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True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by brendachizzy(f): 6:45am On Apr 10, 2016
“Growing up in a female dominated family taught
me a lot of life lessons – an eye-opener to women
anatomy. Although I don’t have a clue what they
do but I know that my sisters and female cousins
take their male guests to the room whenever our
parents are not in,” Jason Ugo told NAIJ.com .
He said his childhood days influenced his early
love for sex, practically, he had his first sexual
encounter at age 11 with one of his sister’s friend
who was six years older.
The parents had pornography movies which were
– to their believe, well kept away from the prying
eyes of the children, unbeknown to them that one
of them had somehow located the place. They
feasted their eyes on the VHS player before the
parents return home from work, and with higher
frequency during the holiday period.
“Sometimes NEPA will take light and we won’t be
able to remove the cassette from the machine all
the same, one day like that our Mum almost
caught us when NEPA brought light around 11pm.
I heard screams downstairs as I wasn’t far asleep,
I quickly put it off and removed the tape and took
it to my sister’s room,” He said excitedly.

He continued having sex with his sister’s friend
with the help of pornography, they carried out all
forms of act that was done in the video.

When his sisters left for the University, he couldn’t
cope as there was no woman at home, he was 13
years old and each time he watches, he will
masturbate with baby oil till he ejaculates.
“I am addicted to porn and not ashamed to say, it
was part of growing up for me, I used several
things like baby oil, soap and even open a hole
inside the mattress after I have watched the adult
movie, I enjoyed every bit of it while it lasted.
Seeing those adult movie actresses scream out
loud during the act gave him so much joy and he
goes with the flow. He enjoyed every moment. He
had his first girlfriend at the age of 16, she was
two years older and they both had sex with the aid
of porn movies.
One fateful afternoon his mother caught him in the
act with his girlfriend, who she reported to her
parents before destroying all the porn movie tapes
in the house.
“I searched everywhere and I couldn’t find the
movies, my mother did not mention a word of it to
my Dad because he didn’t ask me. Because of that
while I await my results I go to my friend’s house
to watch the movies, I will self-service and ejaculate,
then smile, I never knew it will affect me.

“I have glued to my memory each of the girls face
when they are having sex, the scream and all of
that is what I imagined and masturbate with.”
“It became so bad when I entered university and I
will leave lecture room to masturbate in the faculty
toilet, in a day I masturbated at least four times.”
“Each time I see a girl that caught my fancy, I will
take her face with me to the bathroom and each
time I’m having my bath, I will masturbate with a
whisper of her name, I became helpless and didn’t
even know who to talk to, I had no girlfriend like
others.
In my third year in the university, I met a girl in the
faculty of social science, she was endowed with
huge breasts and buttocks, she was very curvy. It
was like love at first sight.
“We became best buddies in short time and
inseparable, we only kiss and smooch. I was afraid
to make love to her as I had not been with a
woman in years. I will leave her in my room and
go to the bathroom for a quick release.
His trouble started after graduation from the
university, and during youth service, she visited
him and asked they make love. He was afraid and
scared, he didn’t know what to do.
“W e had our bath together in my small room in
Lafia, she came towards me and started stroking
my body extended to my inner laps and I was
aroused, she opened up for me and when I got
inside her I ejaculated in less than two minutes, I
was ashamed when I saw the look on her face.
After a couple of failed attempts, the girl left him
for another guy whom she eventually got married
to.
As at now, his four sisters are happily married with
kids. He works with a consultancy firm in Abuja
with no woman in his life, and often excuse himself
from work to masturbate and relief himself but
cannot stay beyond two minutes with a woman.

“ I am here, lonely and impotent, I cannot satisfy a
woman, as I enjoy masturbation. I have gone to
spiritual homes with no help, I have met sex
therapist and they cannot solve my problems.”
“My mother has been asking me to bring home a
wife, how can I tell her that I am impotent, how do
I tell my mother that masturbation is sweet, how
do I blame my parents for spoiling my life?
“But now I can only get arousal by masturbation,
but impossible with a woman,” he concluded.

https://www.naij.com/761576-true-confession-led-impotence.html?source=index_main
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Nobody: 6:53am On Apr 10, 2016
Strong one.
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by SaintAlbert53: 7:06am On Apr 10, 2016
Chaiiiiiiiiii....











i almost die for cold last night

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Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by TPAND(f): 7:29am On Apr 10, 2016
Incoherent and disjointed in a way...

