deeswagger:
once again, thank you all for your effort, i never knew my money could be retrieved but with your help and support, 40,000 has been paid into my account, and i was promised the balance will be paid up by Tuesday, 7th of June 2016...

I appreciate this wonderful family for your help, support and words of encouragement, and i hope and pray we continue this way... thank you all

thesicilian:


You don't have to take everything so literally.
And even if you do decide to take it at face value, the statement still is very valid. There are many definitions of the word lesson and the one I referred to, simply put, is If you gained wisdom from a particular situation, then you have learnt a lesson. So no matter the situation, as long as you came out wiser, that is a lesson. Trying to explain too much might confuse you so just take some time to meditate on it. I'm sure you'll understand.

deeswagger:
once again, thank you all for your effort, i never knew my money could be retrieved but with your help and support, 40,000 has been paid into my account, and i was promised the balance will be paid up by Tuesday, 7th of June 2016...

I appreciate this wonderful family for your help, support and words of encouragement, and i hope and pray we continue this way... thank you all

deeswagger:


seems you didnt get my explanation, i was of the belief the first shoe was with Agofure, not knowing he went behind my back to pick it up... i wanted pickup to be easy for him, that is why i used agofure... normally i use other courier services

Mafking:


All I can see up there is your definition of what a good lesson is(which you claimed only exists) ... What if what you gained from a particular situation is not wisdom then it's not a lesson You are restricting lessons to be just positive....
Bro your definition of words are too narrow.. .
It is the mixture of good lessons and bad lessons that make ppu what they are today...
Observe a victim of rape(bad experience)... so you want to tell me there's any good lesson that the victim will learn in this bad experience.. ..
Once again sir be critical...

thesicilian:

Its obvious you're a smart guy. The issue here is the difference between experience and lesson. That may take you some time to understand, maybe even years. You know that kind of joke that all your friends will laugh very hard at, but aayou don't really get it so you just laugh sha, so you'll not be the odd one out? Then some time later something clicks and you suddenly understand! Some issues are like that. ..Lol

Looking at your rape victim, its a bad experience, which cannot be erased. Now if because of that she stops wearing skimpy dresses, trusting guys foolishly, or being flirtatious, or maybe its not her fault but decides to take self defense classes, she has learnt her lesson. Period. Not good or bad, just a lesson.

deeswagger:
once again, thank you all for your effort, i never knew my money could be retrieved but with your help and support, 40,000 has been paid into my account, and i was promised the balance will be paid up by Tuesday, 7th of June 2016...

I appreciate this wonderful family for your help, support and words of encouragement, and i hope and pray we continue this way... thank you all

Mafking:


I now get yr point bro.. Thought you said there are only good lessons.. You only said there are no bad lessons(which made me to assume you meant: "all lessons are just good" ) ... Just bad experiences...lessons are just lessons they keep piling up... Lessons are neither good nor bad.. Lessons are just lessons(wouldn't have argued with this point of view initially)

justwise:


This is nairaland at it best.

Please open another thread to state this so as to safe his tarnished image...we need to be fair to him since he started paying back.

GAZZUZZ:


he brought this upon himself, if not for the embarrassment and shame his wife had on his behalf, the OP would have been cheated. The guy had no intention of paying back.,

GAZZUZZ:


he brought this upon himself, if not for the embarrassment and shame his wife had on his behalf, the OP would have been cheated. The guy had no intention of paying back.,

justwise:


Yes he brought this upon himself but that does not dismiss the need for balanced and fair reporting.

justwise:


This is nairaland at it best.

Please open another thread to state this so as to safe his tarnished image...we need to be fair to him since he started paying back.

deeswagger:



infact he munched justwise reply to me and said i should try to comply since my friends here said i should open a new thread to tell people he has started paying the money. I told him i wont, until he pays my last kobo. i want him to suffer as much as he made me suffer.... please am i being unreasonable?

pek:
Capital NO. @just wise, I am beginning to suspect you. Why are you crying more than the bereaved.

justwise:


Please don't be silly, I was the first person to post his picture and name here and now the campaign by nairalander paid off it's fair to balance the reporting.

pek:
Well, if you can tell your father don't be silly, no problem. I don't see the rational in him opening a new thread to say he has been paid for balance reporting. This is exactly what he has done here.

justwise:


Please don't be silly, I was the first person to post his picture and name here and now the campaign by nairalander paid off it's fair to balance the reporting.

android666:


Really ? Then he reached out to you, munched your post to your op probably asking the thread to be locked? Change your dubious ways Mr man.

Your Guy is a thief and deserves no mercy.

android666:

Pay no attention to that nuisance. This was exactly how he aided ogakpatakpata to defraud ( I can't remember her username) a nairalander.
Justwise repent!

pek:
Well, if you can tell your father don't be silly, no problem. I don't see the rational in him opening a new thread to say he has been paid for balance reporting. This is exactly what he has done here.

oceanet:
You poster you ask for our help and you did not drop your number. The guy in question adokiye said he has paid you?

oceanet:
You poster you ask for our help and you did not drop your number. The guy in question adokiye said he has paid you?