Why is it that most times, its only the guy/groom that takes care of all the expenses that has to do with the wedding. Most brides hardly bring anything to the table. They always expect the guy/groom to foot the bills and also take care of her wedding gown and her family expenses as well during the wedding. But in other parts of the world, its not like that. The bride do contribute at least part of her wedding expenses. They usually put their savings together with the groom's money to organize their wedding ceremony. But in Nigeria, our girls hardly do such. They always want the groom to do everything...

they believe you are marrying them ,they are the one with THE PUNNY.

Stingy man. Who will marry?

the groom likes to show he has got wat it takes

Trying to prove to everyone he has d resources to start a family

Most non Yoruba girls you mean. My big sis got married and my parents paid all the bills except for the alcoholic drinks. They said they were not going to support serving of alcoholic drinks in their daughters wedding but if the groom wants to pay, he is free to do so.

While I don't mind contributing, in the reality of it, I shouldn't have to.

I am getting married you, probably changing my last name or adding yours on, leaving my family to join yours, taking on the responsibility to be faithful to only you, to f.uck only you, bear your kids (our kids sha), cook for you, take care of your home (all domestic chores), etc etc
And you cannot foot the f.ucking bill of the wedding damn you man...

Aren't you guys always quick to say 'na me dey marry her...no be she dey marry me'. Since u pple are the ones doing the marrying alone, foot the bills jor