Disclaimer: This is a honest opinion compiled from the views of others including mine.(I.e Results of a survey).

As ladies, when we were growing up, our "role-models" and "elders" used to tell us that we should be clean, pure, sexually rigid, trusting, don’t nag, laugh at all his jokes, clean up after him, be a good cook, and most importantly – do not cheat on him with another man. These are all good values and habits we’re told will attract the right kind of man into our lives, men who will provide for us and our potential children.

But, unbeknownst to most women out there, most of this advice is outdated and old fashioned. These are modern times, and traditional ways to conduct yourself in a relationship sometimes don’t produce the best results or don’t apply anymore. Studies have revealed that over 65% of women in a monogamous relationship have cheated on their partners, will another 27% claim they’ve thought about it or would like to at some point. It’s hard to argue with statistics like that.

1. The best defense is a good offense.

Most women agree that men are hard wired to cheat. It’s sad but true. They are biologically hard wired to spread their seed as much as they can with as many females they can to ensure they further their blood line. It’s not their fault, but regardless, it has been the downfall of many relationships. That’s why this reason has made #1 on our list. Ladies, it’s time to beat your man to the chase and cheat on him first! This helps you secure the dominant role in the relationship, and makes sure he’s too occupied with chasing you around and checking up on you to find someone to cheat in you with.

2. It keeps things interesting and exciting for you.

It’s a sad reality, but many women end up becoming bored, lonely, and sometimes even depressed when stuck in a monotonous, monogamous relationship for a long period of time. Relationships have ended up failing simply due to the fact that the people involved are bored out of their minds with each other. This is why it’s good to spice things up once in a while, at least for yourself, by adding a new, secret partner into your bed.


3. Sleeping with other people expands your sexual expertise.

You know what they say, practice makes perfect. This adage isn’t just for learning how to play a guitar or how to speak a new language. Having multiple sexual partners ensures your exposure to many different ways to have sex, and ways to please people. There is a cornucopia of sexual knowledge out there just waiting for you to hump it. So go out there, learn new things with new people, and bring it back into the bedroom to wow your man! He’ll probably be too busy enjoying himself to wonder where you’ve picked up all these new techniques!

4. You may find assholes who will make you appreciate your own relationship even more.

Mainly because there are so many of them out there to choose from. You may happen to find one of these “assholes” in which to have your secret love affair with. His disrespectful, demeaning attitude towards you may be charming at first, but in the end it could end up making you appreciate your own Prince Charming waiting for you at home even more, because while assholes are fun to date, they’re not fun to play house with.

AND SAVING THE BEST FOR LAST....

5. Men secretly want you to cheat on them.

As stated in #1, men are biologically prone to cheat in their partners. In this case, they are leading by the example in which they want you to cheat on them with. They may not come right out and say it to your face, but rest assured, they find the idea of you sleeping with another man thrilling. It’s a competitive thing for them, with you being the prize. Who will she come home to tonight? I bet it’s going to be me, after all, I have the biggest muscles!


Do you agree? Share your thoughts.

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Naija ladies know more than you, in fact they are experts in that line, this is just copy and paste and it shows you are a learner.

Vinshu come nd cheat wit me

HOEbelievable


Hoes ti take over.

She may have a point , at least the pussy will go round. Its means more sex.

Sorry OP, but I am an anti "cheating"...I can't stand with a relationship that my man is a cheater..if he can't commit to me whole heartedly, the door is open very wide he can move his ass out of my place with no drama...

I totally disagree!

Wtf is all those rubbish?vinshu you make no sense at all,

i hope you can sit your daughter down i.e if you have one or in future when you have one and advice her to cheat on her hubby.


Nonsense!

Hmm ladies pls.... Will all that stop Ghana from requesting visa from us b4 visiting them?

This is a hard pill to swallow.

For those who do not understand. The disclaimer is simply telling you not to try this at home.

Seriously

In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is King.

Il stick to the old-fashioned rule... Don't cheat on ur spouse. I luv my pride much more than the thirst for d1cks.

Monalisa185:
with thus very thread, I'm forced to believe the person behind that moniker is not even a female

this person is just bent on giving the female folks a bad name, ...like seriously, what the heck was that?

thank God have seen someone else who is thinking what's on my mind.. have been noticing that nigga too and am sure he his a guy because a real female won't be posting most of his comments on NL.. buh I just keep quiet dey look..

Lamentation of a Lonely lady.. Lol..

Op, your post is full of sh*t! And I'm sure you ain't got balls to pull half of it off..

I understand you lady, I really do...

Two wrong doesn't make right

Olusanya333:
Two wrong doesn't make right

Read it again, the article isn't referring to cheating because of a cheating partner

WTF?

Mods...

