarstic! But the kind of player I have in mind must be playing attack eg.2-5-2,4-3-3

I see. Lol

KashyBaby:




Mmmmm..worried abt my "menopausal" thing? And y is tat?

cause I Love you....

PaulKillerman:
cause I Love you....

Hahahahaahahahahaaaha! U dey craze? how can u love someone u never even met yet? Or do we know each other before & u juz tryna change that acct?

KashyBaby:





Hahahahaahahahahaaaha! U dey craze? how can u love someone u never even met yet? Or do we know each other before & u juz tryna change that acct?

this is my alternate moniker.... I have always been professing my love for you....

KashyBaby:





Hahahahaahahahahaaaha! U dey craze? how can u love someone u never even met yet? Or do we know each other before & u juz tryna change that acct?

this is my alternate moniker.... I have always been professing my love for you....

PaulKillerman:
this is my alternate moniker.... I have always been professing my love for you....
this is my alternate moniker.... I have always been professing my love for you....

Who? don't lemme guess abt it...

@OP u re correct ooooo, that has always been the situation. The players always getting all types of gals every other week while the good guys get used and get dumped. The unfortunate part of the story is that good, homely wife materials always fall into the hands of these players, they get used, played, spoilt, duped and finally dumped. That has always been the cycle.

So many people usually erroneously believe its d power of money but nay, it isn't. Women generally like to be lied to, that's what the players always shamelessly do, while the good guys will never do.

Lets analyse the theory of "Its all about Money". Guy A is very rich, good guy, very reserved and God fearing while Guy B is averagely rich, bad guy, unreserved, not God fearing, excellent in lynology, can pretend to be anything. Who will get the girls?

Absolutely its going to be Guy B, he'll get lots of wife material wch guy A is supposed to have gotten and probably married.

So, its their nature wch is very hard to change.

I get used and dumped twice, since then i studied, analysed and dated several girls and understood wat exactly their nature is. Its not about money of whatever we always believe. Its always about how to toy with their heart and you get everything on a platter of gold.

swtdrms:
@OP u re correct ooooo, that has always been the situation. The players always getting all types of gals every other week while the good guys get used and get dumped. The unfortunate part of the story is that good, homely wife materials always fall into the hands of these players, they get used, played, spoilt, duped and finally dumped. That has always been the cycle.

So many people usually erroneously believe its d power of money but nay, it isn't. Women generally like to be lied to, that's what the players always shamelessly do, while the good guys will never do.

Lets analyse the theory of "Its all about Money". Guy A is very rich, good guy, very reserved and God fearing while Guy B is averagely rich, bad guy, unreserved, not God fearing, excellent in lynology, can pretend to be anything. Who will get the girls?

Absolutely its going to be Guy B, he'll get lots of wife material wch guy A is supposed to have gotten and probably married.

So, its their nature wch is very hard to change.

I get used and dumped twice, since then i studied, analysed and dated several girls and understood wat exactly their nature is. Its not about money of whatever we always believe. Its always about how to toy with their heart and you get everything on a platter of gold.

Gbam!!! 10cartons of origin for this guy! You are the only nairalander that have related well will this post! God bless us and give us wisdom to follow women o

ElDaIllest:
Gbam!!! 10cartons of origin for this guy! You are the only nairalander that have related well will this post! God bless us and give us wisdom to follow women o

Amen....thank u my guy. Na to dey take style be player with good intentions sure pass.