Dear Bunmi,

Im a secretary in love with her married boss. Ive worked with him a couple of years now and hes 21 years older than me. This might sound like a cliche, but I have these gut feelings we have a real connection. love Apart from the official lunches we attend together, he also takes me to lunch from time to time. Once or thrice, hes even taken me to his club for drinks. I dont want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage, but this looks like my one chance to be happy. I feel more for this man than I have for anyone else in a long time. Do you think I should take the risk and take things further?

Annie,

by e-mail

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Dear Annie,

Why do you believe this is your one chance of being happy? Are you under the impression theres a massive shortage of men? Its true some men do leave their wives for women with whom they live happier lives. But a majority have the affair with their hot, young and eager secretaries, stay married and when the secretary starts to make too much noise about them leaving, fire her and get a new one. This man hasnt even said a thing yet about getting it on with you, leaving his wife or even making you a second wife! He isnt your one chance for happiness but a one-way ticket to misery. If working with this man is too much temptation, you might be better off looking for another job.

Bunmi

ask@dearbunmi.com
http://dearbunmi.com/married-man-makes-happy/

gud answer

So how can we help you now?

Will never allow my future wife or girl to work as a secretary for any man.. 80% of the ogas we have here sleeps with their secretary.. True or false?

Reminds me if my secretary, she has succeeded in converting me to their church. Nothing more

Dear Bunmi,

can you pls stop disturbing us with the stupíd problems of ur clients. If she wan go fūck pesin wey dey almost as old as her papa,then allow am make she go na.