peeparty:
I have a question o...

1:In light of recent increase in cases of Men beating their wives (not that it has never been)...How will you ever know if your boyfriend will beat you when u get married??

How can u tell a potential wife beater



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twaci
ishilove
mzztega
midhie2
prettyjo
ivyy

kaboninc:


Hi Twaci and every beautiful lady mentioned here. Forgive me....I just grabbed the entire post and with the deliberate intention of having your attention.

Also, I believe that most if not all of you are young adults and hence my question is specifically addressed to you and others within your age range.

Here's my question: why are most young girls so stingy? Stingy about loved ones, stingy about themselves, hardly ever make sacrifices over another person but rather focus their time, their energy, their money and other resources in the pursuit of vanity?

Vanity in this context: spending so much money, time and energy on looks which with tiny drops of rain or a light ray of sunlight, the looks would just vanish.

Having this crave for attention on social media especially on Facebook, like it gives one some form of validation. Like deriving some form of satisfaction, joy and happiness when you upload pictures that in the real sense never defines who you truly are. And in so doing, you create a kind of cold, intense competition, fueling rivalry among yourselves.

Mayor101010:
What is that thing that attracts a lady to guy sexually? I mean something that will make u want to Bleep a guy. I'm looking forward to an honest response from the ladies.

Alezy:
this is the point, not like there won't be normal money to spend on daily needs but u ladies always crave the excess of it. that's why u think it will.be boring.

Omotayor123:

It's because the equality is yet to to be given. Believe me, in most marriages nowadays, most women carries all the responsibilities.

If only women have the opportunity, for instance if child bearing can be shared, as in men can get pregnant too.
Believe me, we will do better!

Sweetheart, you cannot be given equality, you earn it. If you wait until you're given, you go old, young, old, young and old again.

On my wedding day, my wife and I are to exchange wedding rings. I don't understand why I'll have to buy those two rings myself. Mind you, the ring here is just a kinda case study. There are many things that happen during marriages that are all kinds of wrong. A man would pay bride price, he'd be given some list by his in laws, he'd provide the items on the said list, he'd still go ahead and sponsor both the traditional marriage and the white wedding. Ah ahn! Na him kill Jesus Christ? This whole thing should be equal; 50/50. Not even 51/49. Until then, any and every talk about gender equality (in Nigeria) is trash!

About men getting pregnant? Awww, I'd so much wanna experience that myself. Can you get me pregnant in any way, please

Omotayor123:

It's difficult to know my dear, because men can keep character like green snake under the green grass. Very cunny creatures..

A very vigilant lady will know through his words and actions. How he Relate and react to things and issues especially when provoked.
Most times I pick a guy reaction from watching a movie related to wife battering.


Above all, we should pray, only the Good Lord can choose for us.

Mayor101010:
What is that thing that attracts a lady to guy sexually? I mean something that will make u want to Bleep a guy. I'm looking forward to an honest response from the ladies.

Omotayor123:

Different spec for different folk.. What attracts lady A might be a turn off for lady B.
.
But most ladies love clean fresh guys it's a plus for a guy to be appreciated sexually.

KINGinVALHALA3:








Which kind of guys does an average female prefer?
The Badt or the Good guys, and why?

Omotayor123:

Yes... In as much as money isn't love, we can rule out the fact that money is necessary to spice up that love... Money helps in showing how much you love and care

JoeCutie:
Sweetheart, you cannot be given equality, you earn it. If you wait until you're given, you go old, young, old, young and old again.

On my wedding day, my wife and I are to exchange wedding rings. I don't understand why I'll have to buy those two rings myself. Mind you, the ring here is just a kinda case study. There are many things that happen during marriages that are all kinds of wrong. A man would pay bride price, he'd be given some list by his in laws, he'd provide the items on the said list, he'd still go ahead and sponsor both the traditional marriage and the white wedding. Ah ahn! Na him kill Jesus Christ? This whole thing should be equal; 50/50. Not even 51/49. Until then, any and every talk about gender equality (in Nigeria) is trash!

