garfield16:



Single people should respect the institution of marraige, there are enough single men to fool around with. You dont have self respect if you mess with a married man and whatever you get you deserve.



ofcourse the married man himself is also at fault and deserves whatever he gets.

garfield16:



Single people should respect the institution of marraige, there are enough single men to fool around with. You dont have self respect if you mess with a married man and whatever you get you deserve.



ofcourse the married man himself is also at fault and deserves whatever he gets.

Acidosis:

No, but she would feel that relief. It's called frustration, and its meant to be poured on someone.

daretodiffer:
She has every right to kill her. She became her business the moment she knowingly slept with another man's husband.

Islamically and Biblically, both have sinned. Morally, they have acted unconsciously. The concubine and the husband have acted together to break the husband's vows and trust to his wife

The way some people think sef?

olrotimi:

Did he approach her with a gun to her head? What happened to her moral decency to turn him down, knowing fully well that he was married. Na yam wey another woman don suffer to cook na im she balance chop well.
I can bet the life of me that she would have turned down many single guys before the man approached her, perhaps she broke off from her bf just to date this man. Those of us arguing that she didn't do wrong should Pls consider and put urselves in the position of this man's wife.Do you know how painful and heart wrenching it is for your husband to be taken away from you by another woman, perhaps after laboring together, setting the home, polishing and grooming the man and perhaps making him what he is today. Do you also consider her children? How would they feel?
Violence is wrong, very wrong but hey ladies, prevention is always better than cure. When a married man approaches you, run! Cos whatever comes after that, na ur headache

Acidosis:
She (wife) acted in a crude manner to make her frustration and aggressions known. Of course, we all know of a fact that the husband is at fault. However, it is natural for anyone to pour his aggression on a perceived weaker vessel.

The theory I earlier quoted is the reason behind global terrorism, e.g. Boko haram.

An average terrorist is jobless, hungry, and deprived, courtesy of the government. But the same terrorist does not pour out his aggression on Buhari, no he won't bomb Saraki. Instead, he will so desire to go after the common man on the street with the hope that the government's attention would be drawn.

The same way we want terrorists to attack the government is the same way we want cheated wives to attack their husbands, but it will barely happen!

The perceived weaker vessel (concubine, side bae, common man) will always bare the pain/attack. It is a theory that cannot be changed.

joseph1832:
Oh you have the strength to argue with that girl who is the personification of D.U.M.B.

Amberon11:
that's some barbaric low level prehistoric medieval age train of thought you have there.

Like seriously?? are you in 100BC?

look Herr, in this modern dispensation, nobody has no damn! right to cause inflict bodily harm on another or pose a threat to someone's life.

Cheating is wrong, no doubt, but nobody has any bloody right to physically abuse another for this cause. The mistress should sue for damages. We are neither governed by biblical or Koranic laws. I

olrotimi:

Did he approach her with a gun to her head? What happened to her moral decency to turn him down, knowing fully well that he was married. Na yam wey another woman don suffer to cook na im she balance chop well.
I can bet the life of me that she would have turned down many single guys before the man approached her, perhaps she broke off from her bf just to date this man. Those of us arguing that she didn't do wrong should Pls consider and put urselves in the position of this man's wife.Do you know how painful and heart wrenching it is for your husband to be taken away from you by another woman, perhaps after laboring together, setting the home, polishing and grooming the man and perhaps making him what he is today. Do you also consider her children? How would they feel?
Violence is wrong, very wrong but hey ladies, prevention is always better than cure. When a married man approaches you, run! Cos whatever comes after that, na ur headache

Creamish:


There are so many single men out there... Why d'hell would a woman decide to ruin another woman's marriage? If the husband decides to cheat and a f000l allows him use her as an instrument, then she is as guilty as the husband (if she is indeed aware that he is married).

Though I believe they went too far by beating her up but some mistresses need to be taught a very good lesson before they let ur husband be. Some might be stubborn when all you intend to have with them is a diplomatic woman to woman talk.. It may have been the case with this unlucky mistress...who knows?

The hubby will answer loads of questions but the mistress shuld be warned to back off.

Mindfulness:


Why should they respect it?

Mindfulness:


Why should they respect it?

kramfonos:
Madam, we know you love to argue pointlessly when you're actually pseudo-intelligent. You bluntly opined that a woman should be killed 'cause she slept with a married man but the man shouldn't be reprimanded. THAT'S REMINISCENT OF SHARIA LAW - "STONE A WOMAN WHO COMMITS ADULTERY BUT THE MAN GOES FREE".

You're a fanatic. Everyone has been condemning your statement thus far on this thread. Don't derail this thread with your antics. Keep your evil thoughts to yourself.

misspicy2:


You typed my mind @ the bolded.

The times have changed,some married men now disguise as single to deceive innocent young ladies in the name of relationship,many examples abound and it is saddening that some wives are so 70s they will always resort to fighting for the husbands love by assaulting his mistress.

That is absolute BS and it needs to stop.

Funny thing is that,the assault the wife melted on the mistress will only push the husband to further cheat on her with several other mistress,I wonder how many she can molest.


Its high time married men are held responsible for their randy ways rather than blame and assault the Mistress

prettyaura:
naked is the same thing as unclad dear.

doskie:
im telling you if I were I'll bring home a black belter to sleep with me on our marital bed. or a female soldier. let me see the power my wife has.

You feeling yourself ain't it?

prettyaura:
abi oo.. u call them single and u expect them to respect wat they know nothing about? if your own man cant respect you by being faithful to your marriage, dont expect a total stranger to.

Ngokafor:






....but some concubines have been known to re-set the teeth of such aggressive wives...I have even witnessed such.As a matter of fact the mistress tore the wife's clothes to shreds after beating the living day-light out of the wife..The man himself borrowed leg and vanished into thin air ..I was really an eye-sore.


....I kind of felt sorry for the wife(even though she was really foolish)..dem sleep with ya husband still naked and beat you join..na waya.

ClassCaptain:


there is this movie nicki minaj and cameron diaz featured in, where three mistress rallied round to punish a cheating husband..

Cant rember title

Amberon11:
You are very sensible.

Thank you

daretodiffer:


Shame on you too!

We are talking about responsibilities, this one is talking about assault Where did I recommend assault? If I would recommend anything, what do you say to a bullet in the head? Mtchewww

Can you please swerve?