Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,195,659 members, 7,958,987 topics. Date: Thursday, 26 September 2024 at 08:44 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / wot pains in relationships break-ups (392 Views)
Different Ways Nigerian Girls React And Handle Relationship Break Ups. - Memes / 7 Major Causes Of Break-ups Of Today’s Relationships / BREAK UPS: Some Tips On How To Finally Get Your Ex Back Asap (2) (3) (4)
(1) (Reply)
wot pains in relationships break-ups by Nobody: 11:52am On Mar 16, 2016 |
It’s no secret that a breaking up is a painful process, no matter which side of it you’re on. Almost everything about it is miserable, but there are some things that are particularly hurtful; these ten things are among the worst parts of ending a relationship. 1. The Initial Conversation– Whether you knew the breakup was inevitable or were taken by surprise, the first discussion about ending a relationship is one of the most difficult. Hurt feelings can cause both parties to say things they’ll later regret, causing each other even more pain. 2. Separating Your Lives– Long-term relationships have a way of intertwining two lives so thoroughly that extricating yourself is a complicated and hurtful process. Sorting belongings, closing joint accounts and moving all hammer the point home; the finality of these necessary tasks can be heartbreaking. 3. Questions From Family and Friends– When family members and friends become accustomed to viewing a couple as a unit, it can be difficult to answer the inevitable questions. Being forced to explain the reasons behind a breakup to loved ones over and over can be wearing; watching mutual friends take sides and grow apart can often make things even worse. 4. Finding Forgotten Belongings– Stumbling over a forgotten piece of clothing or other left-behind belongings inevitably happens, especially if the couple shared a living space. The regrets and memories of happier times can almost be overwhelming in this situation. 5. Adjusting to Single Life– After creating a life with someone, their absence can be even more upsetting when it’s time to maka djustments to single-dom. Mundane tasks like eating dinner alone are often among the most depressing reminders of everything that has been lost. 6. Rumors and Gossip– Even the most well-meaning friends can’t resist the urge to pass along gossip and rumors about an ex; regardless of their truth, these second-hand news items can make an injured party even unhappy. 7. Being Reminded Unexpectedly– Hearing a particular song on the radio or smelling your ex’s cologne on a stranger passing by can almost be devastating; being unprepared for the onslaught of memories that accompany these things often leaves a person bewildered, reliving the relationship and its painful end. http://www.naijarex.com/2016/03/15/what-hurts-most-when-you-break-up-in-a-relationship/ |
(1) (Reply)
Why Would You Not Inform Me? / Elder Jeremiah On Marriage: Keep It Sexy! / Beauty Attracts Men, But Attitude Attaches Them (episode 1)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 10 |