About men getting pregnant? Awww, I'd so much wanna experience that myself. Can you get me pregnant in any way, please?

kaboninc:


Hi Twaci and every beautiful lady mentioned here. Forgive me....I just grabbed the entire post and with the deliberate intention of having your attention.

Also, I believe that most if not all of you are young adults and hence my question is specifically addressed to you and others within your age range.

Here's my question: why are most young girls so stingy? Stingy about loved ones, stingy about themselves, hardly ever make sacrifices over another person but rather focus their time, their energy, their money and other resources in the pursuit of vanity?

Vanity in this context: spending so much money, time and energy on looks which with tiny drops of rain or a light ray of sunlight, the looks would just vanish.

Having this crave for attention on social media especially on Facebook, like it gives one some form of validation. Like deriving some form of satisfaction, joy and happiness when you upload pictures that in the real sense never defines who you truly are. And in so doing, you create a kind of cold, intense competition, fueling rivalry among yourselves.

RoyalBlak007:


really? Money helps in showing how much yu love and care?...Do all girls here support this?

So it means guys can beat you...or cheat on yu...but as long as cash flows....ur satisfied.....innit?

peeparty:





2:No Sign was ever shown from the get go, After six years of marriage he Slaps you for the very first time,would that be enough to quit

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omo T
Ivvy

ivyy:


A good bad guy

Truth is, in ideology, girls want the good guys but in reality they fall often for the bad ones

So me think girls will prefer good guys that are flexible.

Omotayor123:

Where in my post do you get that...
Abeg when is beating, cheating and slapping classified as an art of Loving

peeparty:





2:No Sign was ever shown from the get go, After six years of marriage he Slaps you for the very first time,would that be enough to quit

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omo T
Ivvy

mhiz:

Yea, I am.

Omotayor123:

Different spec for different folk.. What attracts lady A might be a turn off for lady B.
.
But most ladies love clean fresh guys it's a plus for a guy to be appreciated sexually.

RoyalBlak007:


You said"Money helps in showing how much you love and care"

so it means I can do whatever I want....as long as I keep giving you money...innit?

But that's what yu said...don't try to deviate

ivyy:


A good bad guy

Truth is, in ideology, girls want the good guys but in reality they fall often for the bad ones

So me think girls will prefer good guys that are flexible.

Ziggarrr:
I collected a girl's number from a friend. We chatted on WhatsApp for sometime before we decided to meet up.
On that day, we really enjoyed our company (or so I thought) she looked happy as I took her to where she entered a bike and promised to call me when she gets home. Na so she no call o till I decided to call her but she didn't pick up. I called back morning, afternoon no way. I decided to call with another number, as she hear my voice, she cut call. I tried sending message on WhatsApp, no response.

Till today, I keep asking myself what went wrong.... Please ladies make una help me o, make this kind thing no happen next time.

Omotayor123:

Lol at the last sentence.

How can you earn equality when you are not even given a chance. I see the only part where you want equality is the money part.
. I doubt you fancy domestic work.

Ziggarrr:
I collected a girl's number from a friend. We chatted on WhatsApp for sometime before we decided to meet up.
On that day, we really enjoyed our company (or so I thought) she looked happy as I took her to where she entered a bike and promised to call me when she gets home. Na so she no call o till I decided to call her but she didn't pick up. I called back morning, afternoon no way. I decided to call with another number, as she hear my voice, she cut call. I tried sending message on WhatsApp, no response.

Till today, I keep asking myself what went wrong.... Please ladies make una help me o, make this kind thing no happen next time.

Mayor101010:
What about you?

Omotayor123:

Different spec for different folk.. What attracts lady A might be a turn off for lady B.
.
But most ladies love clean fresh guys it's a plus for a guy to be appreciated sexually.

JoeCutie:
And yet you left the most important one out... Money! Deny it.

JoeCutie:
And yet you left the most important one out... Money! Deny it.

RoyalBlak007:
"Money helps in showing love"

"Money is not Love"........ ......this is so interesting...I think av gotten da answer already , thanks Omotayor