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Amotolongbo: It doesn’t change anything. You can’t change a man.
A man who will cheat will always cheat. You could still be rude and being disrespectful to a man and he won’t still cheat on you if it is not in his nature.
Just be the best a wife can be to your man and respect him
Have you tried this particular technique and he still cheated?
talented321: Upon the gra gra against men u can't help ur sister''' beside i don't think u and ur sister have any meaningful breast at this ur old age' for a man like me to admire
That kid that called you a rapist and paedophile is barely 21.
Next time, school her and teach her manners she refused to get from her home.
siofra: No. You're the disgusting one here. Rapist!
I'm sure that's how you go about looking at the breasts of minors. Paedophile.
Stop being silly.
What brought about rape and paedophilia here now? Later they'll say men shouldn't hit women, how many men can you say this to off internet without receiving the beating of your life?
If you have a rapist dad that molested you as a kid, you shouldn't use that to generalize about other men.
LagosFirstSon: I will say it again that anybody that brings tribalism into a serious news as this is a foool with offense intended
I don't care if the mod ban me or not for calling someone that made a tribalistic comment a fool.
You're the one reading it with a tribalistic mind. Even a toddler knows that Lagos is heated for Igbos especially after the election. Common sense dictates that they should thread with caution on the land so as not to aggravate issues.
CuriousStudent: YOu are talking about the elite and political class,I am talking about well earning guys going for ladies with little or no money.
Are all those tech guru or crypto traders or business men dating women like themselves?
Besides hypergamy is not just about the elite. It is about a man out earning you by a large difference.
Most girls are on monthly support by their guys.
In my undergraduate days up to three of my coursemate were engaged in their final year to guys earning well 700k+,this girls had nothing on their own.They were the ones paying their fees, rent and also put them on monthly pocket money. I will attend one wedding next month. This girls basically had nothing. That is hypergamy
Why are they not dating their fellow male coursemates?
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CuriousStudent: oga, if i am dating struggling man, am i also guaranteed they will marry me too?
You need to accept the fact that men and women want different things. When men that have fnnked dozens of ladies request for pure girls,do we complain? Or a man in his late 30s wants a girl in her early twenties does anyone complain or stop him? Do society insist they must be the same age? You all boast and already are planning on infidelity when you marry . Why? Because you know you will go scot free with it while a woman will not go scot free with marital infidelity. Do dark girls complain when their lightskin friends are getting attention ? You have seen the campaign and insults they lay on single moms on this forum,has any single mom complain or created a thread to fight back or complain?
Stop trying to project hypergamy as something unfair. The dating scene is balanced.
While every woman will not secure a rich man, it doesn't have to be that will settle.just the same way you dont have to be the one to settle for a retired prostitute. You ,yourself should strive to get the best of women and i will not resent you or judge you for it. You have got my full time support.
You are very right to an extent and I'm feeling you so well.
The daughter of a senator getting married to the son of a president is hypergamy. The daughter of a civil servant getting married to the son of a president is also hypergamy.... it's rare to see the occurrence of the latter.
Just look at the children of Alakija, Dangote, Dantata, Otedola, Buhari, Tony Elumelu, etc and look at the calibre of family they're married/engaged to.
CuriousStudent: So you will force me not to be broke? Lol.
I am as broke as a church rat,yet I am always with rich guys,and will marry a rich man.
What can you do about it? Nothing!!!
You don't get to determine the rules,if you call disprove it from now till God's kingdom come,there is nothing your can do about rich guys dating poor ladies. Or poor ladies wanting only rich men
Make peace with this knowledge
It's easy to date rich men as a broke girl, the main thing is "are they willing to marry you?".
Men are becoming more wise to realize marrying a broke woman is marrying a liability. Marrying a broke woman is marrying a woman that will leave you for another rich man if you ever go broke i.e she only loves your money not you.
CuriousStudent: Exactly,which is why women should not date broke guys . Because she is not doing him a favor or improving his life . Let him just manage the little he have,alone.
Simple
Good. Make sure you aren't broke too cos when we level up, we'll date our class and circus.
It's safe to say you've outgrown this forum. The way NL was to you back then is the same way NL is to us(younger folks) right now.
The way some of you will look at our posts and say "kids have taken over NL" is the same way we will look at the posts of users later in the future and say same.
As long we were not there suffering with him from.the onset.
What is in the mind of a gold digger?you think we are not prepared for it? Lol
These polygamous nature of a man is the reason we are wary of staying with a man in his struggling day, because we know that when money comes,other women will be enjoying from our sweat . I can't stay and build a man for a 21 year old to come and be enjoying house rent from him. God forbid,I rather be the one that comes to enjoy where I did not sow than sow and some other women enjoy.
Otilo bayen! 100 percent agree.
