There is this girl I love and dont know how to tell her cos we've been friends since childhood and infact looks more like a sister to me.
I have always seen her as a sister but I've developed likeness for her

femzed:

There is this girl I love and dont know how to tell her cos we've been friends since childhood and infact looks more like a sister to me.
I have always seen her as a sister but I've developed likeness for her

U maybe abt to lose a close friend.

I think you should tell her you how you feel and here's my reason: firstly, if you don't tell her, the feelings will keep eating you up inside, Secondly, she might feel the same way about you and not know how to express her feelingsas well, Thirdly, If you decide to bottle it up, your friendship will not be the same again because of your feelings,

So the way i see it, the day your heart betrayed you and you started liking her, that was the day your friendship was compromised, (not that it's any fault of yours),

I think you should tell her how you feel and make it clear that there are no pressures, if she feels the same way about you then bang! good for you, but if she doesn't then I'm sorry, you'll have to give your heart time to heal or get over her before your true friendship can really continue,

Look her in the eyes more often
Hold her hand gentle when u speak to her
When next u visit, give her a peck on the cheek when u are leaving
If she doesn't complain up to this stage, sit her down and tell her how u feel

whitelexi:

Look her in the eyes more often
Hold her hand gentle when u speak to her
When next u visit, give her a peck on the cheek when u are leaving
If she doesn't complain up to this stage, sit her down and tell her how u feel

nice one

I think you should first understand the feeling you have for her. Are you jealous when you see her with another man? Are you admiring her developing figures? Are you sure you know what you want form her? if your answer is yes to the last part, what you want form her will help you to know if you are truely in love or not. However, I will suggest you declare your intention to her first so that the girl may know who you are. The girl may accept you or may not. If she does not, this will help you to proof your genuine love for her and if she accept you immidiately, this will help you to be careful for the future. Above all pray more than thinking of your feeling.

Good luck.

whitelexi:

Look her in the eyes more often
Hold her hand gentle when u speak to her
When next u visit, give her a peck on the cheek when u are leaving
If she doesn't complain up to this stage, sit her down and tell her how u feel

am beggining to believe some of those allegations.
just hope child abuse is not included.

If she's dating someone dont bother , or you will loss a good friend

izeek:


am beggining to believe some of those allegations.
just hope child abuse is not included.

Nice one
But u should really not believe what u hear, nobody holy pass, they're all pretenders.

And i dont do kids ohhhh

whitelexi:

Nice one
But u should really not believe what u hear, nobody holy pass, they're all pretenders.

And i dont do kids ohhhh

u dont have to tell me, lol. even 2baba that sang the song has released five since then.

sincerely i hardly believe when people come out with such spurious allegations,
there is always self interest in it. and once that is there, then the tale wud never be d entire truth.
they wud manipulate it to soothe them. trust me, i know. have been a victim of this kain drama here b4.

izeek:

u dont have to tell me, lol. even 2baba that sang the song has released five since then. 

sincerely i hardly believe when people come out with such spurious allegations,
there is always self interest in it. and once that is there, then the tale wud never be d entire truth.
they wud manipulate it to soothe them. trust me, i know. have been a victim of this kain drama here b4.

This is the first time i've seen a thread vanish from nairaland so quickly , normally they just lock it and let it rot, but cos they know what was about to happen, this one vanished   I cant even find any of my posts in those threads in my history

Nairaland no go kill person

From experience, its a 50-50 chance, once you utter the words, your relationship will never be the same.
Think hard. Watch out for clues if she is interested in something more than friendship.
Ask in a roundabout way if she is seeing anyone, then decide, Goodluck.

forget her,and get over it.She will always be ur friend not ur lover no matter what u say to her.Next time u meet a girl decide weather she will be a friend or a lover and tell her ur intensions that very first time not waiting and becoming a friend before letting the beans spill out. Forget her and find someone else.