Sexy is defined differently depending on who you are, what your cultural background is, and even which country you live in. But often we’re bombarded by images and messages of what we should find sexy and how we should be to be sexy.


This week, we’re chatting about what sexy is and how to stop defining yourself by how the world sees you


If you’ve watched TV or picked up a magazine recently, you know there are pictures of what sexy is ‘supposed’ to be all around you.


However, we’re all different and find different things more and less sexy than anyone else, which is good, other wise we’d all be attracted to exactly the same things – and that would be both problematic and dull! Sexy, more than anything else, is an attitude.


Its not how we look, what we wear or how fat, thin, short or tall we are. If you are feeling good about yourself and can strut your stuff, others will find that attractive.

Even if you are the most ‘gorgeous’ person, if you haven’t got the confidence to be yourself, its just not going to be all that sexy. Believe it or not, all models and celebrities have insecurities about their looks from time to time.


The pressure is on these public figures even more because the world judges and defines them only by the way they look.


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