obiaguna:



Oh men. How is he doing now? People should actually try to meet up with most of their goals before they get married. We also have to take our time. I guess everybody is just subscribing to the whole bae and boo bandwagon. Loneliness is not a bad thing, and if well utilized, can turn into blessings for you and your future partner. It's hard, but if young people can get busy trying to better themselves with proper investments and other things, marriage would be very enjoyable.

I concur!

Nancy2016:


Please learn how to proofread before posting. As an adult you make your own decisions. If you know you can't afford to have kids, wait till you can. You should never bow to pressure. People may talk, but it's your life and you are the one responsible for your kids.

Imagine a member of this world talking as if he came from another planet. Are you claiming your phisical life has absolute control of your emotional life? Try to imagine life experience before you build assumption, even if you are advocate of planned parenthood, when the urge to be a father comes you will forget adulthood. More so, show me a woman who will agree with a man, let's marry but kids till we can afford to take care of them, for how many years can she agree with that? And if you give birth to a child and you dont take care of him you have case to answer in the endtime while you may not owe anyone answer whey you are poor.

ogechieku:
Imagine a member of this world talking as if he came from another planet. Are you claiming your phisical life has absolute control of your emotional life? Try to imagine life experience before you build assumption, even if you are advocate of planned parenthood, when the urge to be a father comes you will forget adulthood. More so, show me a woman who will agree with a man, let's marry but kids till we can afford to take care of them, for how many years can she agree with that? And if you give birth to a child and you dont take care of him you have case to answer in the endtime while you may not owe anyone answer whey you are poor.

That's why there's a lot of poverty in Africa. Kids running around half-naked in the streets because their parents can't afford to take care of them. I'm a woman and I had rather wait to have kids I can afford than see my kids carry heavy loads on their heads because they need to help me sell food on the streets. That's why education is good.

Nancy2016:


That's why there's a lot of poverty in Africa. Kids running around half-naked in the streets because their parents can't afford to take care of them. I'm a woman and I had rather wait to have kids I can afford than see my kids carry heavy loads on their heads because they need to help me sell food on the streets. That's why education is good.

How can a husband be able to look his wife eyeballs to eyeballs when he is a failed state like Nigeria? How will a father be able to look his son face to face and say to him son i am sorry when the kids his like a slave in his own family. How will a mother apologise to her son on her husband's behalf...? I dont know why some men are not men enough.

ogechieku:
How can a husband be able to look his wife eyeballs to eyeballs when he is a failed state like Nigeria? How will a father be able to look his son face to face and say to him son i am sorry when the kids his like a slave in his own family. How will a mother apologise to her son on her husband's behalf...? I dont know why some men are not men enough.

You are not making sense. I'm out.

blazer234:


Pls help me tell that lady in ur dp that she is lovely. I mean them long jaw bones and them queenly noses aren't easy to come by........they only happen once in a blue moon!

Lol. Okay she will hear.

Nancy2016:


How many hairdressers have a profit of 70k per month?

Go to Bobby's Signature and Downtown salon and see for yourself. And yes, the owners are graduates

VenusBetty:
we understand, even more than the men do.

u that i knw any way u nt bad or yr pd

I will never advise anybody to marry broke.

There are basic things you must be able to afford before you marry. I know many couples where only one of them is holding down a job. So sharing the bills is not an option. If you are living in a one bedroom apartment with your wife, no matter how understanding she is, she will pressure you to expand. If a woman's biological clock is ticking and she is facing pressure from her people or in-laws, she will manipulate her man into getting her pregnant and babies are very expensive. I did not even mention the issue of dowry.

Only you knows when you are ready for marriage. If you can marry while being broke, suit yourself. The only point I agree with is the marriage ceremony. Personally, I would rather having a simple small gathering than an ostentatious event.

Adamsdelrio:
I dey smell wedding for your comment.

lol. I wasn't the only one that alluded to the fact that the piece is one of the best.

lollmaolol:

because you are directly affected.... ?

Not really, but this has always been my line of argument.

Todil:

Not really, but this has always been my line of argument.

Alright, you good bro... I should confess to you I am affected and afraid...

lollmaolol:


Alright, you good bro... I should confess to you I am affected and afraid...

You just need to be prudent about any decision you will be taking and pray over it.

Great Views... Thumps up