Your excuses are not reason enough for your impotency. Seek medical help. Stop pushing blames, man up and take responsibility for your actions. Your parents were as you said 'unbeknown' of what you were doing. Neither did they encourage you to tow that path.

Seek medical help, something can still be done to remediate your case

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Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Ezemann(m): 7:43am On Apr 10, 2016
After all dis, some fellas will come out here and support Masturbation... NOTE: Masturbation kills run for ur life.
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Nobody: 8:00am On Apr 10, 2016
he should go to d village and look 4 d source of his impotency, m.asturbation can't do dat to him.
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Nobody: 8:14am On Apr 10, 2016
How the _fuck is this impotency? 3 in every 5 men suffer from quick ejaculation: the problem Op described up there is nothing but pre-mature ejaculation.
Once your JT sees a live puccy but can't rise to the challenge, then can you begin to fear for your manhood. angry

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Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Vill(f): 8:17am On Apr 10, 2016
At first, i thought that while mastubating will make me not to have unwanted pregnancy, it saves money for me which i thought is a waste if giving to a girl.
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Nobody: 8:18am On Apr 10, 2016
Vill:
At first, i thought that while mastubating will make me not to have unwanted pregnancy, it saves money for me which i thought is a waste if giving to a girl.
The _fuck are you saying? undecided

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Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by strangest(m): 8:20am On Apr 10, 2016
Quick ejaculation is not the same with impotency... If you are desperate to satisfy, why nut try tramadol... I am not a doctor, drink at your I own risk

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Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Ahmed0336(m): 9:55am On Apr 10, 2016
Vill:
At first, i thought that while mastubating will make me not to have unwanted pregnancy, it saves money for me which i thought is a waste if giving to a girl.
oh lawdddd undecided
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by obizzy(m): 10:59am On Apr 10, 2016
Every morning as the day breaks and i see my tool harden beneath my feeble boxers. Shooting out like its gonna rip my boxers apart. I thank Jesus. I'm not impotent. I'm a man.


Back to the issue at hand. Op experiences premature ejaculation. Been there before,no thanks to masturbation. I can relate to all these. Thank God i'm free off masturbation. It kills you slowly.Talk about sweet death. Its not easy to stop at all! Takes a lot of self cautioning. Here's how i curbed mine till i eventually stopped.



When i feel the urge to masturbate (usually at night when i'm on bed,about to sleep) i go down and do PUSH-UPS!! Yes! Push-ups. Like a 100! That way my arms get too weak to stroke my meat and i just just doze off in exhaustion. It worked for me. I reduced my masturbation level drastically. Op can use this as a start and see how it goes. I'm willing to help with more tips if interested.


Happy sunday.

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Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by datkoded(m): 11:25am On Apr 10, 2016
Vill:
At first, i thought that while mastubating will make me not to have unwanted pregnancy, it saves money for me which i thought is a waste if giving to a girl.
this is what you get when you are a male using a female moniker, u tend to forget who you really are sad
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Fmartin(m): 11:39am On Apr 10, 2016
Dis op can lie ooo...

Ur problem is nt impotence.
U release after like 2minutes of making love.

You did not mention any type of drug u hv taken frm d health experts u claimed u sought their help.

Their ar many drugs that cn help in controlling premature expulsion. E.g. An analgesic: tramadol, some topical anesthetic. D list is endless.
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by femmygem: 12:05pm On Apr 10, 2016
Go for 3 days fasting and prayer
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Bluezy13(m): 12:20pm On Apr 10, 2016
obizzy:
Every morning as the day breaks and i see my tool harden beneath my feeble boxers. Shooting out like its gonna rip my boxers apart. I thank Jesus. I'm not impotent. I'm a man.


