MsDarkSkin:

190. . .

tunnex190:

Whenever i say to her what she has done, she wouldn't reason with me. But she keeps saying i was wrong because those my assumptions about her being/having relationship with those guys were wrong. And being talking to those guys on phone doesn't mean she's having affair with anyone.

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]She's playing on your Intelligence and Soft hearted Nature. . . She knows her tears make you weak, so she uses that weapon against you. . . If she wants to end the relationship, let her come up and say so, there is no need trying to be smart about it. It's her life and how she lays her bed, she would lie on it.

Now friend, are you willing to continue the relationship?[/size]

190_@:

^Gbam - Hows rugby

you left cov xx 

Hello fellow NLers! I just need your advice on this issue. I have a girlfriend and nothing more to it. I have always loved her and i'm still loving her not because of a reason but an emotional feelings i have developed towards her. Though, i personally didn't expect deep relationship with her but later we found ourselves fall in love. We've been together almost 2 years now.

It just occurred to me later on that she is hiding some truth from me. She doesn't truly like open up to me until i pressurize her and after lots of nagging. Hound upon hound. I've said a lot of things to persuade her about being honest. Everyone (guys) is a friend to her. Because she keeps alot of male-friends as she called them. Anyway, i see nothing wrong with attitude of keeping male friends.

She gives guys too much audience. Sometimes, someone she called a friend will later be her regular caller on phone. And sometime she will be the first to beep, call or text that friends of her anytime she's less busy. I guess she takes pleasure in doing that.

But what baffle me most is that anytime i tried to let her realize her mistakes or tell her what i don't really like about her attitudes, she would say my assumptions about issues which surround the circumstances were wrong and that both major premises and minor premises which make the conclusion tangible were purely lies. For instance, i've caught her saving a guy's contact number with her aunt's name, sending messages upto 2, 3 pages almost everyday to a guy. And she said nothing is between them. Anyway, that has been resolved, she would still tell you that he's merely a friend. I understand. But what of a case when she was supposed to tell what really happened if she was asked of relationship with someone she had just met and exchanged a phone number with? She would either start to crying or get angry. What should i do? Should I be watchin all her attitudes and keep mute when she's done something so hurting? Or say it and make a cry?

Kamilu, what is the matter??

happijoh:

Exponental:

U guys are nt compatible.
If u cant respect n trust her (n vice versa), simply LOG OUT.

Nj girl:

190smh so u are a WOMAN BEATER U ARE A DISGRACE u beat up women and in your shamelesnes u ve got d guts 2 advice ds dude 2 shame on your sory arse

^Na which kin wahala come be this one  

Nj girl:

190smh so u are a WOMAN BEATER U ARE A DISGRACE u beat up women and in your shamelesnes u ve got d guts 2 advice ds dude 2 shame on your sory arse

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]She's playing on your Intelligence and Soft hearted Nature. . . She knows her tears make you weak, so she uses that weapon against you. . . If she wants to end the relationship, let her come up and say so, there is no need trying to be smart about it. It's her life and how she lays her bed, she would lie on it.

Now friend, are you willing to continue the relationship?[/size]

moroh:

Between MzDarkskin and Sexkillz, there's nothing more to say

tunnex190:

@Darkskin, i know it's not everyone she talks with i must add a meaning to. But, what about the attention she is giving them by sms them secretly, beep them when it takes longer before they call her? I might be jealous but not over-jealous. This is bound to happen when love exists

190_@:

^shut up - kip laffin @ whats not funny

MsDarkSkin:



GBAM!!  



as i said before take the time to talk to her.
if she appears to be nonchalant and unmoved by your feelings
you need to call it quits. Such woman would go through great lengths
to fulfill her need to be relevant and to fill what ever void she has,
even if it means hurting others. Such person would be dangerous to you BOTH:
if she is using you, she is using others which in this case are her "guy friends".

Talk to her and take note, then act!!