Nollywood actress, Nkiru Sylvanus says she does not mind being a second wife as she does not see it as ‘a big deal.’

The actress cum politician who was a former aide to the Imo state governor, Owelle Rochas Okorocha, said ladies must stop having the idea of one-man-one-wife.

She disclosed this during an interview on HipTv, noting that, “If the situation and the person is good, I’ll go for it.

“I’ve said it before that if ladies don’t stop this nonsense they call ‘one-man-one-wife’, many of them will get to 40 and still remain single.

“There are more women than men. Go to churches, the number of single ladies in most cases is three times the number of single guys,” the ‘Cry for help’ thespian added.


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Now, this is just sad. Desperation at its peak. Woman, where is thou esteem?


P.S: But this reminds of that bible quote that goes "Time will come when 7 women shall grab one man and say, 'We shall feed and clothe ourselves. Just let us bear your name as our husband.'" Is that time coming soon?

I totally disagree with what she say..

Her view..her problem.

Souding more desperate ... Maybe she meant the good ones are scarce .
She just gave some guys here on NL a lift on persuading most ladies to get married asap .
I totally disagree with you Ms

Correct girl. Its better to be a 2nd wife than to be called a side chick

KashyBaby:
I totally disagree with what she say..

In otherwords, you would rather be unmarried for the rest of your life than be a 2nd wife..
Bravo

Seriously if Nigeria women don't do away with all the unnecessary narcissism, many of you will end up as spinsters as we are seeing today. Go to any MFM church and you will almost weep for Nigeria spinsters. I'm happy this one don dey learn.

The likes of Genevieve, Linda ikeji etc should stop deceiving our girls that spinsterhood is okay

Lordabas:

In otherwords, you would rather be unmarried for the rest of your life than be a 2nd wife..
Bravo

lol this woman is funny

KashyBaby:
I totally disagree with what she say..

na when menopause begin to knock at your door, that's when you will agree with her abi?

One thing Nigeria women should understand is,

"Marriage isn't by force"

If you are single at 40 you won't die. If you are single at 40, does not mean you won't be successful. Why shove your esteem into the gutters because "you must be married"?

It's saddening

Kastonkastroll:
na when menopause begin to knock at your door, that's when you will agree with her abi?

I don't embrace the word "desperate" ...

Vinshu:
One thing Nigeria women should understand is,

"Marriage isn't by force"

If you are single at 40 you won't die. If you are single at 40, does not mean you won't be successful. Why shove your esteem into the gutters because "you must be married"?

It's saddening

Here you go again, confusing yourselves with success and marriage institution. To some of you girls, everything is about success and frowning at marriage(that's why a person like me will never date/marry the too-smart/intelligent girl). A woman is only successful and earns some respect when she is in her husband's house . A career woman without a husband will/can never be compared with a sweet loving, home-sitting wife who trains and look after your kids.

KashyBaby:




I don't embrace the word "desperate" ...

I wish you luck then in getting the perfect angel husband.

Kastonkastroll:
Here you go again, confusing yourselves with success and marriage institution. To some of you girls, everything is about success and frowning at marriage(that's why a person like me will never date/marry the too-smart/intelligent girl). A woman is only successful and earns some respect when she is in her husband's house . A career woman without a husband will/can never be compared with a sweet loving, home-sitting wife who trains and look after your kids.

@embolden

That's your belief and you are entitled to it. But know this, marriage isn't compulsory. There are single women out there who are more successful that an entire married couple with 10 children combined together. One single successful woman is more respected than a hundred married women who are not successful. Stop deceiving yourself

So you african men should stop shoving it up women's ass like if they don't marry they will die in 2 hours or something to the extent that they should be 2nd wives. Who does that?

If a woman wish to get married, she will. If she doesn't, she won't. It's not by force. It's optional. And definitely not a yardstick for success.

Kastonkastroll:
I wish you luck then in getting the perfect angel husband.

Thanks...

Only ugly women talk like this.

Vinshu:

@embolden

That's your belief and you are entitled to it. But know this, marriage isn't compulsory. There are single women out there who are more successful that an entire married couple with 10 children combined together. One single successful woman is more respected than a hundred married women who are not successful. Stop deceiving yourself

So you african men should stop shoving it up women's ass like if they don't marry they will die in 2 hours or something to the extent that they should be 2nd wives. Who does that?

