I'm deeply hurt and pained and feel betrayed.
I had this childhood crush of mine after about 8 years, she called me out of the blue to ask me if i was still in calabar because she just got admitted into unical, from there onwards our relationship blossomed and I had to drop all i was doing at the time and helped her get accommodation and even paid for 2 years for her from the cash i wanted to use for my own accommodation in lagos.

I totally sacrificed my time, cash, resources for over 2 years and shouldered some of her financial responsibilities. Fast forward two years later, she told me that she saw in a revelation that am not the guy for her and that her pastor also confirmed it!!!!
She is a church girl and I have never had sex with her before because I respects her wish to be a virgin till marriage. Honestly I just feel used and it's making me hate every girl I see on the streets.
And the annoying thing is that she won't stop calling me. Pls guys what do i do?

mmmm..I dunno...I don't believe this is ur story.

U just have to let it go man... wat is not urs can never be urs

KashyBaby:
mmmm..I dunno...I don't believe this is ur story.

I wished I didn't get angry and deleted her from my whatsapp, would have grabbed the messages for you guys to see

You should give yourself a slap. Honestly I don't understand how you guys keep falling for the same crackhead stories about prophesies & other garbage.

olokpa11:
I'm deeply hurt and pained and feel betrayed.
I had this childhood crush of mine after about 8 years, she called me out of the blue to ask me if i was still in calabar because she just got admitted into unical, from there onwards our relationship blossomed and I had to drop all i was doing at the time and helped her get accommodation and even paid for 2 years for her from the cash i wanted to use for my own accommodation in lagos.

I totally sacrificed my time, cash, resources for over 2 years and shouldered some of her financial responsibilities. Fast forward two years later, she told me that she saw in a revelation that am not the guy for her and that her pastor also confirmed it!!!!
She is a church girl and I have never had sex with her before because I respects her wish to be a virgin till marriage. Honestly I just feel used and it's making me hate every girl I see on the streets.
And the annoying thing is that she won't stop calling me. Pls guys what do i do?

If you having girl problems, I feel bad for you son
I got 99 problems but a bìtch ain't one

PunkyV:
You should give yourself a slap. Honestly I don't understand how you guys keep falling for the same crackhead stories about prophesies & other garbage.

like I told her, I don't believe the excuse she is giving me and let her so called pastor tell me to my face, then he would explain how he now helps me to see my own revelation that I didn't see.
To me and like I told her, the whole excuse is bleeped

She saw a vision? her pastor confirmed it? where was her pastor when u where devoting ur time to her... why didnt she get a revelation while u where spending on her... she juz wants to jilt u, and ure playing along... u Fuck_up jare.

Why didn't u have an intimate connection with her eh?

zeetyzin:
She saw a vision?
her pastor confirmed it?
where was her pastor when u where devoting ur time to her...
why didnt she get a revelation while u where spending on her...
she juz wants to jilt u, and ure playing along...
u Fuck_up jare.

I can't force her to date me, and I can't force her to be with me, I told her if she wants to leave let her say so.

talk2alabama:
Why didn't u have an intimate connection with her eh?

She is the church type, belongs to units, I didn't want to drag her back with respect to her faith, and I was willing to wait because I felt I was in the right place

talk2alabama:
Why didn't u have an intimate connection with her eh?

She is the church type, belongs to units, I didn't want to drag her back with respect to her faith, and I was willing to wait because I felt I was in the right place , am still proud I didn't touch her!!!

talk2alabama:
Why didn't u have an intimate connection with her eh?

She is the church type, belongs to units, I didn't want to drag her back with respect to her faith, and I was willing to wait because I felt I was in the right place , am still proud I didn't touch her!!

olokpa11:
like I told her, I don't believe the excuse she is giving me and let her so called pastor tell me to my face, then he would explain how he now helps me to see my own revelation that I didn't see.
To me and like I told her, the whole excuse is bleeped

Block her from contacting you before she does your head in. You don't need to see her pastor to prove anything. You're not the one, fine. Tell her to Bleep off

talk2alabama:
Why didn't u have an intimate connection with her eh?

