Whether you’re waiting for your wedding or just haven’t found the right person, here’s what you should know about losing your virginity as an adult.

1. “Theres no universal consensus on what behaviors constitute having s3x,” relationship and sex expert Kristen Mark, Ph.D., tells BuzzFeed Life. Not to mention, the notion of“‘virginit’y’ is very heterocentric. It really excludes a large number of people who may consider themselves as having lost their virginit’y, but that definition is going to be very different for them.” So losing your virginity might involve penetration, or it might involve anal sex, or@l sex, manual stimulation, dildos, whatever. There’s no rule that your first time has to meet a specific set of criteria.

2. That whole “popping the cherry” thing is mostly a myth. Not every v@gina bleeds like a stab wound the first time you have sex. “Some women don’t notice any bleeding at all, but it is true that some women bleed a lot,” sex researcher Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., author of Because It Feels Good, tells BuzzFeed Life. This comes from tearing the hymen, which is
basically just tissue inside the v@gina. All women have different amounts of hymenal tissue, and in rare cases they aren’t born with any. There’s really no way to predict how much you’ll bleed, so…maybe keep a light on, suggests Herbenick.

3. Along those lines, a “hymen check” is really no way to determine vi’rginity. Again, different people have different
amounts of hymenal tissue, and some are thinner, worn away, or filled with fewer blood vessels than others. Plus, that tissue can tear from a variety of things, like physical activity, masturbation, fingering, etc., says Herbenick.
So to use this as a marker of whether or not you’ve had s*x just…doesn’t make sense.

4. It doesn’t have to hurt. If your first time involves penetration, a little pain or pressure might be expected. That
said, it should still be overall pleasurable — not painful. So if it hurts a lot , stop. This could be a signal that you need more pre-intimacy or lubrication..


http://plusmouth..com.ng/2016/03/4-things-you-should-know-before-you.html

Can i ask a question

LuveU2:
Can i ask a question

Luvme3 go ahead

Mrbigman1:


Luvme3 go ahead

Can a girl still be a virgin after her first sex; with no deep penetration?

LuveU2:
Can a girl still be a virgin after her first sex; with no deep penetration?

Sex is penetration. Unless dia was no penetration at all, maybe a surface survey and it's not sex.

I ve never disflowered a woman before. I can't spill blood so I dnt know how many millimetres d hymen I placed

which virginity..... all this kids have been disflowered from their mama stomach

Mrbigman1:


Sex is penetration. Unless dia was no penetration at all, maybe a surface survey and it's not sex.

I ve never disflowered a woman before. I can't spill blood so I dnt know how many millimetres d hymen I placed

Thank you. In summary a woman can have sex without her hymen broken depending on the d**k size and how far the hymen is.

LuveU2:


Thank you. In summary a woman can have sex without her hymen broken depending on the d**k size and how far the hymen is.

I ve never done virgin before, if I meet u an u re a virgin, I go tell u to carry ur wahala go. Lol.

But I think it requires maximum strength and pressure to pass through but d article above is saying something different. Some are thin while some re thick and some re worn away out of rigorous exercise.

U can do ur manual check. If dia is a pain still wen penetrating, den u re still intact

Mrbigman1:


I ve never done virgin before, if I meet u an u re a virgin, I go tell u to carry ur wahala go Lol.

But I think it requires maximum strength and pressure to pass through but d article above is saying something different. Some are thin while some re thick and some re worn away out of rigorous exercise.

U can do ur manual check. If dia is a pain still wen penetrating, den u re still intact

The bold made me Lmao

Thank you, learnt something

LuveU2:


The bold made me Lmao

Thank you, learnt something

LuveU2

#teamnotvirgin#

No more virginity even in the virgincity

joliyp:
#teamnotvirgin#

Dayumm i like a girl who is real, blunt and honest, just like u jollyp.... love this comment