You cannot starve a man of sex and expect him not to become angry and impatient. Frankly, with most men, at this point all he wants is 'God please let me cum in that warm puss'. Your(the woman's) pleasure be damned. So begins the vicious cycle of unsatisfactory sex, premature ejaculation etc. Eventually he will resent you for this and everything goes downhill from hereon.
So you see, it's all your fault. Live with it.

BoboYekini:
You cannot starve a man of sex and expect him not to become angry and impatient. Frankly, with most men, at this point all he wants is 'God please let me cum in that warm puss'. Your(the woman's) pleasure be damned. So begins the vicious cycle of unsatisfactory sex, premature ejaculation etc. Eventually he will resent you for this and everything goes downhill from hereon.
So you see, it's all your fault. Live with it.

Are you OK?
When did she say she starves him of sex? So your advice for her is to continue enduring sex that gives her blisters on her private part abi?

God forbid, tufiakwa. African men are something else.
When white people say they behave like animals they will pick offence like say na lie.
A woman came to complain that her husband rapes her and injures her vagina during sex and the best you can come up with is the rubbish you typed there.
Tufiakwa for African men.

njiasi30:

Chai!! U won't kill me with laugh, Di's d second time am seeing ur comment on Di's sec. No sugar coating, I like dat but some sweet ones re still around

Sweet ones no dey around anywhere.
The ones that are considerate are poor or struggling men or men that entered the relationship newly.
The others na selfishness go kill them.

fellis:


Are you OK?
When did she say she starves him of sex? So your advice for her is to continue enduring sex that gives her blisters on her private part abi?

God forbid, tufiakwa. African men are something else.
When white people say they behave like animals they will pick offence like say na lie.
A woman came to complain that her husband rapes her and injures her vagina during sex and the best you can come up with is the rubbish you typed there.
Tufiakwa for African men.

Well she can always file for a divorce. You ferret.

BoboYekini:
Well she can always file for a divorce. You ferret.

Na you be ferret.

fellis:


Are you OK?
When did she say she starves him of sex? So your advice for her is to continue enduring sex that gives her blisters on her private part abi?

God forbid, tufiakwa. African men are something else.
When white people say they behave like animals they will pick offence like say na lie.
A woman came to complain that her husband rapes her and injures her vagina during sex and the best you can come up with is the rubbish you typed there.
Tufiakwa for African men.

and make sure you don't marry any of them .

BoboYekini:
You cannot starve a man of sex and expect him not to become angry and impatient. Frankly, with most men, at this point all he wants is 'God please let me cum in that warm puss'. Your(the woman's) pleasure be damned. So begins the vicious cycle of unsatisfactory sex, premature ejaculation etc. Eventually he will resent you for this and everything goes downhill from hereon.
So you see, it's all your fault. Live with it.

So she should endure consistent rape abi? Fire needs to be placed under your anus every night for you to understand what she is going through.

OP, it is well. Inform your gynecologist and maybe she can suggest products that you can use to ease friction also talk to your husband about it, both of you need a marriage counselor. Good luck

fellis:


Sweet ones no dey around anywhere.
The ones that are considerate are poor or struggling men or men that entered the relationship newly.
The others na selfishness go kill them.

the grass is always greener on the other side. Mk una go marry oyinbo,leave us selfish african men alone,we are tired of african women too.

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What's stopping you from telling him and if he doesn't change,then make sure he doesn't reach climax on every sexual encounter he has with you by pushing him away before he does.Let him learn from that

A selfish man gave you a lovely kid.

Women, Women, Women!

3sexy:
I am a married woman with a lovely kid , I love my husband but he is too selfish in bed , to him, lovemaking means" penetration" , no romance no fore play , all he is interested in is just to penetrate me ! he doent even care if I,m wet or not .this is really getting frustrating because it is painful and sometimes I end up having blisters.
Most tines I try to initiate pre-intimacy and make him slow down a bit he gets impatient and angry ,and I just let him have his way , and the worst part of it is that when he is done he will fall asleep immediately !
Pls matured minds how do I make him change without hurting his feelings , for over 5 years now i have not had a pinch of climax, I love him dearly but I also want a normal sex life in my marriage .

