I'm in love with this girl and she loves me endlessly, she calls me her "endless luv". I go gaga for her, when we're together everything just seem ok. We never want to live each others sight, it's perfect.

One day i meet her crying, i asked her what was wrong then she tells me we can't continue with the relationship because she's 2 years older than I and she's scared of what the world would say about her, what her family and friends would say and that i might leave her for someone younger someday.

The truth is i can't leave her for anyone else, cos i don't think i can find love like what we share and she knows that. She thinks its best we end it now before its too late but i don't want to. Right now i'm confused, heartbroken, i don't know what to do. Let her go now to avoid embarrassment or future heart break, or stay with her and don't mind what the world says?

D girl is interested in some other guy,she's just fade up wt u and was looking for an excuse to break d relationship.
I dnt think its d girl dat shuld made such statement concerning d age gap which is insignificant other dan u. Women marries men d are older wt even up to 5yrs gap and d dnt complain.
If u wnt 2 knw her intention just tel her dat u cn stil marry her even if she's 10yrs older dan u and then wait and see her reaction.

wot fucking world will be going around researching if your woman is older than you?

Or re u gonna have a sticker on the forehead announcing that?

Abeg, ask her very well maybe there is another important reason,

that reason na wuruwuru n magomago. very childish really.

@poster
if such a BS problem as age difference is a problem for her that she contemplate breaking up with you then she clearly DOES NOT love you ¨endlessly¨. . . . . . . . . . . . get your facts right.
this woman is clearly INSECURE.

@ poster

I am writing as a Nigerian Igbo woman and I understand what she is saying. The igbo society is a pity does not give so much encouragement to couples where the woman is older than the man. Some enlightened folks might see nothing wrong with a man marrying an older woman but some ppl might frown at it.

And I blv it because of this that your girl is scared. What I believe she needs is your reassurance and support. Make her understand that you really love her and if possible take the relationship a level higher to show her your commitment.

I had the same issues. In my case I was engaged to a guy who loved me and his family also accepted me until they found out that I was 1 year and 9 moths younger than him. Then all hell broke loose cos they felt he should marry a lady 5 years younger. His family fought and struggled until I was too scared to continue the relationship. And to make matters worse my man didn't stand behind me.

So I advice that if you both love each other, stand behind her and let her know that you wont leave her and age iis not a factor to you

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
if such a BS problem as age difference is a problem for her that she contemplate breaking up with you then she clearly DOES NOT love you ¨endlessly¨. . . . . . . . . . . . get your facts right.
this woman is clearly INSECURE.

I think so.


Age is nothing

Men, what you are supposed to do is very simple.

Now is the right time to prove to her and especially yourself, that you are a MAN! Convince her and show her reasons why you think that age shouldn't matter in your relationship. You are the MAN! Women wait to be led by men. They follow. Men determine the pace of a relationship, so please stop whimping and acting scared!

Go back to her, be yourself and tell her exactly why you think she MUST overlook your age compatibility. You know exactly what you feel (or think) when you are mourning over her in your room, don't you?

Now, move boy! Tell her exactly how you feel. Age doesn't matter one bit!

I seconded that.
Age gap of two years should NOT be a problem for you.

guy,
i agree with d lady from the igbo society, but look at it from another angle,d girl might be intrested in other things try and ask her to knw if really d reason she gave was just d only reason, if yes, just tell not to worry dat u wldn't mind dat a family member of urs has done the same thing before,so she is not the first.
and to wande coal, u sure say ur white wife is not for visa or yahoo, yahoo or true love/