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Hold on let me consult the oracle,

mrover:

I have a girlfriend i have been dating for a year now, i luv her though, but i was opportuned to go through her messages, only to discover she's been sending luv messages to two different guys. Some of her description matches what she usually sends to me. Is it admissible to just break it up or wad'u think?

What other evidence do u need b4 u break up wit her? U want to wait till u find anoda man on top of her.

dude guess u have to call her and confront her.
her reaction wud tell if to break or not.

but wetin u dey find for her fone?

she could only be flirting,

@biola,
well its possible,
she might just be flirting,
or she might also be doing the do.

whichever he needs to confront her and trash am out wit her .

Curiosity, they say, killed the cat.

Eavesdroppers seldom hear anything good of themselves

What you don't know won't hurt you

. . . Could go on and on but I'm sure you get the point and in case you don't, here it it - STOP READING OTHER PEOPLE'S MESSAGES!!!

Sheesh!!

What on earth are you doing checking ur gf fone? Trust me, move like that only brings trouble. Anyway, ask her about it. You guys got to talk about it, it's very important.

Guy , I think by now you should know that most Girl's are cheats, they decieve you, at first when you meet her she pretends to be a descent Girl, she'll pretend she loves you, later when she mets another guy , she loses interest in you, you stuff like that man cheer up brace your self up and strike for another Girl!!!

just approach her, dont break up just like dat she might just be flirting.

u wud always know a cheating gf, u dint have to check her fone.

if she is very protective of her fone, then thats says alot.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

You need not bother about what she passed to others, what matter most is her behaviour to you, she might also be playing her game so that she wont fall into wrong hands, if you really love her, be patient and show her more care.

@ Poster

STOP SNOOPING THROUGH PEOPLE'S PHONES!!! U wouldn't be having this headache.

I would not even think any else.Show her the way outta ur heart.If you were caught they will want you to apologise to the whole world.
Let her flirt with the whole naija then.
Checking HIS GF PHONE is nothing bad.He can read text on her phone, becos they are both one and she in turn can read his.
If she was smart enough, there is always a delete on everyphone.No one will tell me not to check my gf phone, I do read my female pals text talkless of my gf.
I will read over and over again. so much fun in it

Poster,
if it bothers you that much then i'll suggest you sit her down and put it straight to her. . .Her responses should give you the answer you seek.

@ola_ide, @Junee
There's nothing wrong in going thru her messages, its gives me an idea into wat my gurl is upto. what if she's playing me all along, how wud i reconcile that even after making so much commitment on her?

@candyshore
Tks, I'l try ur suggestion, i thk it makes sense.

But in all, it goes to reveal wat girls are capable of doing even after u've done so much for them!

mrover:

@ola_ide, @Junee
There's nothing wrong in going thru her messages, its gives me an idea into wat my gurl is upto. what if she's playing me all along, how wud i reconcile that even after making so much commitment on her?

@candyshore
Tks, I'l try ur suggestion, i thk it makes sense.

But in all, it goes to reveal wat girls are capable of doing even after u've done so much for them!

Puhleeeeseeee. Like guys dont do worse when they cheat on thier newly wed wives.

@ xqwysyte
you can't blame one guy 4 wat guys have done, it's possible dis guy hasn't cheated and yet he's been cheated upon and believe u me, that hurts d most!
@ poster
i expected to read a part which said "i confronted her and she said. . . . "
u can't just see d messages on her fone then leave her without saying anything only to come and cry on Nland.
Confront her and from her reply, we can offer a diagnosis and prescribe an appropriate treatment.

Is that news; all girls are guilty of that crime; after all you haven’t married her; so why not taste the forbidden fruit and make her history?

@ALFCHYE, U na correct man. Seriously My female pals and I check our txt msgs witout any wahala, its funn. Infact each tym I see any1 dem afta a long tym, d 1st tin we do is xchange our fones n start scrolling tru d msgs while talking. At least I'll hav sumtin to tease her with, Its FUUNNN.

@MoneyRule
I didnt want to confront immediately, i needed to understand the situation first cos i may react with fury.

Well i did confront her today, and she blatantly denied knowing anyone of them claiming her friend initiated d whole thing as a game and she thought it was fun. imagine !

You are in trouble.

FIRST OF ALL. I WILL SAY CHECKING YOUR BOYFRIEND'S INBOX OR YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S INBOX IS VERY VERY WRONG. ASK ME WHY? GOOD? THIS IS BECAUSE OF NOT GETTING YOURSELVE HURT LIKE mrover. I DATED A GUY FOR COMPLETE ONE YEAR AND I NEVER VIEWED HIS INBOX ON MY OWN. BESIDES AM DIS GIRL DAT DONT DELETE MESSAGES. I BET U IF MY EX HAD TAKEN MY FONE TO VIEW MA SMS HE WUD HAV BIN HURT. DONT GET ME RONG I NEVER CHEATED ON HIM BUT AS A GIRL WHO IS PREPOSSESSING GUYS LOVE SENDING ME (CALL IT LOVELY OR SEXXY) SMS. IF HE HAD VIEWD MA INBOX ND SAW ALL DIS HE WIL DEFINITELY GO MAD LIKEWISE ME I KNO IF I SHUD GO HIS INBOX I WIL DEFINITELY SEE MESSAGES AND WIL GET JEALOUS FROM JEALOUS I'LL GET HURT AND DAT CUD LEAD TO PROBLEM DEN BREAK UP.

BUT mrover SAID SHE WAS D ONE SENDING D SMS. I WNAT US TO UNDASTND DAT DER IS A DIFFERENT BTW BOYFRND AND BOYLOVER. I DONT SEE ANY TIN WRONG IN SENDING LOVELY SMS TO D ONCE U LOVE. BESIDES EVEN IF U GET SUSPICIOUS ABT D TEXT ALL U NEED DO IS TO CALL HA AND SHE XPLAIN THRU HA XPLANATION U WIL B ABLE TO TEL IF D GUY SHE IS SENDING D TXT TO IS HA BOYFRND OR HA BOYLOVER.

MIND YOU I DINT SAY DER ITS NOT GUD BUT I DONT TINK IS RITE EIDA IN OTHER TO AVOID BEEN HURT, SCARED OR JEALOUS.

@DebbyDebby
I agree wiv u on some level. However, what if u are been played all along, wouldn't it hurt more? For som1 you intend to spend the rest of your life wiv, it is proper you have adequate knowledge about the person and what he/she is capable of doing.

Lastly, are u guys married?

u are noting special to her. u are just 1 out of 3 or possibly more so why all the fuss
i dnt get why some men are complete p*ssies sometimes

Just flirting or just doing, break it off, because it only takes one opportunity for just flirting to become just doing the do and that opportunity can be granted overnight.