Now now i was trying to enter in to dis other complex. Normally i always chat with this security lady and she is always cool for me. Today out of the blue, she starts giving me attitute. I just froze and became humble and just left, coz i realy did not know how to handle it. I couldnt risk reacting in a negative way, where i will be shouting and screaming, coz i was nt in de mood and thought it would ruin my reputation, but now i am seriously confused. Guys how does one behave, in such a situation?

Girls and attitude

What do you mean by "attitude"? Like, yelling at you?

her loss!

Walk up to her, look straight into her eye and ask why d attitude? Make sure u don't brink when staring at her, and don't make the face that you're angry..... If she refuses to say anything...... Bounce And don't ever give her face again

To me it's laughable to just know someone keeps dat annoyin attitude for me out of d blues...


See, they will squeez thr face for all I care..

If by 'showing attitude' you mean you think she wants your attention but then she also sends out ambiguous signals about it, then
Ignore her
Don't try to fix her. Its not your job to do that
Find the ones who are clear about their own feelings and also express them honestly

PunkyV:
What do you mean by "attitude"? Like, yelling at you?

yep, she was yelling. I asked her a simple question and she started yelling and shouting,as if i had ask her for a million or something. I was suprised coz just de other day,she was all sweet and nice. I realy ddnt know wat to do. The question its self was a mere hello, can i go in, and all hell broke loose

ZeeAfrica:


yep, she was yelling. I asked her a simple question and she started yelling and shouting,as if i had ask her for a million or something. I was suprised coz just de other day,she was all sweet and nice. I realy ddnt know wat to do. The question its self was a mere hello, can i go in, and all hell broke loose

Lol, maybe she was having a bad day or something. I think you handled yourself well by not stooping to her level.

If I was in your shoes, it would have depend on my mood too. If I'm irritated then I'd have yelled right back. Wtf. But if not, then I'd do what you did by not reacting. I'd never speak to her again though because I dont like to be disrespected lol.

security woman.... do u tip her normally? or u just talk? perhaps she was being nice to u cos she wanted u to shake body and u didn't, so she dropped the nice attitude.

could it also be possible she was warned to stop interacting with folks?

PunkyV:


Lol, maybe she was having a bad day or something. I think you handled yourself well by not stooping to her level.

At first when I read this I was like 'Huh? '

then I read this part

I'd have yelled right back. Wtf. But if not, then I'd do what you did by not reacting. I'd never speak to her again though because I dont like to be disrespected lol.

and was like

Babzilla:
At first when I read this I was like 'Huh? '

then I read this part and was like

LMFAO. Whatever.