I av a female frnd backs them in my ND level@Polytechnic. She's my bestie
(nothing attached). Very gud and caring type, not 2 me only but to everyone
in our department. After our ND programme we all parted cos she based@
Ekiti while I based@lagos. Not 2 long, I lost my phone which make me lost her
contact. After my IT, I put in for my HND@ anoda polytechnic where I
graduated from sum years back. Last month April I received a call whch
happen 2 be her, firstly I was happy 2 hear from her later on I got angry wit
her for not calling me all dis while. But she explained wat happen to her and
how she just got my no from one of our old frnd back den. She also is now a
graduate from LAUTECH meaning she crossed 2 university. She works
now@ibadan while I worked@lagos. Last 2 wks she called me dat she will be
having a wedding@ lagos and she will love to lodge@my place, which I
accept. She came in last wk friday and she told me she wll be leaving on
sunday, am so happy 2 hear dat atleast we will av much time 2 gist. Dat same
day @ 9it She sleep in my room while I slept on my 3 sitter chair. @ Midnight
around 3a.m I heard sum strange sound inside my room, for me 2 check I
discover she had BED WET. So she's tryin 2 dry the mattress with her cloths,
wen she saw me, she was full of shame. But sumtin came 2 my mind as I
saw her in dat mess. Is it dat she's bed wetting? Is it possible for her 2 be
bed wetting and still came to pass the night in a guy's place? Dis are the
question I was asking myself. She told me dat it was a mistake and dat such
has neva happen 2 her b4. I believe her wit no doubt and tins went on normal
btw me and her. She went for wedding dat same morning and dat was the last
time I saw her. she neva come back. Sum1 dat told me she wll be leaving on
sunday. Ever since av being trying calling her till now, she's not picking my
calls.


can it be she's hiding for me? Or
Is tru she do bed wet dat y she refused to come back after the wedding?
Anyone wit similar experience?
Ladies in the house, I need ur opinion on dis

She felt embarrassed dats y she never came back.

Wow!!!! This whole issue stinks to high heaven. Two things are involved, either she was "wet dreaming" and mistakenly passed urine in her ecstasy, or she don use style do juju for you oh!! My brother, if the latter is the case, just pray hard oh... and change your mattress while you are at it

She felt embarrassed. That's why she never returned

Na Ghost ooooo........ Seek the face of the Lord.

hmm my guy!!! no b small matter o, dis thing is highly spiritual, it is either they are pursuing her or she is pursuing u...either way na God sure pass......pray without ceasing abi na seizing?? anyone can go....don't cease n don't seize..

hmm my guy!!! no b small matter o, dis thing is highly spiritual, it is either they are pursuing her or she is pursuing u...either way na God sure pass......pray without ceasing abi na seizing?? don't cease n don't seize..may God help us

She was embarrassed. Ehyah

not once.. and na different babes. but the funny thing is that they are not bed wetters cos i know dem very well and not just one night.

sometimes it happens.

but the embarrassment of drying bed sha.

the first time a girl piss on my bed, I had to pour a jug of water on the bed so people will think it was water.

She was embarrassed naw... What did you expect? For her to come back and spend another night and let it repeat itself??

If she has bedwetting issues, she wouldn't even take the risk of spending a night in your house... Talk more of two days. That incident must have been a one-time thing, that just happened for whatsoever reason.

But of course, it's terribly embarrasing to have been in that situation. Who wouldn't? Get your mind off it, she doesn't bed wet.

Op,giv me.one reason.y she would come back?

Mekzyzeus:
Wow!!!! This whole issue stinks to high heaven. Two things are involved, either she was "wet dreaming" and mistakenly passed urine in her ecstasy, or she don use style do juju for you oh!! My brother, if the latter is the case, just pray hard oh... and change your mattress while you are at it

Juju as how?
She's not my babe

aseye1116:
Na Ghost ooooo........ Seek the face of the Lord.

Me or her?

Swissheart:
She was embarrassed. Ehyah

Can it be the reason she's not pickin

frozenSun:
not once.. and na different babes. but the funny thing is that they are not bed wetters cos i know dem very well and not just one night.

sometimes it happens.

but the embarrassment of drying bed sha.

the first time a girl piss on my bed, I had to pour a jug of water on the bed so people will think it was water.

Do you and the babe stll communicate till date?

Oliviaarims:
If she has bedwetting issues, she wouldn't even take the risk of spending a night in your house... Talk more of two days. That incident must have been a one-time thing, that just happened for whatsoever reason.

But of course, it's terribly embarrasing to have been in that situation. Who wouldn't? Get your mind off it, she doesn't bed wet.

