My ex relationship was a vry strng one,n i devoted my all to it, but at d end of it i almost ran mad. I loved dis girl so much n she turned her back on me. I eventually managed to start anoda relationship to help me 4get abt her. This girl is so caring lyk the former if not more. I lyk her but find it difficult giving her d attention i gave my ex. 2 days bak she complained to me of my attittude n also didnt sound happy at all. I believe she wants it 100%, but how do i knw she will nt end up lyk d rest. Honesly i dnt believe d wrd love exists to me anymore ever since my last relationship.wat do i do? I need alternatives to do this descision n thats y ask dudes n sisters in d house, how will u knw wether ur guy or spouse really loves u, wat are the things he or she does that convinces u they really care and want to be with u? I dnt want my last relationship to affect my present relationship or them ending alike, pls wat do u think.

u said she is a good girl than relax and enjoy the relationship and pls be true to her.

@ Airmarshal.Thanks for d advise. Believe me i've tried my best n still tryn to be true to her. My only fear is this, how im i not sure she wont end up lyk d former.? Im tryn not to be too protective but i cant just help it. Its lyk its become part of me nw.i wish there was a way i could act or do to knw if she is prentending. Who knws may be she is seeing some 1 behind my back.? U can never say cos my ex was doing that too and pretending to be gud.

@ poster, u needed to have given urself sme time out till u wer completely healed of ur past, cos u honestly re bounded into a new relationship, truly wat u dnt knw mite not kill u, since u r alrdy in dis my best advice is to relax fully n put ur best while forgettin ur former completly cos until u do this den u wld appreciate truly wat u have now, u or her might not b perfect in d tins u do but i assure u dat d virtue of true love is not findin d perfect person but lovin d imperfect person perfectly, also commit it to GOD n u will feel beta, all da best.

forget the past! do u knw if she has gotten another person?
since u said this present one loves u just give her attention but not too show her love even thou u love her
be prayerful.i wish u success in life.

Thanks all of u who contributed, i appreciate u advises n will take due actions necessary