This thread might look funny. However d use of d word Traps is used in order for majority to understand what i mean. b4 ppl start asking silly questions on traps etc I will like to explain it this way so others can understand better.

Some people believe in setting traps in form of test to know if dia bf/gf/fiance/fiancee in order to know his/her level of trust in a relationship.

The test vary from reaction to money/material issue, How stingy he/she could be, how faithful and comitted he/she is towards d relationship. How honest he/she could be towards d relationship, Some go as far as setting traps for dia spouses to know dia real character and disposition towards d relationship in dia absence etc.

So. whats ur take on this? Do u feel its that important? or u feel everyone shud just let things go their way?

Fell free to share ur opinion or stories.

Goodnight.

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it looks childish.....the foundation of every relationships should always be trust, without which itz baseless

Walexsammy:
it looks childish.....the foundation of every relationships should always be trust, without which itz baseless

Nice one. However most ladies will dissagre wth u.

Smellymouth:

Indeed a smellymouth..

akinsal:

Indeed a smellymouth..

At your siggy, where did you do your HSE certification --- Institute of Safety Professional of Nigeria (iSPON)?

akinsal:

Nice one. However most ladies will dissagre wth u.

ofcuz, everyone with his/her opinion

If u set trap

E con back fire

U go say she break your hrt abi

This is unnecessary to put a trap in any relationship...
Its like ur forcing things to unfold the characteristics of ur partner...


No trap for me...eventually if ur partner got an attitude, it will juz unveil naturally..

Smellymouth:

That mouth looks like a water well

why go into a relationship if you do not trust the other person?

Setting a trap is useless, we are all human, we are bound to fail at some point, the bad characteristics of ur partner will unveil itself as time goes on. Sometimes what we see ain't the actual truth.

d only person God gave power to set trap & test 4 humans is d devil d height any guy or gal can go is to take time & observe ur partner & witin time u'll definitely get d information U're seeking but honest if a galfwend, fiancee, luver etc decides to test ma fidelity status or sets trap 4 me wit any of her fwends or random babe honestly I gonna screw dat ass like no man's business

Ur trap might catch u

Monalisa185:
setting a trap is okay, just be sure it can catch an antelope

I'm on yr tail tonight cos yo just so full of wits. I'm following u back in fact

We all have moments when we are emotionally down so if you set the trap at that time and your partner falls, what do you stand to gain? You would eventually get to know your partner well enough if you take time to study him/her. You don't have to intentionally set yourselves up for failure....its like desoerately finding a reason to fail. I u derstand people that do these things though, trustworthy people are hard to find these days....just don't push people above their limits coz they DEFINATELY will fall!

KashyBaby:



That mouth looks like a water well

Kikikiki....

How can u go into a relationship with someone u dnt trust sef? Sha i dnt reali blame gals that do dis cuz some guyz ehn.....okay my answer is that itz okay to test ur patner o if u guys r okay, he/she will definately pass the 'TEST' buh dnt go nd play expensive jokes o like faking pregnancy or sth lyk dat

OP There is this chinese curse which states thus "May you find what you are looking for"

Girls are pretentious being, so I always "set trap" for em(as if dem be rabbit )

pinceprinz:


I'm on yr tail tonight cos yo just so full of wits. I'm following u back in fact

lol...me wey sleep off sf...didn't know you were following me backtoback

modified: wait ooo, what happened to the initial follow? you unfollowed everyone? why?

Smellymouth:

At your siggy, where did you do your HSE certification --- Institute of Safety Professional of Nigeria (iSPON)?

Whats ISPON??

Monalisa185:


lol...me wey sleep off sf...didn't know you were following me backtoback

modified: wait ooo, what happened to the initial follow? you unfollowed everyone? why?

Imagine having well close to a thousand following message to read and as a result getting tempted and feeling a strong urge to explore and respond to the threads so encountered so much so you waste tangible time without knowing. Now, that's bad habit!