If a woman wish to get married, she will. If she doesn't, she won't. It's not by force. It's optional. And definitely not a yardstick for success.

1st marriage is super compulsory whether we like it not. Perhaps the most devastating social change to occur in recent times is having you girls turn from loving, caring lovers into women who are more interested in securing desk jobs than in raising children and having a family. Go figure, successful women are our mothers who have worked their _asses out just to make us responsible human beings.

A woman's success only makes her more entitled, materialistic, and narcissistic and nothing more. Her "success" also makes her attitude suffers as well as she believe that acting up like an osho equates to being an achiever which isn't so.

Marriage makes a woman complete and that's how it is. Don't be deceive by all this "successful spinsters" . Btw no sane society will accord respect to a single successful woman to a married woman

I rather b single dan b a second wife and God loose his love for me

Many wives ish was old testament thing nd God said old things are passed away all things have become new

Even God did not allow joseph marry another wife after mary

Humans better think well

only cheap women seek to be 2nd wife abi enslavement

halfricanadian:
I rather b single dan b a second wife and God loose his love for me

Many wives ish was old testament thing nd God said old things are passed away all things have become new

Even God did not allow joseph marry another wife after mary

Humans better think well

I am selfish when it comes to my love life.

Marriage is not my thing

robosky02:
only cheap women seek to be 2nd wife abi enslavement

Yup

The tongue is very powerful, guard it diligently.

Angelberry:
I am selfish when it comes to my love life.

Marriage is not my thing

Kastonkastroll:
1st marriage is super compulsory whether we like it not. Perhaps the most devastating social change to occur in recent times is having you girls turn from loving, caring lovers into women who are more interested in securing desk jobs than in raising children and having a family. Go figure, successful women are our mothers who have worked their _asses out just to make us responsible human beings.

A woman's success only makes her more entitled, materialistic, and narcissistic and nothing more. Her "success" also makes her attitude suffers as well as she believe that acting up like an osho equates to being an achiever which isn't so.

Marriage makes a woman complete and that's how it is. Don't be deceive by all this "successful spinsters" . Btw no sane society will accord respect to a single successful woman to a married woman

What makes marriage super compulsory please? My sisters are single. Even one is 48 and she is single. So I don't think it's compulsory.

Marriage does not make a woman complete. You haven't been able to provide any valid points to support your claim. All you are saying is women should sit and raise children without any valid logical points to backup your theory.

Can't argue with someone like you. (Importance of education)

Isoni:
The tongue is very powerful, guard it diligently.

Really I hear you

Vinshu:


What makes marriage super compulsory please? My sisters are single. Even one is 48 and she is single. So I don't think it's compulsory.

Marriage does not make a woman complete. You haven't been able to provide any valid points to support your claim. All you are saying is women should sit and raise children without any valid logical points to backup your theory.

Can't argue with someone like you. (Importance of education)

smh. You and your sisters need serious deliverance. Is not about what you think or what you don't think, but marriage is compulsory because the GOOD LORD said so and the society view it as the right thing to do. So who are you to say/think otherwise?

If you despise marriage as a woman, then what will you want to do? To become a hooker or what? Look is none of my business if you choose spinsterhood over marriage, but I won't have you talk down on marriage as if it is bad thing to do.

You have been screaming success success success all over this thread as if that's all that matters in a woman's life. So I ask you, do you think a single, successful, unhappy spinster can ever be more successful than the marriage institution itself?

Smh

Angelberry:
Really I hear you

and whats your take on this..........

robosky02:



and whats your take on this..........

I can't be a second wife not for any reason..can't sleep with my eyes close knowing my man is clearing another woman's forest. No way!!

Angelberry:
I can't be a second wife not for any reason..can't sleep with my eyes close knowing my man is clearing another woman's forest. No way!!

lol is it a forest?


any way one man one vote

one man one woman

robosky02:


lol is it a forest?


any way one man one vote

one man one woman

Yes na, using his rod to clear it.

That reminds me, bosky, do u belong to any team for the upcoming miss Nl contest, I want you to joined my team.