The more you communicate in this way with your partner, honestly and directly, yet with compassion, the closer and stronger your relationship will become.
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Misunderstandings and Fights are some of those unpleasant parts of a relationship that we wish wouldn’t happen. But what if it was also life-threatening?

Taking the blame or better known as Unilateral disarmament is a tool which every couple should not neglect. This actually has to do with the ability of a partner to momentarily drop his/her side of the debate and approaching his partner from a more loving stance. The idea is that when couples have tension between them, perhaps from not communicating successfully or directly, they start to build resentments toward each other, which often reach a tipping point.



An argument begins, then escalates based on an overflow of pent-up frustration and flawed communication. Heated moments are, however, the worst times to try to solve problems or make our points heard. They leave us saying things we regret or don’t even mean. This does not help the relationship.

Like i mentioned above, Unilateral disarmament involves shifting your focus from your partner’s words and behaviors to your own. The only person you can control in a relationshi...CONTINUE READING>>> http://www.michaeldoosblog.info/2016/06/how-to-manage-fights-in-relationship.html?m=1

The only way to manage fights is to just shut up and ignore