I have been married for about
6yrs, with 2 beautiful kids.




I have never taken a shower together with
hubby, I tried and he pushed me out, my
husband has never held my hands ,public nor
private. and I decided to accept my fate.
But recently, I have become worried as lack of
sex has crept in and I kinda lost myself
esteem .




For about 4months , my husband didn't touch
me, there was a time I was so Hot, couldn't
bear it anymore, so I went to meet him , we
were both in the sitting room, I winked at him
and said baby, I'm really Hot u know I've
been telling u, guess what he said?
He told me 'that I don't have problem abi' that
I beg he is not in the mood, after that
incidence , I told myself I will not make any
move anymore. And concluded maybe his
libido is low.





So for the past one week , my spirit has not
been at rest, I've been praying as well ,
something said, I should check his phone
Ps: his phone is password protected
So I decided that I'll find a way to get his
password, then an idea came to me
I made a video of him, typing his passwords,
with my phone .





So that night, whilst he was asleep , I took his
phone , entered his password. What did I see ,
oh lord .
I saw not 1, 2, 3, 4,5,6,7,8 but countless of
girls on whatzapp chat, with messages of how
he has been sleeping with them and also
giving them money.i snapped a screen shot
as evidence.


Did I mention he keeps late night!
So that night, I packed my bags, took my
passport.....
When I woke up, I sat on the bed facing him, I
confronted him.

He didn't know in details what I had seen, he
became defensive and of course lied, when I
started downloading evidence, he started
saying, it is bullshit, those are nonsense and
doesn't mean anything to him , I took his
phone and smashed it, threw it downstairs
As I write ,I'm in Nigeria , with my parents. I've
decided to go for a divorce. My mum says I
should work it out with him .
Dad says, I should do HIV test first of all, and
that he supports my decision.

Please I'm broken and a mess, I need to know
how to get pass through this psin
My wife Rachel wrote in to you a while back
about how she caught me with another woman
on our anniversary.
If I tell you it has been easy winning her back
I will be a liar! My wife can do shakara for the
entire Nigeria, South Africa and UK combined.

She really made me suffer. After I went back
to London to beg for forgiveness, she changed
the locks with my sisters help, who by the way
has still not found her own man and is still
meddling in my marriage, to find her own man
she no gree!

I slept in a hotel for a good 4 weeks, bearing
in mind that I had left my work, patients and
businesses behind in Nigeria. Pls how can I
win her back ? I am a changed man now, pls
let her know. tvc connect.. #bedtime talk

Jeloser pls are u d sex starved wife?

talk things out and don't be hasty to act. if he doesn't change consult his family