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9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by Nobody: 9:44pm On Apr 12, 2016
Do you always find yourself wondering, “Why don’t girls like me?”
Well, we’ve got your answer. Here’s everything you’ve been doing all
wrong .
The thoughts, “Why don’t girls like me?” or “Why don’t the girls I like
like me back?” are common questions in the male mind that start during
puberty and can stretch on pretty much forever! Cheery thought, isn’t it?
The mystery of a woman’s mind is deep, dark, and dangerous. For
example, why does she like the tattooed bad-boy, but then the minute you
do something off-color she scolds you for it?
Why girls don’t like you – 9 big truths
We’re solving the worldwide mystery of why your dream girl doesn’t like
you back. Here are 9 brutally honest reasons why she’s just not that into
you.
1 You’ve been friend-zoned. If you have ever had unreciprocated
romantic feelings for the potential love of your life while they just sit
there and act like you are BFFs, then you have definitely been put in the
friend zone. The friend zone is a real place. Picture it like a cold, dark
prison full of “best pal” behavior and no blowjobs. When your crush puts
you in the friend zone, you will never get out. Ever.
One of the reasons your girl might not like you is because she has
mentally put you in the friend zone. This means she wants all the benefits
of going to dinner, binging on Netflix, confiding secrets, and bringing you
as a “plus-one” to events without also having the fringe benefits of
making out, having sex, and sharing a romantic connection. This could be
a giant reason why she doesn’t like you, at least not in that way, because
hey, you’re just the friend!
2 You are annoying. Harsh as it may be, have you ever considered that
you are just downright annoying? If you’re constantly asking, “Why don’t
girls like me? ”it may be due to your extremely irritating personality.
If, for instance, you’ve been talking about the same topic for 30 minutes,
and all your crush has said is a random series of “hmm,” “huh,” or “cool,”
this probably means that she finds you either boring or annoying. Why?
Well, you’re probably talking about things she doesn’t care about, or
things she can only politely feign interest in for so long, such as video
games, bro movies, building your own computer, anime and manga, or
anything else in these “nerdy” niches.
That’s not to say that some girls don’t absolutely adore those topics—just
not the one you have a crush on!
3 You don’t know when it shut up. Another trait that can be very
annoying is being a know-it-all. For example, if you catch yourself
constantly interrupting her to correct her about nearly everything she says,
you’re showing her that you think you’re better than her. You are not
being clever or wise, but rather, you’re just being a know-it-all jackass.
4 You have bad personal hygiene habits. One thing girls don’t want to
be around is someone who doesn’t shower, can’t dress himself, and
doesn’t know how to use deodorant or hair gel. She’s not asking that you
crack a 6-pack and turn into Fabio overnight, but a man who can’t take
simple care of his body is a huge turn off.
5 You offer nothing. No offense, we’re sure you’re a great guy and all,
but do you have much to offer to a relationship? If not, she’s probably
well aware. We don’t mean this in a “she’s a gold-digger” way. Simply
put, sometimes it isn’t enough to have a rockin’ personality. Just as you
would want her to emotionally and physically contribute to a relationship,
she expects the following things:
a) Love and support
b) Honesty and loyalty
c) That you encourage her to be her best self and to help her reach her
goals
d) That you have a car/license
e) That you are responsible
f) That you have a steady job
g) Financial independence from your parents [Read: 15 things women
look for in a man before falling for him]
6 You are needy. As much as girls love to be reassured by love and
affection from their men, they also love the chase as much as their male
counterparts do. When you act needy, especially if you’re not in a
relationship with her, it’s going to give her pause.
Signs of being super needy include texting/calling her nonstop, constantly
asking for reassurance or affirmations of her care, friendship, or affection,
talking about her too much, or getting upset if she hangs out with someone
else. If you’re like this now, what will you be like if you were to actually
date? [Read: How to love someone without smothering them]
7 You’re a jerk. Be honest with yourself… are you an asshole? If so, she
sees it clear as day! While some women are actually super attracted to that
bad-boy appeal, your girl may not be one of them. If you are mean-
spirited, an antifeminist, a fat-shamer, tell unfunny or crude jokes, are
disrespectful, lack empathy, are a substance abuser, or all and all just a
big jerk, she probably won’t want anything to do with you *and for good
reason!* [Read: Good vs. bad – What kind of guys do girls like?]
8 You’re short. Unfortunately for all the shortys out there, height has a
lot to do with a woman’s initial attraction. If you are on the shorter side of
the spectrum, it’s probably going to be more difficult for you to score a
date. Sorry. But you wouldn’t want to be with someone who only judges
you for your looks, anyway, right?
9 You’re unattractive. The truth hurts… and the truth is that women and
men alike are shallow, shallow creatures. You question of why girls don’t
like you may have everything to do with the way you look. Girlfriend’s
just not attracted to you. So forget her and find someone who appreciates
your crooked smile.
We hope you found our guide helpful. No longer do you have to spend
your time pondering, “Why don’t girls like me?!” Now you know! Either
you’re a total douche or you’ve just been going after the wrong girl for
way too long. You deserve a chick who digs you for you, so if at first you
don’t succeed, try, try again!
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Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by Cutehector(m): 9:46pm On Apr 12, 2016
All these things will be null and void as soon as I begin to mint money cool

