CaptainEColeJnr:
Who's that?
Anyway if she cannot show you off in front of other people not even as a friend .. then she ain't love you no more dude!
Look elsewhere !

ok. thanks

Israel5:
no offence taken. We're old enough. She's in her twenties and i'm older.

Then you need to sit her down and highlight what your expectations are in that relationship. Otherwise she'd think she's having the perfect relationship. That's my own #145.

ClintonDal:
Both of y'all still kids.

kids are baby goats so mind your words. We're not children. We'r almost thru with med school.

halfricanadian:


Pls sound it in his ear well

Look elsewhere op!!!!!!!

lol.. I already did that dear!!

CaptainEColeJnr:
lol.. I already did that dear!!

Tanx

eeem!So you mean your chest haven't touched her two tips? Cheii!
* I think you two are into a platonic relationship*. And probably, she is not into you and just sees you as a brother. You mightbe the one wanting the relationship at all cost .. So just talk to her and see if she truly sees you as a brother or lover. It canbe heart breakin tho...

jopretty:
You just made my evening aswearigad...

hn

iceberylin:
I don't know what you're dating o

lols

jimmyolasun:
eeem!So you mean your chest haven't touched her two tips? Cheii!
* I think you two are into a platonic relationship*. And probably, she is not into you and just sees you as a brother. You mightbe the one wanting the relationship at all cost .. So just talk to her and see if she truly sees you as a brother or lover. It canbe heart breakin tho...

i'm not the one pushing her hard and She cherishes/monitors me like crazy. Thanks tho.

halfricanadian:

Pls sound it in his ear well
Look elsewhere op!!!!!!!

y are u still single?

halfricanadian:


Tanx

oh now I see
You're halfricanadian
Sorry for not noticing a damsel like you

badassdude:
This dude has been friendzoned, ODE BURUKU

u lack it

Israel5:
y are u still single?

Its peaceful nd a realm of happiness nd much less responsibilities nd u keep ur sanity nd love urself more

CaptainEColeJnr:
oh now I see
You're halfricanadian
Sorry for not noticing a damsel like you

Funny tanx

Nice to meet u

halfricanadian:


Its peaceful nd a realm of happiness nd much less responsibilities nd u keep ur sanity nd love urself more

are all these not best shared?

Israel5:
are all these not best shared?

At dis point of my life NO!

halfricanadian:


Funny tanx

Nice to meet u

my pleasure dear

CaptainEColeJnr:
my pleasure dear

tanx captain charming

Israel5:
I love my girlfriend so much that i could do almost anything for her. Our relationship is a unique one. We've known eachother since childhood and i didn't ask her out before our ship left the coast and she didn't ask me out either but i'm having some challenges with her. We're both introverts but i've almost become an ex due to my exposure so i need your opinion. I'm frustrated in these areas..
1. She introduced me as a son of my father. We've been family friends since childhood so her dad knws mine. We lost touch and when we came back as adults, we .. U knw na. Eh en. So i visited her at her father's house and she introduced me as my father's son. Not even her friend fa. And it has become a norm for her. I don't do same.
2. She's never hugged me. My gf has never hugged(real hug). She gives me the side when i make a move. She's not DLBC member o. We're both thesame denom. She's not even spiritual like me sef.
3. She's never kissed me. My gf has never pecked me not to talk of kiss. She never gives me the chance. We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad.
4. She's very shy. Sometimes i think it's the reason for 2 and 3. I can't even hold her hands in the day only at night and her palms get all sweaty in the cold night.
5. She never gets angry at me. No matter what i do(i don't cheat), she never gets angry at me. I've seen her angry but it wasn't at me. It makes me scared cos that personality is dangerous.
6. She never visits me alone. She visits me with her gigantic brother and when they come, the brother and i talk football forgetting her presence..lol. And she complains abt that.
6. She complains i'm not romantic. This is the worst part. It makes me go haywire because she frustrates my every effort.
7. She does not take my words seriously. She insists i tell her words like, 'you're beautiful, i love your butt, waist, dress, i love you' et al but when i do she goes like, 'o pls, stop joking jawe'. It leaves me empty.
8. I can't tell her all these. This is the killer part. My complains break her bones and leaves her heart broken like i dumped her and i end up cuddling her with sorries and i love youss.
P.s: candid opinions only pls. Shove up criticisms and insults up your fingers. Thanks.
Lalastica

Bros I saw this -"We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad" and I am wondering why you would agree to that kind of "AGREEMENT"....Never you accept to date a "Nigerian" Babe (In short any babe) without sex....The outcome of that agreement always leaves the guy heartbroken...I am telling you bros...To even make matters worse, she is complaining that you ain't ROMANTIC...Ehhhhhh bros, if you know you truly love this babe and you don't wanna lose her and you don't wanna get heartbroken, Quickly "disagree" that "agreement" oooo....They say a word is enough for the wise.......

halfricanadian:


At dis point of my life NO!

do u hav a bitter reasn? No mattr what, u shldn't let ur life remain stunted out of spite or precaution. #just sayin.

coolh3ad:



Bros I saw this -"We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad" and I am wondering why you would agree to that kind of "AGREEMENT"....Never you accept to date a "Nigerian" Babe (In short any babe) without sex....The outcome of that agreement always leaves the guy heartbroken...I am telling you bros...To even make matters worse, she is complaining that you ain't ROMANTIC...Ehhhhhh bros, if you know you truly love this babe and you don't wanna lose her and you don't wanna get heartbroken, Quickly "disagree" that "agreement" oooo....They say a word is enough for the wise.......

haha.. Thanks mahn.

Israel5:
do u hav a bitter reasn? No mattr what, u shldn't let ur life remain stunted out of spite or precaution. #just sayin.

Never said i will never love again

For now all i need is selflove

Den heal get a whole entire new partner nd love again

halfricanadian:

tanx captain charming

someone is flirting right on my nose

Israel5:
someone is flirting right on my nose

Huh?

Focus on ur problems

Not on me

Im nt d source neither am i d solution

halfricanadian:

Never said i will never love again
For now all i need is selflove
Den heal get a whole entire new partner nd love again

ok

Israel5:
u lack it

Hey dude! get the hell of that friend zone and stop saying sh!t

halfricanadian:

Huh?
Focus on ur problems
Not on me
Im nt d source neither am i d solution

aiii... Whatever

Israel5:
aiii... Whatever

Ok

halfricanadian:


Never said i will never love again

For now all i need is selflove

Den heal get a whole entire new partner nd love again

you can still love again ... Actually, a girl hurt me so much back in my high school days... till now I'm still feeling the pain but sometimes we just have to dust ourselves up and move on.

you can love again dear

badassdude:


Hey dude! get the hell of that friend zone and stop saying sh!t

i'll consider ur advice. Thank you