₦airaland Forum

Farid24224:
Those are for the pros na .

Spalding, Wilson and co.
I have a Wilson basketball, it's over 6 years old..My uncle gave it to me..He is a coach for a Chinese club for kids..

So how much should I budget for the "non pro"?

FutureIsFemale:
Men and Rape.

Take

Farid24224:
Yeah it is..The bigger problem is basketballs are very expensive...The cheapest and mediocre quality is 6000

Yes o.

I know a guy that bought his 25k sometime ago.

Chibuezem:
lol it's alright tribalism is just a life in you

When did stating the obvious become tribalism?

Imagine a white american saying "50% of the crime committed in the US are by blacks".Are you going to term him/her a racist?Is it a lie?

We all know how a particular tribe loves money too much.The good ones will work hard legally while the bad ones will peddle drugs abroad and tarnish our image.

I'm not a tribalist.I have Igbo inlaws!!

Chibuezem:
so it's only igbos that are destroying the image of the country abi.....

Yeah that's why the only Nigerians in Malaysian, Italian and Indian prison are flat heads.

Munamoqel:
you think they are bunch of iresponsible kids like people in southern Nigeria that see getting honey and been s...x by several men before they are 17 .or sell sex for 2k up and down in the name of been mordern.This the real backwardness of a people.

So you're still pained by my bullets that hit you that day?
Still doesn't make you less of a backward terrorist.
Try harder next time

Farid24224:
Everyone is a noob when they first entered the court..I started basketball about two years back during the lockdown period...You just have to go there and befriend someone that's not so good in the sport because he is much likely to spend time learning it.

Wow thanks!

Not having your own ball too is a prob!

gaius01:
Firstly, get your balls so that you won't be denied ball. That's what I am facing sometimes here.
It depends on the court you are practicing. Try and look for a court that allow newbies like you to learn.... A secondary school court will be nice compare to university's own. When I train they have two court, 1. For the big boys while the other for learners like us... So try and find around. I have told my self too that I must reach a height of 2.0m God's Grace.

My uni has like 2-3 courts in our sports complex.Then one court in each hostels numbering about 4-5 and usually empty many times.

The problem is,I need a trainer.I don't know jack!How to shoot,layups,rebounds, dribbling e.t.c.I need someone that will just show me.
Unfortunately, everybody is interested in playing,no one wants to teach.

DoggoneDogg:
MC Oluomo has started recruiting Kaduna mercenaries for his NURTW showdown with Istijabar using indian hemp & Bourdillon cocaine.

Afonja and criminal ingenuity is second to none.

You're lucky they refused to mention the names of the flat headed culprits.You for hear am tonight!

Jeon:
Egypt
Tunisia
Libya
Morocco
Algeria.
Sudan
West Sahara.

MODIFIED
Burundi
Djibouti
Eritrea
Malawi
Mali
Ethiopia
Lagos
Jos
Kano
Enugu
Kenya
Botswana
Madagascar
Zimbabwe
Rwanda
Somalia
South Sudan

Nigeria is better than lagos,jos, kano,enugu??
Please tell me the exact day you go get sense.. I can't wait.

PriyaK:
I saw him using, so asked what this is?

So he's a Nairalander!
He can see your posts!!!

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

I started playing basketball around 5'8 now I'm around 6'1.

How do you suggest I can learn bball?
At the court, everyone is skilled and playing.
No room for a noob like me.

PriyaK:
28

Brilliant!

So how did you get to know Nairaland?

Quality20:
hardly do all these types of southern types of dating cos they are mostly virgin and won't sex except on their wedding night

Won't sex till wedding?
Don't they get hörny??

PriyaK:
Yes, I am an Indian. Is there anyway to make him more open, my ex was very good in these kind of things so I never had to do anything?

I just told you to take the lead and lead by example.
You want him to be more romantic?Then romance him!

What's your age category if you don't mind?
Maybe 20 to 23 or 27 to 30 e.t.c

Kobojunkie:
1. I am sure it did.

2. Your wife is a human being. If she can't bare her soul to you, then what is she to you and who are you to her?

3. Fortunately, the law in Nigeria no longer sees it that way.

4. The law only pardons the offender in the case that the offended chooses not to file charges. The law is not stupid that it should decide who to charge and who not to charge based on arbitrary ideas such as the one you expressed there.

In that same Nigeria, there are men who had to sit many weeks in jail simply for slapping a woman... meaning the woman in question made sure her attacker was charged to the fullest extent of the law.

The only reason I know if for which a wife would likely not allow such in her husband's case is what I would called Osinachi syndrome, she has been emotionally reduced to believing her marriage certificate is worth more than her dignity, even life.

5. I understand! This type of reasoning is new to Africans who believe instead that by virtue of being born an outie, they are bestowed with powers over the other gender. And so when spoken to of personal responsibility and mental discipline, it grinds against the very core of their being .. . Yet these same ooooh and aaargh in amazement at how much civil and human those in more developed climes seem to approach even the most testing of situations.

So my wife can't bare her soul to me without being offensive and provocative?

I was enjoying the argument till this.

FutureIsFemale:
I don't seek for attention hence why you would never see me on romance section of this forum.

I seek to liberate women. I'm women/female advocate.

Take

FutureIsFemale:
Why always men in most evil news? Why are this set of people out there to destroy?
Sincerely speaking I'm really tired of men.

Take

Uptownerd:
What do you think?

Visit www.uptownerd.com for more interesting reads.

Where is the fire?

Life without Nigerian girlfriend, peaceful and sweet.
Life without foreign girlfriend, stressful!

#ForeignAllTheWay

Jeon:
BB

P+

You no fit get sense again

Sergio103:
...... thanks.