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Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by jamex93(m): 9:50pm On Apr 12, 2016
Money ansa all
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by Nobody: 9:52pm On Apr 12, 2016
No 7 Bad boys, jerks, rude ass are repulsive creatures undecided never my spec
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 9:55pm On Apr 12, 2016
Cutehector:
All these things will be null and void as soon as I begin to mint money cool

Roger that angry
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by EnigmaticEnigma(m): 9:58pm On Apr 12, 2016
jamex93:
Money ansa all

Leave all these damsels alone, mtcheew undecided

When she says no, just hit the button to beep your Beamer, Benz or Bentley, then watch her demeanor switch gears undecided

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Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by obizzy(m): 10:07pm On Apr 12, 2016
Last i checked money still changeth all things,answereth all BS...ominichanger/ominianswerer.
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by cruzita(f): 10:08pm On Apr 12, 2016
undecided smh at all those posters above me
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by Nobody: 10:11pm On Apr 12, 2016
Summary: When you have little money.




















JK. But really Nigerian girls are something else when it comes to money. Speaking from experience.
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by Badoox(m): 10:20pm On Apr 12, 2016
Money is the key here.
Forget all this shiiit.

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Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by chubbyswit(m): 10:39pm On Apr 12, 2016
ego ji obodo, buh in this case ego ji umuasa
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by Adasun(m): 11:36pm On Apr 12, 2016
*i just the enjoy dis lovely music frm my papa radio*
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by Nobody: 11:44pm On Apr 12, 2016
Nice post... Another point is when the guy is too good looking, girls assume he's all hooked up and they're not ready to compete, or some girls just find him intimidating.

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Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by rosieluv(f): 12:00am On Apr 13, 2016
Cutehector:
All these things will be null and void as soon as I begin to mint money cool
money makes the world go round,yeah,money answereth all tynz,yeah,
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by MilesLamar(m): 7:24am On Apr 13, 2016
12. Becuz you no get shi shi angry angry
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by starlingbawa(m): 7:44am On Apr 13, 2016
For all the short lads, pleaseeeee, respond to No 8
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by firstking01(m): 8:20am On Apr 13, 2016
My friend goan space your workundecided
Re: 9 Reasons Why Girls Don't Like And Can't Love You!!! by jamex93(m): 11:43am On Apr 13, 2016
EnigmaticEnigma:


Leave all these damsels alone, mtcheew undecided

When she says no, just hit the button to beep your Beamer, Benz or Bentley, then watch her demeanor switch gears undecided



Lolx

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