You have tried to explain to him, but because he is selfish and pride won't allow him to follow your idea

Some stupid men thinks women are chickens that the cock bounces on just like that

If you chose to go out and get it hot, the community will blame you but they will not be aware that you are being starved

Five years no orgasm, you are building up unreleased tension that is supposed to be off while you climax

I will suggest you start pleasuring yourself and you will get to orgasm with time

Even if he catches you, politely explain to him that you are suffering and its affecting you emotionally because he refuse to give it to you the way you feel will make you cum and because you don't want to misbehave, you have decided to do it yourself

If he has shame and feelings, he will cover his face with shame and think twice

Watch adult video sites and you will understand how to go about it

If he likes, let him report you to any family, when you get there, tell them, speak out and the table will turn against him

Nonsense

Sexytincoll:
What's stopping you from telling him and if he doesn't change,then make sure he doesn't reach climax on every sexual encounter he has with you by pushing him away before he does.Let him learn from that

She doesn't have the will to do that yet.
But gradually if he continues, she will bring out the beast in her

Bigblessed:
A selfish man gave you a lovely kid.

Women, Women, Women!

Sex for procreation and sex for pleasure are two different things

Assuming she needs to climax before she can take inn, that means she will be stranded ❓

After birthing children, sex continues for pleasure, now where is the pleasure ❓

You do come across men that does everything right to make their women feel like a woman, do you think they are stupid

Leave money aside, sex satisfaction is one thing that keeps a woman to a man, its also that same thing that makes her to get it else where

Have you ever heard of a man saying he did not enjoy sex or finds it difficult to cum, noo ❗❗❗ it doesn't work that way

So she should endure consistent rape abi? Fire needs to be placed under your anus every night for you to understand what she is going through.

OP, it is well. Inform your gynecologist and maybe she can suggest products that you can use to ease friction also talk to your husband about it, both of you need a marriage counselor. Good luck

Good talk

But the husband will not want to hear that gynaecology or counselling because of pride

bennyrazz:
in the hands of some selfish women

Yet the selfish and stupid men goes to them for sex

Well she can always file for a divorce. You ferret.

If you read well, you will see where she mentioned that she loves the man

Before an issue will get to divorce, domestic violence would have become an issue

misspicy:
Did you test drive before marriage?

NO

you was doing virgin mary,please enjoy your husband like that or keep praying maybe he will change and listen to you

She is enjoying the man but just this single issue

You mean to pray for him to change his sex idea

No way ❗ ❗

There are other things she should be praying for

Why can't the man listen to her

Don't blame her if she doesn't taste it before marriage, don't you know the tricks men plays when they want it their ways

They will rush you I to marriage because of one hidden default in them

Which will be discovered by the woman later in marriage

sunvick:
@OP

Why dont you one day take charge and lead the sexual chorus to your taste and satisfaction.

Just tell him 'Honey, I want to be in charge today/ Honey i want to make love to you.

Lie him down and ask him to relax....give him a good head game (If he survives it then proceed below).

If he is still standing Ajar... mount the horse in reverse cow girl and get urself satisfied.


Life is too short not to be sexually satisfied ohh!!!

Do you think this same man will give her room for that

Communication is the vital thing in every thing we do

When couples communicate very well, underlying issues get resolved immediately

Her type of man may not be romantic and such men are always full of themselves and nothing to write

2sexycom:
first of you are infringing on my trademark as "sexy" here.(kidding)

Anyway, your husband is just being a typical African nay Nigerian. I don't see him changing because his background and perception on things like this are pretty archaic. His type believe women shouldn't enjoy sex lol

People like do not know anything about femaie sexuality and therefore needs to be schooled. Get him some books to read if he is the type that love reading. It might help because that is like personal counselling.

Aside that, he is going to be a hard nut to crack.

about his half current dick

His type are the stubborn one's who believes that women must not be heard

Full of pride yet not passionate about his wife sexual pleasure

That woman will deflate him when she summons the courage