I tot has much just dat, she neva picks call gain. On tuesday dat I called her, she's on call waiting nxt is for me to retry after few minute but her phone was switched off.

habby51:

I tot has much just dat, she neva picks call gain. On tuesday dat I called her, she's on call waiting nxt is for me to retry after few minute but her phone was switched off.

She'll get over it. How about you send her a text telling her not to be bothered about anything that happened while she was at your place, tell her you understand that such things happen unprecedentedly to ppl and you don't regard her any less because that day was her unlucky day. Tell her you both should be good.

She'd most likely feel more at ease after that.

You are not even supposed to create a thread on this...cnt you guys just keep some certain things with yourselves??...i'm sure you made her felt embarrased thats why she could'nt gather the courage to return to your house.....next time even in such situation make her feel it's nothing instead of giving her that "disdain kind of look"....if it was somebody like me i 'll even help her out, some of you here dnt know how to manage a woman

habby51:

Juju as how?
She's not my babe

Yeah!! Seems you ain't aware that there's lack of "marriageble men" in the "world" now.
Maybe she ain't your babe, but you are hers .

op why not forget abt her, I guess she's married by now, I'd advise u to stop calling her, wait till she get over the whole thing... this doesn't worth the stress

firstking01:
You are not even supposed to create a thread on this...cnt you guys just keep some certain things with yourselves??...i'm sure you made her felt embarrased thats why she could'nt gather the courage to return to your house.....next time even in such situation make her feel it's nothing instead of giving her that "disdain kind of look"....if it was somebody like me i 'll even help her out, some of you here dnt know how to manage a woman

@ d bolded, na business?

Maxi112:
@ d bolded, na business?

If thats what you can deduce from the write up, so be it.

Oliviaarims:


She'll get over it. How about you send her a text telling her not to be bothered about anything that happened while she was at your place, tell her you understand that such things happen unprecedentedly to ppl and you don't regard her any less because that day was her unlucky day. Tell her you both should be good.

She'd most likely feel more at ease after that.

Ok, tnx
i'll do just dat

Maxi112:
op why not forget abt her, I guess she's married by now, I'd advise u to stop calling her, wait till she get over the whole thing... this doesn't worth the stress

Ok I hear u

She's just embarrassed

habby51:
I av a female frnd backs them in my ND level@Polytechnic. She's my bestie
(nothing attached). Very gud and caring type, not 2 me only but to everyone
in our department. After our ND programme we all parted cos she based@
Ekiti while I based@lagos. Not 2 long, I lost my phone which make me lost her
contact. After my IT, I put in for my HND@ anoda polytechnic where I
graduated from sum years back. Last month April I received a call whch
happen 2 be her, firstly I was happy 2 hear from her later on I got angry wit
her for not calling me all dis while. But she explained wat happen to her and
how she just got my no from one of our old frnd back den. She also is now a
graduate from LAUTECH meaning she crossed 2 university. She works
now@ibadan while I worked@lagos. Last 2 wks she called me dat she will be
having a wedding@ lagos and she will love to lodge@my place, which I
accept. She came in last wk friday and she told me she wll be leaving on
sunday, am so happy 2 hear dat atleast we will av much time 2 gist. Dat same
day @ 9it She sleep in my room while I slept on my 3 sitter chair. @ Midnight
around 3a.m I heard sum strange sound inside my room, for me 2 check I
discover she had BED WET. So she's tryin 2 dry the mattress with her cloths,
wen she saw me, she was full of shame. But sumtin came 2 my mind as I
saw her in dat mess. Is it dat she's bed wetting? Is it possible for her 2 be
bed wetting and still came to pass the night in a guy's place? Dis are the
question I was asking myself. She told me dat it was a mistake and dat such
has neva happen 2 her b4. I believe her wit no doubt and tins went on normal
btw me and her. She went for wedding dat same morning and dat was the last
time I saw her. she neva come back. Sum1 dat told me she wll be leaving on
sunday. Ever since av being trying calling her till now, she's not picking my
calls.


can it be she's hiding for me? Or
Is tru she do bed wet dat y she refused to come back after the wedding?
Anyone wit similar experience?
Ladies in the house, I need ur opinion on dis

Op I can relate..

habby51:

Do you and the babe stll communicate till date?

very well, we do and i even joke with them about it. and you see, the way u reacted to it may have killed her spirit.

frozenSun:


very well, we do and i even joke with them about it. and you see, the way u reacted to it may have killed her spirit.

Dats gud
seriously, I show no reaction or attitude 2 her.
I av my own babe whch she's aware.
she's just a frnd i'll luv 2 keep

habby51:

Dats gud
seriously, I show no reaction or attitude 2 her.
I av my own babe whch she's aware.
she's just a frnd i'll luv 2 keep

oga no be all dat one i dey talk.

i mean the way u reacted the moment u saw her trying to dry up the bed. the look in your eyes and the expression on your face is enough to make her shy and run away