Right from when I was in school, I have been praying to have a good home
- this the expectation of every woman of course - so I took my time in school before going into relationship. When I loosened up, then came this guy who works in my school, he said he wanted to marry me, he did all he could, we went out on beautiful dates, bought me lots of things, I was already in love with him so, after a while I told him ok. We've been in the relationship for two years now, and I really love him, he takes good care of me and my family, I couldn't have asked for a better husband/partner, also he's also very handsome, I just can't resist him.

As much as our love story sounds so sweet, I am suffering, because every weekend, he goes out with his friends to drink, and when he comes back he's full and out of control, aside vomiting all over his body, he says things I don't like - I can't say them here, please - and sometimes if I'm not cooperating with him, he beats me, infact I sustained an injury from the last episode. But when he's in his right senses, he's the loveliest man on earth. His problem is the drinking and beating plus he spends most of his earnings on the weekend drinking with his friends. I have tried to talk him out of it, all to no avail, and his friends also started giving me some reaction, that shows that he had told them something, it's like they hate me now, and as a lady, my husband's friend shouldn't hate me, so I tried to play it cool.

Read my full story here
http://www.olafeazy.com/2016/05/help-im-in-dilemma-im-tired-of-being.html

Pls don't leave him rather buy him shares in Nigerian brewery!


Power of love!




Cheeeeers

Yes

No, glue with him. Do you need people to tell you want to do before you know what is best for you.
The way way people thinks nowadays saddens the heart.

No hold him tight okay

no dnt leave him,stay wiv him til he kills u,iranu

If he beats u snash bottle on his head

Break his head


Who sti av time for aggressive guys

Who love epp?

I would have said leave him but sometime its up to the woman to bring change into the man's life: that's why marriage is for better or for worse

No, wait till he kills you.....

The choice is yours... maybe u want to stay until we discuss how ur drunk lover murdered u



Alright am still watching dis space

Your Topic is not compatible with the Essay. A Fiancee is a female Fiance. If you're talking about a Fiance doing all these to you, try slapping him hard at every offense he commits against you. Good luck.

no o. don't leave, stay nd die

Post like this makes me sick

Noo.. Dont leave..

Stay and enjoy the beating

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Don't leave him, when ur story reach FP, 'lady beaten to death by fiancé'. I'll come and comment again.

aunty pls dont leave him...since you truly love him..stay let him kill you...shebi you won take for better for worse to another level...how can someone be asking this kin question sef

kwantunue anuofua

Stay with him. Endure it! He'll change. Even if he doesnt, the highest thing that'll happen is that one day,he'll return home so drunk and beat you so hard and you wont survive it, you'll die and go to hell for being so foolish

ma bi mi ni Jamb question abeg. he spends most of his earning on just weekend drinks (when he is not aboki).and he comes home to beat you up. does that sound to you like someone with a future? if he beat you to death another lady will take your place and he won't even give you a second thought. go look elsewhere before it will be too late to move on

orisa37:
Your Topic is not compatible with the Essay. A Fiancee is a female Fiance. If you're talking about a Fiance doing all these to you, try slapping him hard at every offense he commits against you. Good luck.

i bet you want her to die before her time abi?

Omittesb:
I would have said leave him but sometime its up to the woman to bring change into the man's life: that's why marriage is for better or for worse

You don't say
So shall a grown ass man will be acting juvenile, hoping the wife bears with him and the consequence of his action.
In fact, OP, based on the foregoing, stick with him, men are indeed scarce
Rubbish

makydebbie:
aunty pls dont leave him...since you truly love him..stay let him kill you...shebi you won take for better for worse to another level...how can someone be asking this kin question sef

no chill at all

It is just as if people do not learn from other peoples' experiences. Dear Op, did you hear about Ronke Shonde?(may she RIP) I bet you missed that story otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. There is no justification for (a man) reducing your partner to a punching bag...
Back to your question, well the choice is yours, if you love him enough to endure the beatings, fine, go ahead darl.
But whatever your choice is, all the best.

Leave him and get anoda LOBATAN.

Husband Don scarce na,, aunty please stay

makydebbie:
aunty pls dont leave him...since you truly love him..stay let him kill you...shebi you won take for better for worse to another level...how can someone be asking this kin question sef

I confuse o, but na guy post this thing na

If you cannot change a man before getting together as man and wife you can never ever change him. Well unless through prayers, but when the prayers you did while dating the lad didn't change him then you must change your own bearing

Omittesb:
I would have said leave him but sometime its up to the woman to bring change into the man's life: that's why marriage is for better or for worse

fiancé or fiancée?

no hold him tight...silly ans for silly questions

Is the man an uncivilized brute?

No oh. Don't leave him. He loves you too that's why he beats u. Everybody has their bad side. IDIOT.

For Christ sake u shouldn't even ask. MOVE