ladyF:
Lol me sef dey crave some people's number for here.

find that hard to believe and you have not asked them for it

schumastic:


find that hard to believe and you have not asked them for it

It's not as easy as it looks. Don't want it to be misconstrued as me being too forward.....maybe I will send him a PM...

ladyF:

It's not as easy as it looks. Don't want it to be misconstrued as me being too forward.....maybe I will send him a PM...

lol stop having that mentality like most naija girls do,,,no such thing as being too forward n you can go ahead with the pm cus it doesn't necessarily mean you will end up giving him your contact..

schumastic:


lol stop having that mentality like most naija girls do,,,no such thing as being too forward n you can go ahead with the pm cus it doesn't necessarily mean you will end up giving him your contact..

Alright, let me send him one right away. Hoping for the best

I thoroughly appreciate all of your advise..

ladyF:
Alright, let me send him one right away. Hoping for the best

goodluck and don't forget to update me lol

schumastic:


goodluck and don't forget to update me lol

lol I will

Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is
breaking up with you.
1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates
tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.
Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.
2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should
come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No
matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave
you.
3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so
things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to
bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is
still there and your words are not going to mend it.
4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't
care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not
the other way around!)
5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the
more she will ignore you.
6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.
(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up
with me during exam period..." It won't work. It will only
make her DREAD being with you even more.
7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.
Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!
Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All
she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you,
they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never
lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation
has to come from WITHIN.
9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You
can't buy her heart back with money.
10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more
you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.
These are the most common mistakes guys make during a
breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things.
If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed.
You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend
goodbye, let alone get her back.
WHAT TO DO
1.Be polite
2.BE indifferent
3.Show to her that you can live without her and your having fun and you have a life and surviving without her.
4.Ignore her
5.Your time now is for other people and things not for her
6.Dont be rude or do somthing signifies that your in pain like anger or hate.
7.Flirt with other girl BUT THIS IS OPTIONAL...if your gonna do this make it sure that it will not seem that your just making her jelous..remeber the point here is to make her realise that you can still continue to live withouot her and have fun and you dont give a fck if she dumps you..
8.Dont try to be friends
9.Don’t be taken for granted
10.Don’t try to seduce them
11.Just cut them off and get on with your life
12.make their decisions final
13.Be patient and wait for her next move but for the meanwhile keep doing all the above statements.
When she contact
1.be polite
2.be indifferent
3.show to her that your time is not for her
4.cut her calls short
5.Be patient and wait for her next move.
6. Say to her or show to her through your actions that "NO HARD FEELINGS"
when she cry or says she misses you or do somthing that sugest she cant afford to loose you or trying to be friends
1.Continue to back off
2.be a challenge
3.Accept her only of your truely conviinced that she will do anything just to give her another chance.
4.be polite still
5.Be patient and wait for her next move
whe you take her back
1.donr EVER BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
2.PUT THE BLAME ON HER
3.Do so on your own terms

omron:
Here's a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is
breaking up with you.
1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates
tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless.
Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.
2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should
come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No
matter how brilliant your logic is, she's still going to leave
you.
3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have "changed" so
things will be "different from now on". It's like trying to
bail water out of a sinking boat. It won't work. The hole is
still there and your words are not going to mend it.
4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won't
care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU...not
the other way around!)
5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the
more she will ignore you.
6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you.
(Examples: "I can't work without you." and "Don't break up
with me during exam period..." It won't work. It will only
make her DREAD being with you even more.
7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you.
Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!
Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All
she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you,
they can't make her love you forever. External pressure never
lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation
has to come from WITHIN.
9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You
can't buy her heart back with money.
10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more
you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.
These are the most common mistakes guys make during a
breakup. Trust me, you don't want to do ANY of these things.
If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed.
You probably won't even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend
goodbye, let alone get her back.
WHAT TO DO
1.Be polite
2.BE indifferent
3.Show to her that you can live without her and your having fun and you have a life and surviving without her.
4.Ignore her
5.Your time now is for other people and things not for her
6.Dont be rude or do somthing signifies that your in pain like anger or hate.
7.Flirt with other girl BUT THIS IS OPTIONAL...if your gonna do this make it sure that it will not seem that your just making her jelous..remeber the point here is to make her realise that you can still continue to live withouot her and have fun and you dont give a fck if she dumps you..
8.Dont try to be friends
9.Don’t be taken for granted
10.Don’t try to seduce them
11.Just cut them off and get on with your life
12.make their decisions final
13.Be patient and wait for her next move but for the meanwhile keep doing all the above statements.
When she contact
1.be polite
2.be indifferent
3.show to her that your time is not for her
4.cut her calls short
5.Be patient and wait for her next move.
6. Say to her or show to her through your actions that "NO HARD FEELINGS"
when she cry or says she misses you or do somthing that sugest she cant afford to loose you or trying to be friends
1.Continue to back off
2.be a challenge
3.Accept her only of your truely conviinced that she will do anything just to give her another chance.
4.be polite still
5.Be patient and wait for her next move
whe you take her back
1.donr EVER BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED
2.PUT THE BLAME ON HER
3.Do so on your own terms

these r good tips and will definitely work. But they aren'r exactly easy to follow.