Hello all,

I've once been a womaniser, and I remember those days was great and smooth until my priorities changed and I began to think differently..
Then, I just live my life nonchalantly without thinking about the effect my actions have on people (The ladies most of the time)..
All a Nigga wanna do back then was just to date a girl for fvck sake, literally... Lol..

Now, it's been difficult for me to date anyhow cos my ideal woman should have some qualities in order to help my Quest (Don't let me bore you with the long talk), so I choose wisely.. I might hit on a lady and all that but I really do care about her character, her standards and her intellect cos deep down there is a part of me that believes there is a chance I may Marry her (I don't date a girl I can't marry)..
My own goal of dating a lady is simple: It's Love and Marriage..

Thinking about how many guys pick up random girls to date have got me thinking.. Is it just for fvck sake, companionship or marriage?

So, I'm throwing this question out to Nairalanders:
What are your goals of dating?
What do you plan to achieve when you wanna start a relationship with a guy/lady?

We hav already start. N is goin to sum where

My goal for dating hmmmmm

is to be happy nd for marriage

Nd i love completely bt once i sense betrayer nd all i loose all d complete love if i'm convinced i giv all d love back its hard to convince me . So my goal is to b happy first nd den marriage


Before una go judge me to be happy to me is like aving a bestfrnd u love share things with encourage u even if u get a million no from millions of people dat person give u a yes a million times and many more


i am saying wat i dont even practice

I rarely see any dating that leads to marriage, anyone that thinks that he is dating for marriage is a fool including you, O wretched OP (oya come beat me nah).


When you want to marry, get a girl for courtship of 3 to 6 months. Anything longer than that is just for fvck and house cleaner/cooking

Relationship goals ? That's pretty hard to answer sha but aside the fact that I do it because every other person is doing it, I think its also fun sha cos you gotta act like u care even if u don't, listen even if the story is boring, blablablabla sha

halfricanadian:
My goal for dating hmmmmm

is to be happy nd for marriage

Nd i love completely bt once i sense betrayer nd all i loose all d complete love if i'm convinced i giv all d love back its hard to convince me . So my goal is to b happy first nd den marriage


Before una go judge me to be happy to me is like aving a bestfrnd u love share things with encourage u even if u get a million no from millions of people dat person give u a yes a million times and many more


i am saying wat i dont even practice

Ooh.. That's cool..

sex sex sex

ITbomb:
I rarely see any dating that leads to marriage, anyone that thinks that he is dating for marriage is a fool including you, O wretched OP (oya come beat me nah).


When you want to marry, get a girl for courtship of 3 to 6 months. Anything longer than that is just for fvck and house cleaner/cooking

Lol.. I can see the pain masked with rudeness.
Chief: Like I said earlier, I've pretty much been in the wild, I know how things get down. Many guys (like your kind) lost hope in marriage/relationship because of some heart break they've seen or experienced, but trust me, there are still good and honest relationships..

Chasing skirt everywhere will definitely affect (negative effect) an ambitious man, believe me.. So, it's better one choose his partner wisely or stay celibate till your standard of living is great but then, it will be difficult for you to believe in True love..
Don't let me bore you with my long talk I'm sure you get my point..

pinceprinz:
Relationship goals ? That's pretty hard to answer sha but aside the fact that I do it because every other person is doing it, I think its also fun sha cos you gotta act like u care even if u don't, listen even if the story is boring, blablablabla sha

Yeah, sometimes we do that just to feel among but it has never worked..

It's better to date when you really have a purpose for it..

PureWays:
don't let me bore you with my long talk I'm sure you get my point..

Nah, you just made me feel very sleepy, goodnight

Can we all just stay single pls!

ITbomb:

Nah, you just made me feel very sleepy, goodnight

Lol.. Okay..

Frei:
Can we all just stay single pls!

Why?

PureWays:
Yeah, sometimes we do that just to feel among but it has never worked..

It's better to date when you really have a purpose for it..

purpose? lol... I hear you sha

pinceprinz:

purpose? lol... I hear you sha

Yeah, purpose.
I know what you thinking, lol.. I'm not trynna preach here..

PureWays:
Why?

too much lamentation about relationships from this generation... but if we can all stay single' we would all be happy... no need to complain about your spouse, gf, bf.... it would be like the good old days when our momma sang us to sleep but now we're stressed out!

PureWays:
Yeah, purpose. I know what you thinking, lol.. I'm not trynna preach here..

No , you don't know what I'm thinking.

pinceprinz:


No , you don't know what I'm thinking.

Okay.

Frei:
too much lamentation about relationships from this generation... but if we can all stay single' we would all be happy... no need to complain about your spouse, gf, bf.... it would be like the good old days when our momma sang us to sleep but now we're stressed out!

How do you suggest we procreate?

PureWays:
How do you suggest we procreate?

Lol hmmmm.... easy na' the sex thing would be on... but the I love you shii' won't be involved....

;Dprimary goal: fr love secondary goal:married university goal: sexprimary goal: fr love secondary goal:married university goal: sexprimary goal: fr love secondary goal:married university goal: sex

hmmmmm @OP, am just dating this pump attendant so that i can get fuel quicker and cheaper.

Gebbson007:
;Dprimary goal: fr love
secondary goal:married
university goal: sexprimary goal: fr love
secondary goal:married
university goal: sexprimary goal: fr love
secondary goal:married
university goal: sex

Ooh.. Okay..

judey1992:
hmmmmm @OP, am just dating this pump attendant so that i can get fuel quicker and cheaper.

everybody knows the primary aim of dating is to furk even if we all want to pretend, all d talk (lies), gift, care n d rest must lead to one thing "furk"

To love and be loved.

To fvck and be fvcked! It's a Win-Win situation

ITbomb:
I rarely see any dating that leads to marriage, anyone that thinks that he is dating for marriage is a fool including you, O wretched OP (oya come beat me nah).


When you want to marry, get a girl for courtship of 3 to 6 months. Anything longer than that is just for fvck and house cleaner/cooking

Choi just like your name, your mouth na bomb too
Can't stop laughing
The part that cracked me up is O wretched OP

LuveU2:
To love and be loved.

Gimme a chance make i love you nau?

ITbomb:
I rarely see any dating that leads to marriage, anyone that thinks that he is dating for marriage is a fool including you, O wretched OP (oya come beat me nah).


When you want to marry, get a girl for courtship of 3 to 6 months. Anything longer than that is just for fvck and house cleaner/cooking

So you just pick a random girl for courtship or how?

I date for the purpose of marriage which must not necessarily mean that sex will be involved. For me, dating is a learning process where i get to know whether to acquire her or let her go.

LuveU2:
To love and be loved.

What's the essence of love if it's gonna hurt i.e When it doesn't lead to anything productive?