Hello dear nairalanders, there is this thread i saw on nairaland fp, about a man with a female brest who came to a church. And since that day i saw that thread my mind has not been at rest ever since, because i have been living with the same condition for over 5 years now, without anybody knowing except myself.
I have this big tissue on both sides on my brest under my nipple, it looks like a seed, at first when it first started it was so very painful for me, but now it is no longer painful.
I think i have endured this very shameful burden for so long now and i think now its the time i seek some solution to it before it will be too late.
Let me give a brief explanation on how this problem has affected my life in so many ways.
I will be 22 on july 13 this year.
It first noticed this tissue growing on my chest in the year 2009 it looks like a woman's brest and to make matter worst it did't match my skin colour its more fairer than my actual skin. It all started when i was still in secondary school i was in SS1 then, it caused me so many embarassment then because its showing in my uniform when ever the breeze is blowing towards my direction, you will notice that there is something in there, i avoided all forms of gatherings including my school assemblings, i avoided camps like a plague, i no longer use bare chest into the bathroom, not even singlet, i always wear shirts into the bathroom, since the year 2009 till date am still wearing shirts to the bathroom when ever am about to take my bath, and in all no body not even my mother or any of my family members has ever seen my chest or my back since 2009 till date as am typing this now, never had a relationship with any girl since then.
It has caused me great pains and sorrows, i just think i should end my life now because of this problem am so ashamed of my self, i don't know what to do with my life my life has been very miserable and pitiful since this problem started i just hate my self, i always loves been alone and i only moves at night with my normal shirts, any single movement in the daytime from me i always goes with my big sweater to make it less noticeable.
Am tired of life, my life is so frustrated and miserable all am always thinking about is how to end my life.
please nairalanders help me please if at all there is any solution to this problem. I want to know and how much it will cost to get rid of it.
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Please mods help me push this to front page to get more reviews and replys.

Hmm
I think u should go see the doctor

chiefolododo:
Cut it

. . Please help me, i don't think that i need this kind of advice please

I THINK ure suffering from d medical condition, GYNECOMASTIA otherwise known as man boobs.
its mainly caused by hormonal disorders...maybe ur testosterone level is low.
there are diff ways of treating it.
ill suggest u try weightlifting and other exercises mainly aimed at improving chest mass.
visit ur doctor, u might get a lyposuction(or watever it is called).
dont feel bad bro, i didnt kill myself, u dont have to.
peace

Modified : pix of it has been uploaded, its at (page 4)

LazyGoat:

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Thank you sir, but sir have you experienced the same problem am experiencing now and if yes how do you got rid of it.
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Thank you sir

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OP how old are you?

zeetyzin:

yes i experienced it when i attained puberty.
there where some hard tissues arround both nipples..
but they became soft some years after.
i did some weight lifting to boost my chest muscles which in turn occupied the fatty space.
hit the gym bro, it works

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Thank you sir, i will hit the gym starting from today, but mine are big and they are also strong, and its stuck together under the nippless, i have been unable to take my shirt off for so many years now which in turn has made me not to have any girlfriend for so many years now.

brandnew3:
OP how old are you?

. . Am 21years of age sir, but i will be 22 this year July 13th

As others have said.

Hit the gym, consider body building it will build your chest muscles and decrease the fat.

Its a hormonal issue, it can be resolved by surgery to remove the breast tissue but that's expensive and can only be done abroad.

Its pretty common so no need to be depressed about it.

In the meantime you can bind your chest if you find it embarrassing. Buy crepe bandage in any pharmacy and simply wrap it around your chest region and use a safety pin.

If you are too embarrassed to go to the gym use the internet and look for exercises for men to build chest muscles. Eat more protein and build up your chest.

salsera:
As others have said.

Hit the gym, consider body building it will build your chest muscles and decrease the fat.

Its a hormonal issue, it can be resolved by surgery to remove the breast tissue but that's expensive and can only be done abroad.

Its pretty common so no need to be depressed about it.

In the meantime you can bind your chest if you find it embarrassing. Buy crepe bandage in any pharmacy and simply wrap it around your chest region and use a safety pin.

If you are too embarrassed to go to the gym use the internet and look for exercises for men to build chest muscles. Eat more protein and build up your chest.

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This is very heapful ma, expecially the binding of the chest, may God Almighty continue to bless you and your family. You really releaved me with this. Thank you

Moved to Health Section!!

You have never been to the Doctor's since 2009? And Mom or anyone at home never asked you why you always put on your clothes to the bathroom? I really feel your pain, visit a Doctor ASAP.

LazyGoat:

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Am 21years of age sir, but i will be 22 this year July 13th

It might be signs of attaining puberty. Most boys have that lump on the breast thing at age 13 or thereabout.

modelmike7:
You have never been to the Doctor's since 2009? And Mom or anyone at home never asked you why you always put on your clothes to the bathroom? I really feel your pain, visit a Doctor ASAP.

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No sir, i have never been to the doctor since the year 2009 concerning this issue, and at the bolded my mum has asked me so many times when she first noticed, but now its of no concern to her because she its already used to seeing me with clothes to the bathroom.

RoyalRoy:
Moved to Health Section!!

. . Please sir, help me to push this topic to front page sir

I THINK ure suffering from d medical condition GYNECOMASTIA otherwise known as man boobs.
its mainly caused by hormonal disorders...maybe ur testosterone level is low.
there are diff ways of treating it.
ill suggest u try weightlifting and other exercises mainly aimed at improving chest mass.
visit ur doctor, u might get a lyposuction(or watever it is called).
dont fell bad bro, i didnt kill myself, u dont have to.
peace

talk to your parents about it. then you go to a doctor together. do not fight this battle alone. no matter how hard it may be please voice out. even Jesus needed simon Peter to help him carry the cross

you need to see a psychologist too. your self-esteem is critically low and can affect your progress in life. no matter how much advice you are given, the final choice is yours.

It's will be so fun to have a bf like you, playing with your breast in the bedroom, I can imagine how it's gonna feel like

My brother, all you need is just a corrective surgery (so to speak) to get them off and PLEASE DON'T let anyone ever come to you to tell you you need deliverance or some sort of miracle.
But sincerely, I suggest you open up to people around you especially your parents - you might just get all the help you want and need.
It is well with you.

.....And Jesus said, "any part of your body that won't take you to heaven, CUT IT OFF"

OP it's nothing to contemplate suicide about, see your doctor.


So many men gather b00b, you won't be the first.

Ok

Pix or i dont bye it,...in OLX advert voice, END IT

Lol

Ur moniker tho?

Have u gone to a doctor to see if it is malignant?

You have a Medical Problem that was never attended to most likely since you were born. There are hormones responsible for breast development in female which men don't have but because of inborn errors, some men could have the breast becoming big like that of women (Gynecomastia).

I feel you Need to see a Doctor except there are other things outside the female breast that you might possess