Have u ever been involved in a distant relationship? If yes, lets hear ur experience cos felt to me i think it doesn't work most cases, forget about people usual advice on communication, i tell all na lie.

what happens when u date long distance is that everytime u get together it is like a date.it is brand new and it is fresh but its not real.the real part of it you dont get to experience because everything is like a vacation ,you cant go beyound casual dating when u are miles away from each other
when you get ready to settle that thing on down some body gotta pack up their stuff
and if you cant and i aint then we are at the end of the road
THE THING YOU HAVE TO BE PRESENT TO IN DATING IS THAT YOU CAN NEVER BUILD IN SEPERATE PLACES
it takes strong people to keep distance relationship going

its just stupid to me cos u wana date some1 very far away from you,

Tyt

depends on the distance as in can regular visits be facilitated? also the personality of the people involved some people are clingy by nature others prefer their own space so long distance is perfect in that case. Also it depends on the duration of the separation and the purpose if longer than 1 year and no real plan for the future of the couple afterwards then it should just fizzle.

Distant r/ships need a lot of, trust, patience, undertanding!! Infact, it needs a lot of WORK!!
 

look ask ppl abroad abt how their babes here is doing they will tell you that the bitch left em for some1 else! haba the truth is u will definitely lie to each other!

aomom:

look ask ppl abroad abt how their babes here is doing they will tell you that the bitch left em for some1 else! haba the truth is u will definitely lie to each other!

I had to laugh at that. You speak the cold hard truth, brother. Nothing but the truth.

this is nat a matter of making this up i dont av a galfriend because all the gals i am interested in are saying the same thing which is am too busy for them, this is me that is within range talk less of some1 out of reach

we only communicate through phone. Thanks to Multilinks.

civilize ben this is prof. teejaynificent how yah doing?

I won't say its easy. . .but we make it work. . .and I can bet you I have a better relationship than most of the close proximity relationships. . .

I also come to understand n realize. . .if your relationship stands the test of the distance and time. . .then when you both finally together. . .it would be hard for anything to break up both apart. . .because that trust, understanding and communication has been built. . .

You just gonna know if your partner is worth the stress and find a way to make it work. . .and its also important to take every opportunity you can get to go visiting your partner. . .

@poster,
Distant relationship is pure bad news.In most cases it doesn't work.Even if two people were so much in love n somehow one had to go away,d distance breaks them up eventually but for a few that endures.
My experience was actually not a very bad one or pleasant.Distance made me feel we were compatible until we had d time to spend together.When we spent time together,it occured to me that i would've made d greatest mistake of my life had i decided to marry her like i planned.Like IICE mentioned in her post,distant relationship is only fresh each time u meet,but it's not real.Closeness is what's real!

@Thonia slim,
you hit the nail on the head.

ThoniaSlim:

I won't say its easy. . .but we make it work. . .and I can bet you I have a better relationship than most of the close proximity relationships. . .

I also come to understand n realize. . .if your relationship stands the test of the distance and time. . .then when you both finally together. . .it would be hard for anything to break up both apart. . .because that trust, understanding and communication has been built. . .

You just gonna know if your partner is worth the stress and find a way to make it work. . .and its also important to take every opportunity you can get to go visiting your partner. . .

anything thats has been structured nat to go wrong, when it does it is difficult to correct!
baby it simple even ppl that are within the range are cheating on each other, nat to talk of ppl far apart that u dont know jack about

It cn wrk if dey are committed. I mean, even d byfy/grlfy dt cohabitates wt u, cn fck under ur nose wtout u knwing.

olusolami:

It cn wrk if dey are committed. I mean, even d byfy/grlfy dt cohabitates wt u, cn fck under your nose wtout u knwing.

yeah right them wan they dhl something to each other?

Even the close range ones the trust is nat stable, there will be monitoring from both parties! Buh distance relationship hmmm a hard! Even the married ones that their spouse is in another country or state r nat finding it easy! Xpecially d ladies hu wants their partner to be alwayz with them!

I think distant relationships is meant only 4 the strong hearted.

@poster; Sometimes, no matter how hard you try, at a point in time in your relationship, there will 'always' be some distance between you and her. For example,you just graduated and she's still in school, will you go live with her on campus? Or she goes for NYSC in anambra and you're working in lagos, what will you do? Even if you're both close in proximity,if she's a biatch,she's still gonna cheat on you. The key thing is TRUST & UNDERSTANDING.

Zerocool, yea i really feel ur post, u hit d nail on the head n i guess there is no other truth dan that.