didnt nobody tell her 2 protect herself?
poor baby. abegmake she leave am o or she go regret

i understand how yr friend may feel, my son was only 8 months old when my ex-husband and i found out that i was 3 months pregnant, every one thought that it would be a good idea to GET RID OF IT however i had to turn to the most high. against my husband and doctors i had my son, he is 8yrs old and so in love with me.


you may think that the situation is so bad, that it is the only way out, you may also think that i live in London where life is easier, but at the time my husband and i had nothing infact we were being kicked out for rent arrears and countless other problems.

one thing i have learned in all my years is that  WOMAN ARE BLESSED WITH THE GIFT OF SURVIVAL, NO MATTER WHAT LIFE THROWS AT US WE ALWAYS BOUNCE BACK. i am not one to say do not terminate, but a six month pregnancy is a sin, it should not be done.

WOW!!! Coco may God continue to give you the strength you need to survive.

@Coco, in as much as your story is inspirational, are you implying that if the pregnancy was not advanced, then it would not have been a sin to terminate it?

@Coco

No offence but your situation is 1000X better than this girl's. You had a husband and a family that you could depend on, so I don't get why they wanted you to get rid of the baby . This girl has nobody to lean on except the starter of this thread apparently, her situation is dire but adoption is always an option and conceivably better than killing the baby.

You guys are still discussing this issue when the child
by now has started calling the mother's lovers uncle

Still me

Donzman:

@Coco

No offence but your situation is 1000X better than this girl's. You had a husband and a family that you could depend on, so I don't get why they wanted you to get rid of the baby . This girl has nobody to lean on except the starter of this thread apparently, her situation is dire but adoption is always an option and conceivably better than killing the baby.

YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Is this termination still on?

lioness:

Is this termination still on?

am surprised too
Thou shall not kill? hmm, why not?!

I am against abortion. I would advise her to have the child.
She needs to get involved with church activities or do something meaningful for her life. Life is not all about sex or having kids.

The bad thing now is that she is not married. She should pls control herself and pls if she must have sex, always use a condom so as not to give her mother more problems. (as in raising another child for her )

maybe she'll bring the child to you when she's had it.

I don't support abortion because it is murder. She has made the mistake already nothing should stop her having the baby, she can adopt the child after delivery.

And I beg help me tell her to zip up.

Hello Nancy,

Abeg, one question, did you grow up in Calabar? I had a primary school teacher at UNICAL staff school named Mrs. Ekpoh. My favorite teacher, and I have lost touch with her. She and her husband lived in State Housing, Calabar.

kool. please continue to lecture them.

I hope no religious nuts got into this girl's mind, Abortion isn't murder at least not before 24-25 weeks.




I'm interested to know if she got the abortion or if she kept the pregnancy.

For the abortion advocates, I should ask, "Would you have been happy if you were aborted"? Or do you honestly think those babies in the womb do not feel any pain?

Ndipe:

For the abortion advocates, I should ask, "Would you have been happy if you were aborted"? Or do you honestly think those babies in the womb do not feel any pain?

Hellz yes. I would have been better off. Babies dont feel pain. Their brains aren't even developed. If you cant handle the responsibility, ******* it.

:-Xhaaaa! she is on a tight coner i am short of words. it is very unsafe please if she can keep it, though very hard to face but will sound better. but if not then, she must have to choose between life and death.

she's gotta be totally out of her mind to even think of terminating a six month old pregnancy. let her keep the pregnancy since she couldn't keep her pants on.

hi,
TELL HER NOT 2 TRY IT.INSTEAD LET HER HAVE ITR & SEND 2 MOTHERLESS BABIES'S HOME OR GIVE IT 2 THOSE LOOKING 4 A CHILD B/C THEY ARE MUCH.MOREOVER BEFORE D ABORTION IS COMPLETED SHE DIE FIRST.
BUNMI COMPLETED SERVICE IN KEBBI FEBURARY 2006 BATCH A,5MONTHS PREGNANT AND RETURNED FOR CENSUS EXERCISE IN MARCH.ATTEMPTING TO ABORT A 5MONTHS PREGNANCY,D INNOCENT CHILD TOOK HER ALONG.BUNMI WAS VERY PRETTY AND HAD HER LIFE AHEAD OF HER BUT ABORTION TERMINATED THAT.I CAN NEVER FORGET BUNMI B/C ALTH SHE WAS AHEAD OF ME,I MET HER THR HER FRIEND.SHE WAS A COOL CHIC N I LEARNT THERE WAS NO REASON 4 HER DOING THAT IN THE 1ST PACE.
PLEASE DONT FOR ANY REASON ABORT EVEN 1MONTH ABEG.WHAT IF YOU WERE ABORTED WOULD YOU BE HERE?

how did it go??
Murderer!!

Tell your friend that she should give that baby a chance to live. If she KILL that baby
and survive the process she can never contain the guilt because it will hunt her all through her life.
she will be cloth with shame and condemnation for the rest of have life.
I ADVICE HER TO GIVE THE BABY A CHANCE TO LIVE, MAYBE HE/SHE WILL BE THE CHILD OF HER
CONSOLATION.

My dear, tell that your friend to go and abort the pregnancy because she wan die

when burial comes, i go come chop for una house

MURDERER!
How she go abort SIX MONTHS PREGNANCY! Even am against aborting pregnancy at a very early stage not to talk of ONE, TWO, THREE, FOUR, FIVE, SIX MONTHS PREGNANCY! What was she looking at all this while! hmmmmmn
If she does that then she does not have a HEART!

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What's wrong with waiting until you're married to get pregnant? You're not independent, you can't keep your legs together and you're not acquianted with birth control. A six-month foetus has a brain and feels pain. It might be 'embarrassing' to have a baby at this time, but your siblings are not the boss of you, and the child's life outweighs every other consideration. You'd better make plans and convince the father involved in the child's upkeep. Once your family knows the guy will help they'll change their tune. If he won't help and you don't want it, give it up for adoption.

Aborting a six months old foetus means going through labour and childbirth to expel it from your womb. Labour will be induced,you'll give birth, it'll be alive but die soon. That's what aborting a child as old as that means.Why not wait three months and go through the same process to expel a living one, and give it to the willing to adopt?

The insanely selfish reasons people use to rationalise casually ending a child's life are unbelievable. You're alive. What right do you have to terminate a baby's life,not to save yours or spare it the affliction of disease, but because a man bailed on you? And yet you're walking around with the same life you want to deprive the child of.
Don't do it. Give it up for adoption.

pfffffffffffffffffffffff (sighs) she has the first child out of wedlock and still sleeps with another man without a condom, this is really crazy. I think this your friend really likes sex so much She shouldn't try abortion is too late now. Let her keep it and work hard to carter for the children