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I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Angelanest: 10:37am On Dec 09, 2017
A Nigerian man who has been married for about three years now - has shared a word of advice for some unmarried ladies. According to Adewale Aladejana, he wouldn't have been married if his wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?".

The man who is apparently enjoying his union is urging ladies to stop assuming that the guys they are dating will marry them and ask the right question because they they deserve to know.

Below is what he shared on Facebook;

I have been married for over 3 years now but we wouldn't be married when we did if my wife didn't ask the crucial question "baby when are we getting married?"

Ladies if you have been dating a man for a year or close to a year, you have EVERY right to ask him "when are we getting married?" Two things will happen; it's either he gets pissed or both of you will work on a date immediately. In my own case we picked a date and by the end of 2013 we had our court wedding and by February 2014 we were married.

Ladies STOP ASSUMING, ask questions, you DESERVE to know. Stop assuming you are dating because he calls you all the time and takes you out, let him ask you to be his babe the right way, don't make excuses for him, men know how to ask when they really want something, if he needs you that much he will ask!

May common sense fall on you in Jesus name.

You too can be a social media evangelist kindly share so that others can be blessed as you have been blessed. Thank you for reading.


Source; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2017/12/wife-asked-crucial-question-got-married-nigerian-man-reveals.html

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Angelanest: 10:39am On Dec 09, 2017
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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by FortifiedCity: 10:39am On Dec 09, 2017
shocked

Honestly ladies need to start asking necessary questions when it comes to relationships. How will you be dating someone for years without bringing up the topic of marriage. You will stay there and be assuming that he will suddenly propose to you by kneeling down. Keep waiting you hear.

I understand some ladies really don't bother about sharing their toto but please thread with caution. That's why after dating a guy for years and probably cheating intermittently, you dump each other and he moveĀ§ on, then you carry your slacked kini to the next person.

"When are we getting married' is a question that will make a guy think and decide if he actually wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Don't encourage relationship time wasters, ask the question Now!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 10:48am On Dec 09, 2017
BabbanBura grin

When are we getting married?
wink

omooba969 grin
When are we getting married? wink

Lemme stop here grin

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 10:51am On Dec 09, 2017
so far they are getting the material things, they can end up becoming a babymama

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by MhizzAJ(f): 10:51am On Dec 09, 2017
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by MhizzAJ(f): 10:52am On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:
BabbanBura grin

When are we getting married?
wink

omooba969 grin
When are we getting married? wink

Lemme stop here grin
Take it easy babe grin grin
How many of them at a time cheesy

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by khome(f): 11:05am On Dec 09, 2017
MhizzAJ:
Take it easy babe grin grin How many of them at a time cheesy
Leave her jor She wanto marry 2husby

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by MhizzAJ(f): 11:07am On Dec 09, 2017
khome:
Leave her jor
She wanto marry 2husby

That's selfishness grin grin grin

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 11:17am On Dec 09, 2017
MhizzAJ:

Take it easy babe grin grin
How many of them at a time cheesy

Many of them wink smiley

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 11:18am On Dec 09, 2017
khome:
Leave her jor
She wanto marry 2husby

Who told you they are two grin
I have 1001 grin grin

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by MhizzAJ(f): 11:19am On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:


Many of them wink smiley
Lucky you
Abeg dash me 1 cheesy

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 11:19am On Dec 09, 2017
MhizzAJ:

Lucky you

Lols.
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 11:20am On Dec 09, 2017
MhizzAJ:

Lucky you
Abeg dash me 1 cheesy

Lemme think about it wink smiley
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Rutley(m): 11:22am On Dec 09, 2017
How many you wanna get married to? grin cheesy shocked

ibkkk:
BabbanBura grin

When are we getting married?
wink

omooba969 grin
When are we getting married? wink

Lemme stop here grin

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Lalas247(f): 11:23am On Dec 09, 2017
Some people doing 3 years fear no go let the girl ask am grin

Kai
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 11:23am On Dec 09, 2017
Rutley:
How many you wanna get married to? grin cheesy shocked


My choice tongue grin
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by khome(f): 11:24am On Dec 09, 2017
ibkkk:

Who told you they are two grin I have 1001 grin grin
Tuale MAMA No wonder body dey bite MhizzAJ
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 11:27am On Dec 09, 2017
khome:
Tuale MAMA
No wonder body dey bite MhizzAJ

Babes, no more "tuale" o
Na "buate"
grin grin grin
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by MhizzAJ(f): 11:27am On Dec 09, 2017
khome:
Tuale MAMA
No wonder body dey bite MhizzAJ
grin grin
I even told her to dash me one
She say she gonn think abourrit cheesy
Very stingy gal grin

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Rutley(m): 11:28am On Dec 09, 2017
Na you go tire na grin angry grin


ibkkk:


My choice tongue grin
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by ibkkk(f): 11:31am On Dec 09, 2017
Rutley:
Na you go tire na grin angry grin




Leave me.
Is it your tire tongue

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Rutley(m): 11:31am On Dec 09, 2017
Some are desperado. You cant judge with the lady's case.


MhizzAJ:
That is why I like sensible men...It's only sensible men that reason this way

Men are totally different from boys...If you say that to a boy consider the relationship Shaky because he will think the lady is a desperado

As for me i can't date more than 2 years max

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Rutley(m): 11:32am On Dec 09, 2017
Hehehehehehe i wonder oooo cheesy grin


ibkkk:



Leave me.
Is it your tire tongue
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by habsydiamond(m): 11:34am On Dec 09, 2017
MhizzAJ:

Take it easy babe grin grin
How many of them at a time cheesy
she's trying to kill two guys with one stone..,..sorry oo Na bird I mean

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Sirheny007(m): 12:50pm On Dec 09, 2017
cheesy
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by greenvillle: 12:51pm On Dec 09, 2017
undecided
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 12:51pm On Dec 09, 2017
Evaberry when are we getting married??

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Amberon11: 12:51pm On Dec 09, 2017
wink
Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by Nobody: 12:51pm On Dec 09, 2017
Wow!

But my man u suppose know when u go marry na.

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Re: I Wouldn't Have Been Married If My Wife Didn't Ask Me This Question; Man Reveals by tempex88(m): 12:51pm On Dec 09, 2017
This is very true. Some men just enjoy companionship without commitment. We need to always ask d right questions.

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