But most times when you say you built with a man in his struggling days, it's not as if y'all added anything to him. Most ladies just don't demand as much, and stays with him during that period which is normal and expected. You didn't do me any favor by staying in my broke years.
Men are so devilish.. wicked and cruel.. Idont even know what to say..
Never ever trust your girl child with any man.. nothing but evil thoughts..
There was a thread icame across on here on Monday or so.. dude perverting after his 14years old cousin .. just imagine .. go through Samueltemi337, miracrood2 and poweredcom posts
If only Ihad the power ..
Modified: look at those ones up there asking silly questions... This gender bunch of wasted sperm... You have a rape victim, the next thing they will ask is why did she go there? What is the connection between she and the rapist ?
Y'all are sick to toes and nails
There's nothing you can do to stop rape. You can only wail on Nairaland.
That is your burden of performance as a man. I didn't make the rules.
I also have a burden as a woman. If I reach 36 years,I am undesirable to most men,while you at 36 is desirable The world is not fair.
Strive to become your very best and then pick any woman of your choice . I myself will try my best to be the very desirable and secure the commitment of the man of my dreams.
That is just it,know this and know peace
In as much as I'll like to disagree with you, you have just said the pure truth!
But once a man becomes the best version of himself and has money, obviously ladies will flock around. You have to be willing to share your man...after all, life isn't fair. Davido can tell you more.
CuriousStudent: A stingy man is the most hated of all men. Penny pinching is just not it. Women will forgive a cheat but not one that doesn't spend.
I can't be over estimating prices or lying my way just to collect cash.
I no fit. I will trim you off when I notice. Choose a cheap place(chicken republic) or ask for home dates,then you have entered the ghost list.
I want to go to heaven . Any man that will make me inflate junior school fees is a no go area.
They are always easy to spot 1) always trekking 2) saving drinks from occasions so they don't have to buy drinks to entertain their female guests. 3) asking for house dates 4)will collect the change from bike ( for those of you demeaning yourself by dating men that will make you jump bikes. Until the silencer of the bike burns your leg or you fall into a ditch)
And the rest
So we should not collect our change from bikemen again?
CuriousStudent: Why not? I have been attending school for over 20 years,I am tired. I need rest.
The question is ,what type of house wife?
A. To take care of kids and watch over the house. Wait for oga to bring money for house and climb you at night.
B. Housewife of a rich man. You wake up,direct the domestic staff on what to do. They performed all the choices. You go on outings,see movies and social activities during the day. You bond and play with your kids. Read them bed time stories. Pray with them. Wait for oga to return. Welcome him your warmth and care. Kneel to serve him the dinner you made and fufil your duties in the oda room.
I like plan B, not plan A
Not everyone will marry a rich man because not every man will be rich.
TemplarLandry: How sure are you the gun he brandished was unregistered?
Ak 47 is a weapon authorized for usage for only force personnels.
Nobody will register an AK 47 for a non force personnel. Even at that, it remains illegal at large for a force personnel to bear AK 47 outside of duty hours/posts.
Tayga: You really need to get a job,you act,think and behave like a miscreant.you sure has nothing to loose being a miscreant online.stop attacking ladies online. To the moderator of this thread,I m raising a motion here that this entity should be given a long term ban. Seun osewa kindly do the needful.
Raise your motion in the house of reps. If you aren't jobless also, you'd have ignored like others.
ahnie: Nothing beats a hustling how wife that can afford some basic things,cater to the kids needs without depending on her husband...it beats see finish and gives you an edge.
Being a full time housewife is a curse, except she is working from home.
Just say their dead beat dad abandoned y'all cos why should it be only you doing all those stuffs.
I feel for you. How can I donate #200 to your kids?
ahnie: Junkie I have people working for me i pay them monthly,I have 5 joints I'm a boss lady,I have a clothing line to my name and a flourishing catering outfit.even if I stay my house for 2 years I go still eat Wella and give my family a good life. I m a CEO,a boss,an iron lady, something your mama n miserable sisters nor go ever be.
Stop poaching on innocent lil kids around you Stupid deadbeat father.
NOW can the same be said of you? You're a common security riffraff piping on a meagre 30k salary,which is probably gonna end on a jumbo loaf of bread.
And oh for your insults, they're stale and as weak as your mother's bra ; Get a life,quit illicit drugs and stop being a SLAVE. Come work for me.
Try take your mama comot from hook up o,e get why. See you panting like a cockrel...JUNKIE Awon....Boss anything for your boy
Take your drugs....it's well with your frustrated soul.
I only need to post 2-3 sentences to trigger an epistle from you.😂😂😂😂
Keep dreaming. You're a boss and you can't afford to feed like before because of hardship. Look at your foods like sacrifices.
Take out of the money you use to pay your imaginary workers to feed yourself and your kids, since their deadbeat father wouldn't provide.