Back to the issue at hand. Op experiences premature ejaculation. Been there before,no thanks to masturbation. I can relate to all these. Thank God i'm free off masturbation. It kills you slowly.Talk about sweet death. Its not easy to stop at all! Takes a lot of self cautioning. Here's how i curbed mine till i eventually stopped.



When i feel the urge to masturbate (usually at night when i'm on bed,about to sleep) i go down and do PUSH-UPS!! Yes! Push-ups. Like a 100! That way my arms get too weak to stroke my meat and i just just doze off in exhaustion. It worked for me. I reduced my masturbation level drastically. Op can use this as a start and see how it goes. I'm willing to help with more tips if interested.


Happy sunday.
Hmmm...
I see...
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Gmuhdabdul(m): 1:01pm On Apr 10, 2016
This is very funny but terrable hahahaha Sorry for ur frnd brother
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by brendachizzy(f): 1:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
Fmartin:
Dis op can lie ooo...

Ur problem is nt impotence.
U release after like 2minutes of making love.

You did not mention any type of drug u hv taken frm d health experts u claimed u sought their help.

Their ar many drugs that cn help in controlling premature expulsion. E.g. An analgesic: tramadol, some topical anesthetic. D list is endless.



I wasn't the one who was affected. cant you see it is an imported story from naij.com?
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by focus7: 1:50pm On Apr 10, 2016
First give your life to Christ and let God deal with the situation, I was once there but I give glory to God I am free and cured today.
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Fmartin(m): 2:59pm On Apr 10, 2016
brendachizzy:



I wasn't the one who was affected. cant you see it is an imported story from naij.com?
ok den
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by izospindle(m): 3:00pm On Apr 10, 2016
wait i thought one of the disadvantages of masturbation is that it makes your longjohn to loose sensitivity is that not surpose to make you last longer on a wowan
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by leahcimzil: 3:10pm On Apr 10, 2016
izospindle:
wait i thought one of the disadvantages of masturbation is that it makes your longjohn to loose sensitivity is that not surpose to make you last longer on a wowan

leave dem make dem dey talk rubbish...masturbation is encouraged in a relationship before sex, becos it makes the man last longer. Too much of everything is bad tho.
Op solution is, go out there and find yourself some pusssy
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Nturguy1122: 3:26pm On Apr 10, 2016
Oga find biagra and use before sex making....tnk me later
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by yomusty(m): 3:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
focus7:
First give your life to Christ and let God deal with the situation, I was once there but I give glory to God I am free and cured today.
must u relate everything to Christ
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by yomusty(m): 3:28pm On Apr 10, 2016
Nturguy1122:
Oga find biagra and use before sex making....tnk me later
u mean Viagra abi
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Nturguy1122: 3:33pm On Apr 10, 2016
yomusty:

u mean Viagra abi
yea i tink its viagra...i only used it once and it worked well
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 10, 2016
yomusty:

u mean Viagra abi
No he truly meant Biagra. It is an aphrodisiac made specifically for the people of biafra. grin grin

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Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by izospindle(m): 3:36pm On Apr 10, 2016
leahcimzil:


leave dem make dem dey talk rubbish...masturbation is encouraged in a relationship before sex, becos it makes the man last longer. Too much of everything is bad tho.
Op solution is, go out there and find yourself some pusssy
i fault his claim cause not all women will ask for sex before marriage
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by KaBabs1: 5:59pm On Apr 10, 2016
Haven't you heard of viagra, op?
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by focus7: 8:05pm On Apr 11, 2016
yomusty:

must u relate everything to Christ
You won't understand, all I am in life is due to Him, I would have been no one if He has not found and saved me.
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by yomusty(m): 12:47am On Apr 12, 2016
focus7:
You won't understand, all I am in life is due to Him, I would have been no one if He has not found and saved me.
ok
Re: True-life Confession: What Led To My Impotence by yomusty(m): 12:48am On Apr 12, 2016
LastMumu:
No he truly meant Biagra. It is an aphrodisiac made specifically for the people of biafra. grin grin
lmfao

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