There is this girl am dating back then in skool, we later met in lagos and continue the relationship.
    only for her to tell me one ugly day that she want to be with me in future but there is this guy she is with.
    believe u me i don't know what she meant and what to do right now.

she don't want you, what are you going to do apart from move on!

What do you mean by you dont know what she meant. She basically just told to get lost i guess you undertand that

Ehe now! What's not to understand?
She's going to marry her fiancee but whenever the guy dies, she'll marry you, so keep ur fingers crossed,u neva know!

r u wishihg a fellow NL "tokunbo" wife?

biola44:

r u wishihg a fellow NL "tokunbo" wife?

The guy deserves a third hand wife even. How can he post such a thing? You are dating another man's wife to be and you have the guts to come here and seek our advice. Do you think we are jobless people in here?

Stop hanging, move ahead!

sorry you guys i thought i ve u to confide in, never knew u're too busy
to help a broda with an advice. Thanx any way.

@ biola44
No, i'm not WISHING a fellow nairalander "tokunbo wife", i'm ADVICING a fellow nairalander.

wake up men.  i think she is done with you. move on

kokoA:

The guy deserves a third hand wife even. How can he post such a thing? You are dating another man's wife to be and you have the guts to come here and seek our advice. Do you think we are jobless people in here?

third hand ke? iyen ti poju ju now, i think the guy will be better off with nigerian use. is it after she is being usend and dumped by an idiot before she will be yours? i think you need to sit with her one on one and sort this out. make your stand known to her clearly that "it is you or never" that way you will know your fate. i hate it to see a woman double dating and still be confident to tell her boyfriend that she's doubledating. what kind of girl is she sef? asawo in disguise?

@poster
think about it for a minute. . . . . . . . . this girl has a boyfriend and yet makes plans to be with you. if she can do that with THIS boyfriend, then what makes you think she will not do that with you? a lying skank is a LYING SKANK however you want to look at it. move on and hope to meet a good women that is right for you.
no matter how good you think that girl is, she aint. she has no relationship ethics, she is a liar, she is a rat, she is deceiving and deceitful, not trustworthy and dishonest.
WHAT MORE WARNING SIGNS DO YOU NEED?!
ps: the same way you get this girl is the same way you will loose her.

MoneyRule:

Ehe now! What's not to understand?
She's going to marry her fiancee but whenever the guy dies, she'll marry you, so keep ur fingers crossed,u neva know!

Lol

Sorry bro, let her go, you can do better than that anyway. How can she have a finace and be telling you that she wants something long term with you? She has made her choice, don't let her deceive you.