Um it's past the time that she can terminate. What took her so long to reach that conclusion?

MURDERER!
what was she doing for six months? hoping the bobo would change his mind? Damn, some girls can be so stupid, just tell her to write her last living testament before going under the knife if she wants to.

Abi my sister
Tell them o jare

Still me

No try am oh sister

Unless you wan die

_{*Takes a deep sigh*}  Poster, I wonder what kind of options you want to hear from us?

What else can she do other than keep the baby?

If she[b] really[/b] wanted to abort and take the risk of killin them both, I don't think you'll be here asking for opinions.

_{Una deh find who to accuse tomorrow}

Give birth to the baby and place a call to Madonna or some Hollywood celebrity for quick adoption.

na wetin now RAAAAAADIANT,once you SHOW everybody must know,abeg just give wetin your ADVICE be.
because wit this ur advise, the sister fit DIE before she even TERMINATE the belle.

lol. . . . If she no fit spot my advice from wetin I don write, then na double wahala she get


How u deh now?

radiant , we dey fine,i write one poem for you, check am for TOPIC @ POEM CONTEST
@ topic sister so you no hear say make you PLAY SAFE,
log in your instant chat i dey want for you

And where is my name there

That girl is the dummest dummy i have ever heard of,


Na wa o!

Twice beating,

Let's stop scolding the person in question. Let's try to help.

The siblings that said "better you die than for our mother to die" are idiots.
That's because if your friend dies in the abortion, the mother will suffer a worse fate.
If the mother has to choose between a dead child and a second baby, she'll choose the baby. Duh.

Please don't try aborting it. It like toying with your life. A pregnacy of about 6 months is already at the advanced staged. She has to give birth to it. Next time, she should STAY safe rather than PLAY safe.

ok she could die if she tries to abort the baby, bcoz its already too late, adoption should be her option right now instead of risking her life to kill a baby that someone out there could give a great life to. there r women out there looking for babies. God gave her that baby for a reason n its sad to know she wants to kill the baby. there might be complications n she could never give birth again if she eventually finds the right guy. please abeg tell her to use her brain n close her f***ing legs then she would not have to kill a child for her fu**ing selfish rasons. n 6 months later is she crazy.

She could be playing with her life if she tries such a thing, she ought to have the baby, and then think of what to do wit it later on,

PS: Only fake men would bail on their women after she's taken in!!!

PSS: Her so called siblings who say she should sacrifice her life (and her baby's) for their mother, are just a bunch of NUT CASES, and should be taken to "YABA LEFT" !!!!

I guess all you need do now is to PRINT all the threads here and pass on to her, if she is literate anyway.BECAUSEI dont see why any SANE & LITERATE human would do such. PLENTY WORDS R ENOUGH FOR THE WISE.

FOR GOD'S SAKE THATS MURDER,
WHAT DOES SHE DO,IS SHE A STUDENT?
SHE SHOULD HAVE THE BABY N THEN SIT UP
because SHE'S GOT RESPONSIBILITY

@Osegwu

The person that posted the topic was in my office in Abuja yesterday on my invitation.The post is true life story as the lady in question will be in our office today
for counselling as i work with an American NGO.This has nothing to do with the person that posted the topic.She is only trying to help her friend that lives with her.Pls let's be considerate on the choice of words on this forum.Thank you

option4301:

@Osegwu

The person that posted the topic was in my office in Abuja yesterday on my invitation.The post is true life story as the lady in question will be in our office today
for counselling as i work with an American NGO.This has nothing to do with the person that posted the topic.She is only trying to help her friend that lives with her.Please let's be considerate on the choice of words on this forum.Thank you

I don't know what kind of system you run in Nigeria, but have you heard of Doctor patient confidentiality. I don't think it's fair on your patient to be telling her business on a public forum.

zulunation,thats a good one . really hope ur ngo can help this girl

sorry,i meant option4301 not zulu nation

If she want to abort, Y didn't she do it when it was just 1 or 2 months old, Pls tell her abortion is a Sin in her own circumstance. Was she forced into openiong her legs? she did it willing and willing will she carry her cross. Pls tell this ur friend that if she want to live the rest of her life been huntyed for her past, she should then go ahead.

First of all, this is realy appalling. Anyways, like everyone's saying, best option is to keep the baby and promise to turn over a new leaf now and forever more, Amen

Some one said:

I'm no medical Doctor, but I'm pretty sure having an abortion this late could be very risky for your friend. Giving the baby up for adoption would be the best bit in my own opinion.

And please advise your friend to use protection the next time she has sex.

But do you think she should even have sex again?

But as some1 has said labour could be induced with the help of Bitocin & she's gonna be alife but if she shld do such

option4301:

@Osegwu

The person that posted the topic was in my office in Abuja yesterday on my invitation.The post is true life story as the lady in question will be in our office today
for counselling as i work with an American NGO.This has nothing to do with the person that posted the topic.She is only trying to help her friend that lives with her.Please let's be considerate on the choice of words on this forum.Thank you

I don't mean any disrespect but my comment ws based on genuin interest on this matter and the lady in question. Want to make sure that the humble adcive of the genuin people in Nairaland are not misplaced.
I am just been real

still me

I think we are too hard on this lady and we are not considering all the factors.

I am not saying it was right for her to have been pregnant again but what if the guy had promised / assured her of marriage. That might have even been the reason for her keeping the pregnancy till this stage.

I am not advising her to abort o but I am that it is very possible and its not a sure death sentence for her. Not as risky as we're painting it provided its not carried out by a quack

We have to understand that she needs all the support and help she can. i am sure that she's already depressed about the situation already. Castigating her and her family deserting her would make her depression worse and she may break down psycologically.

There is something we call puerperal pyshosis (post-partum blues), where women develop pyshiatric conditions after delivery. She is a candidate for that.

NGO please take care of her o.
If you guys tell her to have the baby by force without the support she needs, she might just have the baby and kill the baby or dump it in a heap of rubbish.

Aborting a 6month old pregnancy isn't a wise thing to do. Her siblings aren't of much help either. She seems to always pick the wrong men. Even at that, there are condoms and pills.Well I guess some mothers do have them.
How many pregnancies she wan comot? She's got to keep the baby, learn her lesson, learn to be cautious and more responsible. Save her soul and that of the baby's.

what the heck has she being doing befroeit came to six months,

maybe the guy wanted her to keep it initially

Lets not be too hard on her. Shit happens you know

Hello Mulan,

Tell dat ur friend who want 2 abort 6 months pregnant ,she want 2 commit murder in 2 ways. - she wil kill d baby and herself.it is better she was not born at all dan 2 try dat kind of a thing.Pray 4 her n go n advise her better thing 2 do n she wil listen 2 u. If she dare refuse all d advice given, jst tell d last word dat she wil REGRET such action.

hmmn, thi sis a difficult one, its already too late. give birth to the baby and hence give up for adoption if you cant take care of the child.
this happened to my younger sister, she was pregnant, already 6months gone and didnt know, my father didnt agree, because she she wasnt married. actually opted fpr an abortion, lots doctors refused saying its not possible, and the only one who agreed, said its 50-50, either mother and child dies or loses her womb for ever.

to cut the long story, she fianlly gave birth, not just to one child, but two boys.

so, so, please give birth to d baby, instead of saying later, if only i knew.

all d best.