Greetings from Switzerland fellow NLs hope the day is bright and good. Many a times we take actions that are inimical to our psychological advancement with the false believe that it end result will be beneficial to us. but at the end regrets chose to be our friend and companion.

A friend of mine is in dilema and this is as a result of his inactions during his days as a seminarian before he was sent packing out the seminary just six years into his priesthood studies. As a catholic and an ex seminarian, i know the rules and i live by the rules so it was so easy to move along untill the day i decided it was time to quit cos my calling was not to be a priest.

The young man at the center of the storm in this write up did what is known in medical parlance as VASECTOMY. Doctors in the house will understand this process but for d none medically inclined disciplines in this forum, vasectomy is simply a medical process for birth control.

Now a maried man, he is been hunted by his past action and he is in dilema on how to face his wife to tell her the secrete behind her inability to conceive.

Vasectomy is reversible...

No big deal...


Some people are Eunuchs

Not fair... he should have told her...
CONFESS! Women and kids no be joke o

It's not the end of the world. He can reverse the vasectomy; but the cost depends on a number of factors. He can get it done at around N4million irrespective of the complications. But if it's all green light, he can do it for N700k. South Africa prices though.

The power woman will be crying that it's her fault with mother inlaw palaver on her shoulders.
That ur guy has got to tell her bt he shld ensure that:
1. she has no pistol anywhere.
2. He shld not tell her in the kitchen cos of knife palaver.
3. Never tell her in the night on the bed just before they sleep cos he might nt wake up d next day.
In all, he has a 50-50 chance of survival bt he must still tell her ASAP.

He would have at least married a girl that did hysterectomy (removal of the uterus) . There wouldn't have been cause for alarm now. And my pain now is that, the woman must have swallowed all the swallowables (drugs) thinking the problem is with her as well as the family members of the said man.
Its high time women stop blaming themselves for infertility. Drag that man along you to run tests as well

Hasty decision, he wasn't even to sure he was gonna turn out a priest,he hurriedly did Vasectomy,he should face it an tell his wife, trust me she will definitely pack her load and leave

Go to hospital and reverse it simple!!

2goodbobo:
Go to hospital and reverse it simple!!

but is it actually reversible? just being curious though.

At OP , if his testicle are still functional, I mean producing sperms, then this can be harvested and use for assisted reproduction.