vizkiz:
I probably shouldn't type this online... But on three occasions have I disobeyed mum and the outcome was so so bad, I almost lost my life at a point just because I didn't heed to her instructions.

What we don't know is; no matter how old or outdated you think your parents are, that is not a criteria for you disobey their instructions. An adage in yoruba says "what an elderly person sees setting down, you can't see standing up or even searching for it" lol, I don't know how to express myself properly in yoruba, but you should understand what I mean.

So there is definitely going to be a tangible reason why she asked you to dump her ass. What you should do as a man is call your mum privately and have a mother-son chat with her I am positive she will show you her reasons

juhan:
so u have small sense Op listen to this nigga here. Talk to ur mom and know her reason for not accepting ur woman.

IZZIT me that you are talking...

Oh I have forgotten, I am now a changed man.

God bless you sister

vizkiz:


IZZIT me that you are talking...

Oh I have forgotten, I am now a changed man.

God bless you sister

juhan:
lol bless you too. Lets c how long you'll remain a 'changed man'

probably the next 10 seconds

vizkiz:
I probably shouldn't type this online... But on three occasions have I disobeyed mum and the outcome was so so bad, I almost lost my life at a point just because I didn't heed to her instructions.

What we don't know is; no matter how old or outdated you think your parents are, that is not a criteria for you disobey their instructions. An adage in yoruba says "what an elderly person sees setting down, you can't see standing up or even searching for it" lol, I don't know how to express myself properly in yoruba, but you should understand what I mean.

So there is definitely going to be a tangible reason why she asked you to dump her ass. What you should do as a man is call your mum privately and have a mother-son chat with her I am positive she will show you her reasons

judeogbami:
I spoke to her privately even begged her, she won't budge on the matter, she even said if I continues she won't follow me to her house when I am going to marry her. All these because she said that her pastor said he does not see her in my future I don't know what to do or what action I'm to take next I'm very confused.

judeogbami:
I'm new with this, so please bear with me, I have been dating this girl for a long time, if it is the question of if I love her there's no doubt about it from me, but my mom who knows I have been dating her just began to say that she is not the right person for me and that she doesn't like her at all, this matter got serious that it seems I don't know what I'm doing, I don't want to break her heart because I know she will be very devastated cause we've dated for up to three years and me too, I don't know if I can bear leaving her, I don't know what to do; should I obey my mom and let her be or should I continue the relationship and bear the consequences of disobeying my mom. Please I need advise.