But makes no sense bro.


Infact...... outta here!!!!

Who expects a flat head to find sense in a sensible matter?When it's not drugs you called them to come and peddle.That's the only thing they find sense in.

Kobojunkie:
1. In the world of adults, your emotions are your responsibility, not someone else's. If you decide to get upset when someone intentionally provokes you, the one who did the provoking committed no crime that he/she can be charged with.

A wife/husband shoudn't need to walk on shells around her/his husband/wife. She/he should be able to express herself/himself well around her/his spouse without fear of provoking an angry response. So long as the conversation is not of verbal or emotional abuse, two adults ought to be able and free with each other as intimate partners ought to.

2. The only person that can cause you anger is you. Again, you are responsible as an adult for your own emotions - no one else bears that responsibility on your behalf. And no one should have to walk on shells around you and your ego as an adult.

As I already explained numerous times before now, the reason the angry partner is adviced to leave the home is to avoid him/her resorting to physical violence due to their inability to control what is their own emotions.

Physical abuse is a misdemeanor punishable by jail time even in Nigeria.

Sincerely your post got me pissed.Are you really the one who typed that?
So my wife can talk to me anyhow and I'll still be blamed if I get angry?
Well,women that talk anyhow to their husbands,the swollen face and bruised body they get is a lesson.

Just so you know,the law can pardon an offender on a strong basis of being provoked.

I'm supposed to properly counter your post but what you typed there is pesky.I don't even wanna read it.

Kobojunkie:
We can't do that and we weren't asked to judge whether she did or did not, not by the Op at least. So of what relevance is this judgements based on what are nothing but assumptions?,

OP asked if to tell his friend, the woman, not her husband.

Well, guess I focused on the part he talked about her husband accidentally seeing it.No vex

Kobojunkie:

Here again with more information. Please respond.

SCENARIO #1 A woman and a man are having an argument about feeding money for instance. The man storms out in anger because his wife insists he needs to bring more money to feed his family with, this instead of her cutting back on food since the hike in cost of food is reason for the need.

Who amongst the two parties do you think has anger issues that needs to be worked on?

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SCENARIO #2, A woman and a man are having an argument about how much of each should contribute from their paychecks for the upcoming rent. The woman demands the man should bring 90% of his pay because the last time he spent the money drinking , and gambling, leaving her to spend all of her money instead.. The man storms out in anger because he felt insulted by his wife.

Whicn of the two do you think has anger issues that needs to be worked on?

SCENARIO 1: The man has anger issues because what the woman said is not enough to anger him.I am assuming the woman spoke respectfully.

SCENARIO 2:In as much as the woman is being unrealistic (who contributes 90% income to rent?), it's still not enough reason to anger the man that way.So,the man has the anger issues here.

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But it can't always go like this.There are always cases where the man doesn't have anger issues but the wife will provoke him to anger.This is actually what I'm talking about.

There are women out there that ALWAYS disrespect and flare up at their husbands unnecessarily causing anger to such husband.For how long will such husband keep leaving his house when the wife is clearly the problem?

Kobojunkie:
I honestly don't even see the relevance of knowing when the video was made to any of what OP asked ether.

The video could have been made years ago for all we know as well. So, since the Op does not know and the gal not here to tell us, there is no sense in arguing it.

The relevance is so we could know if she was cheating on the man or not.
If it was a case of cheating, I'll say OP should keep quiet so as not to spoil her marriage.
If it wasn't a case of cheating,he can tell her and she too can comfortably carry her husband along.

But yeah we don't know when it was recorded.

Kobojunkie:
Your post indicated that it was the man who was provoked to anger.

2. You didn't say anything about the woman to warrant my saying anything about her is why.

If a woman and a man are having an argument about feeding money for instance, and the man storms out in anger. Who do you think has anger issues that needs to be worked on?

3. No sides taken here since no reason for it.

There are two parties to an argument.The man can't provoke himself and leave the house.It has to involve the woman too.
To be objective enough,you need to come from both sides.

For the emboldened,there is limited information to decide.What if the man gave the money but the wife complained that the money was too little.In the process,the wife insulted him and compared him to other men.The man got angry and stormed out?
So I can't decide.

Kobojunkie:
Like I said... the one who has seen the video and the very same one who claims to know the woman, didn't mention anything about the video being made during the courtship period.... so?,

If you make a sex video with your man,will you tell all your friends?

If No,how then were you expecting the OP to know when it was recorded?

Kobojunkie:
Ok, so long as the man left because he was provoked .I.e. he got angry, then the man in this case needs to learn to become emotionally mature so he is not so easily provoked and then wouldn't need to walk out of his house when an argument ensues.

Why are you talking only about the man?
Why are you not saying the woman should be mature and not provoke the man always?

I don't want to believe you're taking sides.

Kobojunkie:
Op, says he is a friend of the lady , and he also watched the video. He ain't saying that it was made during the courtship between the two. So?

Did he say he knows when it was recorded?
He only knew when it was uploaded.

So back to my question,how are we to know that it wasn't recorded while they were together?

Kobojunkie:
Bring what trouble? What is this trouble you claim she brings?

Is it asking you for money that you construe as trouble/offense? Is she attempting to bring your attention to responsibilities which you avoid for reasons unknown to her? Define "trouble" so we are clear if you are speaking here of couple's argument or a case of abuse?,

The trouble I mean is the provocation that made the man leave the house in the first instance.

Kobojunkie:
Read the OP again abeg! The video was uploaded, not made, about 2 months to the wedding, is what we are told.

Okay.

How do we now know it wasn't recorded while they were together?