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harvey:

Gaby no be lie u talk.but still na joblessness put this guy for this mess.if he had a job he wont be too much into sex.anyway its the will of God and i pray he gives u the means to take care of this dude coming into the world.all things works together for good.u should have used protection my guy or avoid am.cos God is against pre-marital sex and u know he says our body is the temple of the lord.make peace with God and he will give u the means to take adequate care of the baby.amen

my pastor, i dey feel u oo
lol

i wont dubbed you irresponsible atall.

how do u intend 2 take care of the baby?
dont bring a child into this world to suffer.
find a job quick and step up ur game.

Let the child live,
u never can tell what luck he brings.
U ve even gratuated,only job hunting,
what about brick layer when dey born pickin anyhow?

Let the child live pls

awumen:

i wont dubbed you irresponsible atall,though i started working at 23 immediately after my nysc but i got a gurl pregnant when i was 22 in my final year at school,everyone advised that she abort but i insisted that she keeps it afterall my papa can feed us all,fortunately for me things worked out,infact the baby brought me luck,got a job in an oil company immediately after nysc and today with God i am up up we have a ssecond baby and was able to afford our weddin in london all the way from naija(no b God),so my broda pray harder,work harder and am sure the head of the baby go bring luck.

And how many people are going to be as lucky as you? People should learn to be realistic and stop waiting on the lord to do abracadabra.
Work with the known situation and forget abt the unkown scenarios

Some people are just talking anyhow.Many of all these people apportioning blame on him have done one abortion or the other and many have made love without condom.If what i am saying is lie,just tell me.Some girls here even prefer it without condom,but in the public they will maintain that all their sex encounter is with condom.Some are in the game of doing abortion secretly or taking contraceptives,is it not bad?,than to leave the pregnancy.Mr poster,dont mind them,just be focused,do ur best,dont worry much ,commit it to God.You will definetly succeed.

jay bee:

We are not talking about statistics or whatsoever. At the time the Op posted the thread he was unemployed and i deem that rather irresponsible getting a girl pregnant cos i just can't see how he his going to be able to take care of 3 people when he can't currently handle his own business properly.
Responsible can mean different things to different people but on the basic front, if he a man can't provide for himself then why bring a child into the world? Nigerian government doesn't provide benefits/support for children so what r u on abt bruv?

I do understand that he must have been a little careless about protecting himself and his girlfriend from an 'unwanted' pregnancy. But, and I speak from situations I've witnessed, there are men who only were able to work a lot out for themselves when they impregnated a girl. They found in themselves, zeal and potentials they never thought was there and made use of it right away.

The mere thought that he has two extra people to take care of can drive him into tapping out knowledge and ideas that he never had. Some situations are bad but they always bring out the best in us and this one is not an exception.

you are too broke to be a father, not too young.

You are too broke to be a dad.

If you can have sex at your age then you are old enough to be a dad.