Vikky014:
lol. i dnt hv any. i respect my boundary wt the opposite sex to avoid stories

More like someone still growing up and haven't dated more than a guy, sorry!

These re things we can't just escape, no matter how perfect we thought we are.
Its either we gets hurt by others or we hurt others.

makydebbie:
lol...feel free

Chai, really wished to, but its not just possible here

firstking01:
Chai, really wished to, but its not just possible here

lol...

KINGinVAHALA:

More like someone still growing up and haven't dated more than a guy, sorry!

These re things we can't just escape, no matter how perfect we thought we are.
Its either we gets hurt by others or we hurt others.

lol. i dnt think i will experience hrtbrk o bc i believe i can do wtout anybody wt God by my side...yes i hvnt dated more dan a guy as u rightly said

Vikky014:
lol. i dnt think i will experience hrtbrk o bc i believe i can do wtout anybody wt God by my side...yes i hvnt dated more dan a guy as u rightly said

Self belief is good, but its better you prepare your mind and heart for the worst, when you starting dating men.
The road isn't smooth, it takes only the strong and good in heart to survive it.

But I'm not ruling out luck, it might smile on you.

KINGinVAHALA:

Self belief is good, but its better you prepare your mind and heart for the worst, when you starting dating men.
The road isn't smooth, it takes only the strong and good in heart to survive it.

But I'm not ruling out luck, it might smile on you.

ys of course. i hv prepared my mind for d worst so whn it happens i will simply move on instead of feeling hurt

Sleekydee:
Oya fella, am sure at some point in your life you must have gone through a heart break or know someone who has, kindly share your story.

Key points:

(1) Have u gotten over the person or what them back?

(2) Have u forgiven the person?

(3) Who messed up(be sincerely, the fact that u were heart broken doesn't mean it wasn't you who slyed)

(4) feel free to call them out.

Oya let's go dere.

my own story plenty so no need of relating any.

Major thing that I hated about myself in all of them was that i felt I showed love and care to much such that the ladies involved felt that they could misbehave cos I was tooo understanding and I never received the same love in same measure.

And then came the most annoying part. I showed to much persistence (a trait I love abt myself in other facets of life) despite knowing deep down my heart that the baes never loved me I kept trying nd trying ahhhhh. E dey vex me sha (i believed in the love is a gradual thing philosophy so u gat ti tru ish)

End of the day they just wanted something from me al 4 of them that came into my life when they got it they simply pushed me away (i was fucking used) .

At the end only Cynthia (real name nd second on the list after running around realized I really loved her and wasnt like other guys).

Nah so she come collect my number somehow nd tried to slowly warm her way bck into my heart. But mehn love is kinda of dead to me cos of the way I have learnt to bottle up my feelings)
Took her out one day nd gave her a piece of my mind ,o boy see tears. After pleading in futility she said that 'this wasn't the guy she first met" I replied I used that guy nd the feelings he had. He is someone else now.
When I see my guys treating their babes anyhow I usually feel no sympathy for then no offense cos their matter

For now am riding solo for like 3yrs plus and I think I will keep it that way Although I do feel lonely sometimes but plenty distractions dey (still searching thou)
Team solodudes

makydebbie:
lol...

Whats your name?

firstking01:
Whats your name?

deborah

makydebbie:
deborah

Hmm, but you are already in ghana?

firstking01:
Hmm, but you are already in ghana?

yup

makydebbie:
yup

Do you mind flirting?

firstking01:
Do you mind flirting?

yes i do mind...especially discussing it on a public forum!!

makydebbie:
yes i do mind...especially discussing it on a public forum!!

Chai....ofcourse it won't be on a public forum like this na??

firstking01:
Chai....ofcourse it won't be on a public forum like this na??

lol...ok na

makydebbie:
lol...ok na

Dun even know where to start from...you on facebook?

firstking01:
Dun even know where to start from...you on facebook?

send a pm!

makydebbie:
send a pm!

i will, but you on fb??

firstking01:
i will, but you on fb??

yeah...my fb username is firstking01..are you going to send the pm or not?

makydebbie:
yeah...my fb username is firstking01..are you going to send the pm or not?

Ofcourse i 'll send

makydebbie:
yeah...my fb username is firstking01..are you going to send the pm or not?

Follow me back so i can send you the pm proper.

firstking01:
i will, but you on fb??

guy stop stalking this girl. She is someone's else.
Don't tell me i didnt warn you? Beware or else the rest of the story will be pathetic.
A word is enough for a wise.
Back off

FuckTheM0ds:
guy stop stalking this girl. She is someone's else.
Don't tell me i didnt warn you? Beware or else the rest of the story will be pathetic.
A word is enough for a wise.
Back off

Lol, aboy free me, i'm here to catch fun...btw, why you always on my case with a female...thats how you almost made optional1 slept off my fingers on sevilla vs liverpool thread, whats happening i dnt get you?...is it that you are also interested in the girls i'm interested in?...if yes, just open up and i 'll let em know, dnt just hide behind bars and be dying in silence

makydebbie:
i still say it was my fault...i saw so many signs that he wasnt for me but i kept telling myself"its not what i think,i can change him"..i endured for like eight months..it was an abusive relationship i had to call it quit..i wasted alot of time and resource..i wanted to change him..i thought i could do it..i learnt alot tho..i cant never go back to him,he isnt worth the stress...i have moved on with my life and i dont give a hoot about him anymore...

hmmm, sister easy!!!