Vinshu:


Read it again, the article isn't referring to cheating because of a cheating partner

I'm confused.

mtcheeeeeeeeeew we get it, you are a public good

And because we have many men who are faithful out there this statement of yours

Most women agree that men are hard wired to cheat

is nonsensical and should be dismissed with immediate alacrity especially seeing that these faithful men are regarded as the real men.

Take your shitty advice to your country women.

I can't stick to one man for now afterall am not married yet

Vinshu:
Disclaimer: This is a honest opinion compiled from the views of others including mine.(I.e Results of a survey).

As ladies, when we were growing up, our "role-models" and "elders" used to tell us that we should be clean, pure, sexually rigid, trusting, don’t nag, laugh at all his jokes, clean up after him, be a good cook, and most importantly – do not cheat on him with another man. These are all good values and habits we’re told will attract the right kind of man into our lives, men who will provide for us and our potential children.

But, unbeknownst to most women out there, most of this advice is outdated and old fashioned. These are modern times, and traditional ways to conduct yourself in a relationship sometimes don’t produce the best results or don’t apply anymore. Studies have revealed that over 65% of women in a monogamous relationship have cheated on their partners, will another 27% claim they’ve thought about it or would like to at some point. It’s hard to argue with statistics like that.

1. The best defense is a good offense.

Most women agree that men are hard wired to cheat. It’s sad but true. They are biologically hard wired to spread their seed as much as they can with as many females they can to ensure they further their blood line. It’s not their fault, but regardless, it has been the downfall of many relationships. That’s why this reason has made #1 on our list. Ladies, it’s time to beat your man to the chase and cheat on him first! This helps you secure the dominant role in the relationship, and makes sure he’s too occupied with chasing you around and checking up on you to find someone to cheat in you with.

2. It keeps things interesting and exciting for you.

It’s a sad reality, but many women end up becoming bored, lonely, and sometimes even depressed when stuck in a monotonous, monogamous relationship for a long period of time. Relationships have ended up failing simply due to the fact that the people involved are bored out of their minds with each other. This is why it’s good to spice things up once in a while, at least for yourself, by adding a new, secret partner into your bed.


3. Sleeping with other people expands your sexual expertise.

You know what they say, practice makes perfect. This adage isn’t just for learning how to play a guitar or how to speak a new language. Having multiple sexual partners ensures your exposure to many different ways to have sex, and ways to please people. There is a cornucopia of sexual knowledge out there just waiting for you to hump it. So go out there, learn new things with new people, and bring it back into the bedroom to wow your man! He’ll probably be too busy enjoying himself to wonder where you’ve picked up all these new techniques!

4. You may find assholes who will make you appreciate your own relationship even more.

Mainly because there are so many of them out there to choose from. You may happen to find one of these “assholes” in which to have your secret love affair with. His disrespectful, demeaning attitude towards you may be charming at first, but in the end it could end up making you appreciate your own Prince Charming waiting for you at home even more, because while assholes are fun to date, they’re not fun to play house with.

AND SAVING THE BEST FOR LAST....

5. Men secretly want you to cheat on them.

As stated in #1, men are biologically prone to cheat in their partners. In this case, they are leading by the example in which they want you to cheat on them with. They may not come right out and say it to your face, but rest assured, they find the idea of you sleeping with another man thrilling. It’s a competitive thing for them, with you being the prize. Who will she come home to tonight? I bet it’s going to be me, after all, I have the biggest muscles!


Do you agree? Share your thoughts.

This Vinshu likes cheating very well. I pity ur guy. If u try dat numba 5 with me, u are GONE. I pray not to met someone like u in my entire life...

Just cheat, and watch me drift away into the hands of another woman.

So sad,..cheat as an offensive cheat against a defencive cheat?....Smh


As for num 5.....if i were dating or if i were married or engaged to a cheating partner,
Say for example a cheating writer like this one,

I will gladly let her cheat i mean who could stand a hedious gaot,......i will gladly cheat and kick the lithwack labusa outta my life

WTF!

i agree with op

PureWays:
Lamentation of a Lonely lady.. Lol..

Op, your post is full of sh*t! And I'm sure you ain't got balls to pull half of it off..

I understand you lady, I really do...

Talking about 'balls', nigga she a lady..she aint gat no balls for real mehn!

tushgirl:
I can't stick to one man for now afterall am not married yet

Oloshos ti take over gan!

Evryone is entitled to their opinion..
But i totally disagree with this

Daniel2289:


This Vinshu likes cheating very well. I pity ur guy. If u try dat numba 5 with me, u are GONE. I pray not to met someone like u in my entire life...

Alright.

ifeajikap:
Vinshu come nd cheat wit me

AIDS is real!!!

Maamin:


Oloshos ti take over gan!

Go and die