She is the church type, belongs to units, I didn't want to drag her back with respect to her faith, and I was willing to wait because I felt I was in the right place , am still proud I didn't touch her!!!

olokpa11:

She is the church type, belongs to units, I didn't want to drag her back with respect to her faith, and I was willing to wait because I felt I was in the right place , am still proud I didn't touch her!!!

ok. U are a very good guy

My brother friendzone her....shey she still dey call you?, friendzone her...make the friendzone very intense...dnt give in to her pleas o...chai i'm very good in this kind of thing...dnt ever allow her to be the one to friendzone you...most times ignore her calls, once in a while pick it, and when you pick it, be very straight foreward and keep the calls short, infact, most times be the one to end the call during conversation with her...i'm sounding like this cos i was once a victim...girls will always wanna eat their cakes and still have it...



Inshort, if it's possible cut every ties and connection with her...truth is, she has seen another elle in unical...you know girls usually have school and house boy friend...the school own is to give her love and sex....you wey be house boyfriend nato dey send cash and recharge cards every encompassing seconds...



Bro, wise up o.

Sorry bro I can feel ur pain d fact is u should let her go cos u are just been use as a steping stone

olokpa11:

She is the church type, belongs to units, I didn't want to drag her back with respect to her faith, and I was willing to wait because I felt I was in the right place , am still proud I didn't touch her!!!

Your mistake..too much respect given to her so she starts thinking you are a weakling..

You should have fvcked her first,that would have made things go more your way,even though fvcking her doesn't guarantee she will stay,but it sure helps a long way.

BTW..no matter what you do DONT BEG her to take you back,go out meet new people and enjoy yourself, don't reply her msgs always, maybe once in a while and just very casual responses but friendly..give her a lesson in friend zone 101

Just move on biko

firstking01:
My brother friendzone her....shey she still dey call you?, friendzone her...make the friendzone very intense...dnt give in to her pleas o...chai i'm very good in this kind of thing...dnt ever allow her to be the one to friendzone you...most times ignore her calls, once in a while pick it, and when you pick it, be very straight foreward and keep the calls short, infact, most times be the one to end the call during conversation with her...i'm sounding like this cos i was once a victim...girls will always wanna eat their cakes and still have it...



Inshort, if it's possible cut every ties and connection with her...truth is, she has seen another elle in unical...you know girls usually have school and house boy friend...the school own is to give her love and sex....you wey be house boyfriend nato dey send cash and recharge cards every encompassing seconds...



Bro, wise up o.

Thanks bro,i think that is what I would do, she os always sending me messages on whatsapp asking if am ok etc, I had to block her

torqque7:

Your mistake..too much respect given to her so she starts thinking you are a weakling..

You should have fvcked her first,that would have made things go more your way,even though fvcking her doesn't guarantee she will stay,but it sure helps a long way.

BTW..no matter what you do DONT BEG her to take you back,go out meet new people and enjoy yourself, don't reply her msgs always, maybe once in a while and just very casual responses but friendly..give her a lesson in friend zone 101

tnxs bro

2yrs rent ....... hope u paid in ur name.... tell her u need to use d room to speak to ur God

Maga don pay shout hallelujah oooooo oooooo ooo

olokpa11:
I'm deeply hurt and pained and feel betrayed.
I had this childhood crush of mine after about 8 years, she called me out of the blue to ask me if i was still in calabar because she just got admitted into unical, from there onwards our relationship blossomed and I had to drop all i was doing at the time and helped her get accommodation and even paid for 2 years for her from the cash i wanted to use for my own accommodation in lagos.

I totally sacrificed my time, cash, resources for over 2 years and shouldered some of her financial responsibilities. Fast forward two years later, she told me that she saw in a revelation that am not the guy for her and that her pastor also confirmed it!!!!
She is a church girl and I have never had sex with her before because I respects her wish to be a virgin till marriage. Honestly I just feel used and it's making me hate every girl I see on the streets.
And the annoying thing is that she won't stop calling me. Pls guys what do i do?

Chai Op,you are a big Mumu,am sure you have spent over N100,000 on that gal.chai op,Nah only your Mumu waka com,There is God o!