Echelle:
We started dating last year which was my service year. Then I've little change as a result of school savings and allawee, which I use in making spicy because she's a student. 6 months down the line, no job yet, the little change I've I use it to photocopy CVs, attend interviews, takecare of some little issues at home and then manage to visit and take her out but she still nags and complain...
Don't really know what to do next. Please help!

RileyFreeman1:


love is beautiful, love is strong and love is good.....But sometimes we just don't need 'distractions'. As a young man trying to build himself, a girlfriend should be the least of your worries. Truth be told, you can't meet up with what d everyday Nigerian GF wants these days.,..

my advice just be yourself, if the relationship wants to die, let it die a natural death.... live your life like u are d only one that matter, build on your CV with the little @cash u have and don't waste time, energy and capital on investments that most likely wouldn't yield any positive return.

layla129:

Yep! My boondocks best character has said it all

RileyFreeman1:


hehehe.....another boondocks fan....take kiss #nohomo

YorubaWoman:
Man,

Just dump her silly ass
She doesn't know what relationship entails
All isn't about money afterall

RileyFreeman1:


love is beautiful, love is strong and love is good.....But sometimes we just don't need 'distractions'. As a young man trying to build himself, a girlfriend should be the least of your worries. Truth be told, you can't meet up with what d everyday Nigerian GF wants these days.,..

my advice just be yourself, if the relationship wants to die, let it die a natural death.... live your life like u are d only one that matter, build on your CV with the little cash u have and don't waste time, energy and capital on investments that most likely wouldn't yield any positive return.

SirJeffry:
Bro, why not get a bank loan to satisfy your girlfriend? You can pay the loan when you get a job.

Just imagine people Nigeria will send to Mars in 2020.

layla129:


Lol, #nohomo? I'm not a guy dude

Kingsasian:
true but hilarious @ "let it die a natural death"

RileyFreeman1:


lol. you know we can tell, we've got loads of gayazz morfukas on Nairaland creating all sorts of monickers. *winks*.... thank God you are a lady

where is Reverend uncle Rockus, no relation....I've seen my own!!!

Echelle:
na me like ur post bro... So funny

layla129:

Uncle Rockus is just a sick man

obiorathesubtle:
I see everybody talking.. Dump her, break up with her.. She don't deserve you.. She's after your money.. Blaa blaa..



Iono o.. But I'm a man, and sometimes when I'm broke and can't spend well enough.. I grow an attitude(spontaneously).. My wife doesn't complain about my financial status or whatever(we're very rich.. If you know what I mean).. But she complains about the desperate man I become.. There's always that sense of responsibility in a man.. And when there's no means.. It turns the man into a different creature who changes the whole relationship space into unfavourable for a loving woman.... It changes everything.


This is from a different perspective.. So check yourself papi.. Could be you..

SirJeffry:
There's no justification for "over-taxing" a young man of that status. This guy is just 6months into the labor market and what is needed of a good girlfriend is support and neither "taxing" nor nagging.

Any girl who is not ready to stand by him at this stage of his life isn't worth him. Shikena