dollyjoy:
Getting married for the right reason and to the right person is the most important thing.

WHITEWIZARD:
there is nothing like right person in a marriage.

dollyjoy:
There is.

WHITEWIZARD:
there is nothing like right person in a marriage.

iceberylin:
When are they passing Domestic Violence bill

Too many Herdsmen getting married

dollyjoy:
Getting married for the right reason and to the right person is the most important thing.

donholy28:
Are u trying to say that everyone marries d wrong person?

dollyjoy:
Getting married for the right reason and to the right person is the most important thing.

Seyibabalola:
I read of a man who beat his wife to death on my facebook page. And down the post, some ladies commented that all men are evil and dangerous. One of them even expressed a doubt if she would even marry. Now, it is not a new thing that lots of ladies now believe that all men are bad, after probably being jilted or used and dumped by a guy or after reading or hearing about men who beat their wives, even to death like this case here. But this is what i have to say: Marriage is sweet, if only you get things right before going into it. If you prepare well for it, you won't regret getting married and now believing that all men are evil or dangerous. The first preparation is you yourself changing your bad characters and building yourself up to attract the kind of loving, God fearing, rich and caring man you want as husband. One major error many ladies make is that they want a good,caring, loving, and rich man, but they are placing themselves too high or expensive in such a way that many of these men think that all they want is money and material wealth. In this case, they have opened an easy way for men who have this money or material wealth, but wrong motives or purpose for relationship or marriage and who would only marry them for their bodies. And after getting married and getting their bodies, they start showing them their real colours(the beast in them). Besides, marriage also takes a humble wife to succeed. How many women now a days are submissive to their husbands? No matter how rich, beautiful or educated you are, the man is still your head. Be submissive to him. And how many women in marriage have a good relationship with God? If you don't have God in your life, you have failed already. In conclusion, not all men are evil or bad. If you want a good man, be a good lady. If you want a sweet marriage, be submissive and have a good relationship with God.

WHITEWIZARD:
This is one mistake humans make, when the said right person begins to do wrongs, he then now turns to he or she is now showing his or her true colour. hush it my dear, you only enjoy marriage when u have it in mind that there will be hardtimes and the man or woman will do you wrongs in a time.

Ruq:

Brace yourself.
Butchcassidy we might need you here

Seyibabalola:


Be the right person and you will attract the right person. It's as simple as that.

dollyjoy:
quite funny i must confess,lol.


There is always a compatible partner dearie,you don't expect a hot tempered person to get married to same,there is no way in hell the marriage will work eerm, marriage is not always rosy,any right thinking human knows this, there is nothing like true colour btw,the signs are always there,humans always bask in the false believe that they can change their partner which to me is not possible.

WHITEWIZARD:
SWEETY THE ONLY THING THAT IS CONSTANT IN LIFE IS CHANGE. "IF YOU LEAVE HIM BECAUSE HE IS HOT TEMPERED INSTEAD OF HELPING HIM BY TAKING HIM TO A REHAB. then after u left another lady help him and he changed. so what are we yapping about? there is always a sence in every Nonsence.

dollyjoy:
There is always a compatible partner,you can only be yourself any attempt at changing who you are just to be the right partner is a waste of time.

dollyjoy:
Rehab??.

Check his body temperature# . You need rest,oya goan sleep

Seyibabalola:


Yes, there is always a compatible partner which simply means that if you are a bad person, a lady who places material wealth or money above God and His will for her life, you will surely find your compatible beast in human skin who will use you and dump you or beat you to death in marriage. Be yourself, but that does not include your negative self. Be what you want.

dollyjoy:
opposite attracts.

Goodmen get married to bad women and vice versa

Seyibabalola:


A Good man can never get married to a bad woman. Check well, those men you think they are good are not. To help you, being a good man or good woman is having a solid relationship with God. If you are in a good relationship with God, you cannot marry wrong dear.

dollyjoy:
i don't agree with you but will let it slid. Have a goodnight rest sweery

donholy28:
Are u trying to say that everyone marries d wrong person?

Seyibabalola:
I read of a man who beat his wife to death on my facebook page. And down the post, some ladies commented that all men are evil and dangerous. One of them even expressed a doubt if she would even marry. Now, it is not a new thing that lots of ladies now believe that all men are bad, after probably being jilted or used and dumped by a guy or after reading or hearing about men who beat their wives, even to death like this case here. But this is what i have to say: Marriage is sweet, if only you get things right before going into it. If you prepare well for it, you won't regret getting married and now believing that all men are evil or dangerous.

The first preparation is you yourself changing your bad characters and building yourself up to attract the kind of loving, God fearing, rich and caring man you want as husband.

One major error many ladies make is that they want a good,caring, loving, and rich man, but they are placing themselves too high or expensive in such a way that many of these men think that all they want is money and material wealth.

In this case, they have opened an easy way for men who have this money or material wealth, but wrong motives or purpose for relationship or marriage and who would only marry them for their bodies.

And after getting married and getting their bodies, they start showing them their real colours(the beast in them).

Besides, marriage also takes a humble wife to succeed. How many women now a days are submissive to their husbands?

No matter how rich, beautiful or educated you are, the man is still your head. Be submissive to him. And how many women in marriage have a good relationship with God? If you don't have God in your life, you have failed already.

In conclusion, not all men are evil or bad. If you want a good man, be a good lady. If you want a sweet marriage, be submissive and have a good relationship with God.

MRBrownJ:


you started well, so far so good



ERROR #1
nobody should ever try to change who the truly are because guess what?! this is who you are, your essence, your whole, and no matter how you pretend to be different, the natural you will always come right back. a man should love the good/bad/ugly and everything that comes along with being YOU, anything less and that person is NOT meant for you.



ERROR #2
there is nothing wrong with having preferences and high standards, so long as you have equally high standards. never sell yourself cheap.



ERROR #3
the issue above has nothing to do with the women and all to do with these evil men. a lady who aint moved by money and bling bling will see through the fakeness in that man's heart.... and dismiss him before getting married to his evil nyansh. the desperate/goldigging women who would marry these men in a heartbeat will get what they deserve.



ERROR #4
if a "wise" woman has been tricked into such marriage then divorce will sort this issue, et voila!



ERROR #5
submissions are for owners and their pets. marriage today is a UNION where both give their input equally for the wellbeing of that union. nobody is above the other and every important decisions should be taken together and with the blessing of the other. a man who expects his wife to be under him, is a weak being!



ERROR #6
using the Bible to dictate what should/shouldnt be done in marriage is a sure way to fail. that same bible tells you to stone a woman who isnt married, is that what you will do if you find out your wife isnt a virgin? get real and start living in the 21century.
and dont forget: take the bible for ALL its worth or nothing, but dont just take what fits your selfish agenda.



you actually sound like these evil men who want to beat their wives into submission (like the guy you mentionned), and then hide under the laws of that old dated bible verses!

Seyibabalola:

You are just Baseless in all your comments. Next time, if you want to comment on a post, first of all, understand the message properly. Secondly, you have a carnal mind.