Hi everyone this is the drama ive been going through 2 Scenarios, pls bare with me lol

1. Started going out 3 months ago but he doesnt trust women because of his EX. They were giong out for 4 yrs and he went through hell in the last 2yrs of the relationship. he stayed and forgave heer over and over again because he loved her sooo much. When they finally broke up in naija and he moved to london he swore to just use girls for his own pleasure. Not sure if I am a victim cos he told me that when we first met all he wanted to do was sex me but now he feels different about me. He introduced me to his parents and friends (i kno dat doesnt mean much, ) However, we argue alot cos she just doesnt trust me and says hurtful things to me. He enjoys walking out of me or hanging up the fone at the slightest "argument". He only calls a couple of times in a week and is generally not romantic or caring. HIS REASON: I need time to be myself again cos of all the drama that happened with my ex. I broke up with him 3 weeks ago and he has been "stylishly" lol, tryin to come back, promising that he will try his best to change bla bla, what should i do?

2. Before I broke up with him he told me that he wanted to get married to me next year (2010) or at least i should have his baby by then! HUH? whats that all about? I asked if it cos his student visa expires next year, and he laughed and said "NOT REALLY, but wouldnt you marry me knowing that it will expire, afterall I do love you so it shouldnt make a difference." My female friends say that i am too paranoid and pessimistic. Nairaland pls help me

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