freecocoa:
I don't understand, you saw messages of women asking him out, does that make him guilty or was he encouraging them or what?


And since when can't people talk to their partners about these kinds of things?

DedeNkem:
asmart woman would have taken a screenshots of the suspicious whatsapp messages and keep them as evidence

Then confront your husband about what you saw and if he lies about it, show him the evidence. When you catch someone doing sonething bad and he/her still lies about it, then you can trust the person.

Your husband is a cheater.

Subom1:
The question is how did all those women get his number? Clearly he gave it to them. It doesnt matter who asked who out but hee husband should never have taken it that far or make such ladies comfortable enough to be aaking him out. The fact that he eveb gave hos number out is already a big no no for me.
My advise is to cnfront him. Tell him the truth and here what he says. Infidelity is a deal breaker for me but to each their own.
I really dont understand why some men get married in the first place if they still want to be playing around. Disgusting

momove4real25:
Am still single, but at back of my mind I av it that men are polygamous in nature. A colleague of said to me that didn't I kW we women are like fruits of difrent species that men are fruit salad meang they always want to av another taste one day. With that it won't bug me if my man cheats but he shouldn't bring dat person home. I will make sure I carry out all my responsblities give him support so that d blame will be on him if nabbed that he is cheatg me. I won't choke him BKS no matter how u do that a man that will cheat will definitely do, madam my advise is take is easy, don't challenge with slap like, stylishly study on what he sees in d oda women, if na make up I beggi start applyg, if na dressing u also sud upgrade, if na bedmatic styles u too improve BKS Una don sign d contract. But don't give urslf heart attack BKS he is cheatg, if somedy die or run mad a cheater remains a cheater

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

crazymommy:
It is evident you are not married....when you get married ,come back and read this your comment and you will understand that what you just typed is "nonsense"""...if you like do acrobat on bed,if u like fine pass Beyoncé,if you like get body shape pass Kim kardashan,if you like sabi cook pass tantalizer,a man that will cheat will cheat...i hope you understand this before it is too late...sambarry talk to ur sister...

Neverquit:
Saddenedsoul, you have to get concrete evidence before confronting him.

After getting evidence (if any), you have to decide what to do with it. What if after confronting him and he continues or he becomes more discrete? So, be wise in how you handle the situation.

crazymommy:
It is evident you are not married....when you get married ,come back and read this your comment and you will understand that what you just typed is "nonsense"""...if you like do acrobat on bed,if u like fine pass Beyoncé,if you like get body shape pass Kim kardashan,if you like sabi cook pass tantalizer,a man that will cheat will cheat...i hope you understand this before it is too late...sambarry talk to ur sister...

darkenedrebel:


How is it possible to screenshot a page on a laptop?.

realtalk19:
what you dont know will not kill you. stop looking and consider yourself special for him to av choosen you to be his wife. as long as domestic violence or serial cheating wit evidence isnt shown from him yet,there is stil hope.stop doubting and commnicate wit him more often as ur husband. no one is perfect, besides his chats isnt a concrete evidence that hes sleeping wit them.

what if they are the one hitting on your husband?

what if he deleted the chats and u neva saw it,wuld u know about it?

what if his colleague used his laptop to chat?

what if its nothing personal?

give him a benefit of doubt and act wisely afterall before the chats you saw u trusted him. dnt allow the devil to penetrate ur home. erase ur mind from what u saw and focus on building a happy home.dnt feel intidated by unseen girls who ar enjoying themselves nd having fun somewhere while you are tucked in ur own worries and giving yourself high blood pressure on a man thats already yours forever.

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

truthsayer007:




Errrm madame, pls can you teach me how to do acrobat on bed ?

Subom1:
The question is how did all those women get his number? Clearly he gave it to them. It doesnt matter who asked who out but her husband should never have taken it that far or make such ladies comfortable enough to be aaking him out. The fact that he even gave his number out is already a big no no for me.


My advise is to confront him. Tell him the truth and hear what he says. Infidelity is a deal breaker for me but to each their own.

I really dont understand why some men get married in the first place if they still want to be playing around. Disgusting

Cutehector:
if u don't want to screw ur marriage, u take dat laptop opening the whatsapp page and shove it to his face and give him a piece of ur mind tellin him if this marriage fails, he should knw he caused it. Den walk out of his presence.

darkenedrebel:


How is it possible to screenshot a page on a laptop?.

profoejr:
First change ur user name!(sadenedsoul). Then be careful of the way u approaches him bc my ENEMY is in ur matrimonial home. But i pray u overcome this temptationFirst change ur user name!(sadenedsoul). Then be careful of the way u approaches him bc my ENEMY is in ur matrimonial home. But i pray u overcome this temptation

Xbox222:
Why do you expect him to apologize for going through her private part, did he not pay for it?or was the marriage done free of charge?
Moreover he is the one paying the bills

byvan03:




Wow!! Only you can tell for sure what went wrong here. Just try talking without the tantrums.

Subom1:
The question is how did all those women get his number? Clearly he gave it to them. It doesnt matter who asked who out but her husband should never have taken it that far or make such ladies comfortable enough to be aaking him out. The fact that he even gave his number out is already a big no no for me.


My advise is to confront him. Tell him the truth and hear what he says. Infidelity is a deal breaker for me but to each their own.

I really dont understand why some men get married in the first place if they still want to be playing around. Disgusting

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

Avalon316:
Only fresh pu$$1 can make a man stay with you. Unfortunately,most women have traded their fresh tomatoes in their youth.

airsaylongcon:

There's a button PRTSRCN or something like that. Its Print Screen and what it does is to screen grab or screenshot your computer screen

pcguru1:

Ctrl +print screen button I snap pages for clients or if it's a chrome download screenshot extension

crazymommy:
Have you watched snake in the monkey shadow?? all those moves you see in the movie ehen just start doing it on bed...

freecocoa:
I don't understand some people and this types of generalisation for real.

It is even more commonly believed that, the less attention you give a man, the more he wants you.

realtalk19:
what you dont know will not kill you. stop looking and consider yourself special for him to av choosen you to be his wife. as long as domestic violence or serial cheating wit evidence isnt shown from him yet,there is stil hope.stop doubting and commnicate wit him more often as ur husband. no one is perfect, besides his chats isnt a concrete evidence that hes sleeping wit them.

what if they are the one hitting on your husband?

what if he deleted the chats and u neva saw it,wuld u know about it?

what if his colleague used his laptop to chat?

what if its nothing personal?

give him a benefit of doubt and act wisely afterall before the chats you saw u trusted him. dnt allow the devil to penetrate ur home. erase ur mind from what u saw and focus on building a happy home.dnt feel intidated by unseen girls who ar enjoying themselves nd having fun somewhere while you are tucked in ur own worries and giving yourself high blood pressure on a man thats already yours forever.