It will make it easier.

TPAND:
CAPITAL NO.

Majority of them cheat on their husbands when they eventually marry

The question is towards men not women

Cutehector:
Well first of all it depends on the reason why one isn't sexually active...



Cuz if I say to myself I am abstaining from premarital sex until I finally get married, and begin to chase other ladies, den what is now the need of all those years of self control? It's gone to the wind then...


One thing I have noticed about nigerians is that they tend to see the impossibilities of men just loving only one woman or men being virgins. Some people even doubt the possibility of our Lord Jesus Christ abstaining from sex during his youth. Others question the impossibilities of Saint Joseph not having sex with Blessed virgin Mary...


Look. Op, if u really ask me, I will tell you a capital YES, it is possible for one who after abstaining from premarital sex to be faithful to his wife.


And I also stand on my grounds to say YES to your second question.


There will be a "BUT" tho


Cux there Is room for repentance in life regarding your second question. There are men out there who still believe that adultery is a no go area.. even if they commit other sins, they strongly believe in their heart that commiting adultery is off from their black book.

So there will be exceptions to that. Concluding, I should say "NO" that because one have committed series of premarital sex in his past, dat doesn't mean there wouldn't be a room for repentance and responsibilities.

Hector you amaze me sometimes on nairaland

@the last paragraph, that means when we get married you'lld be faithful awwwwwwwwwww

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FEMALES ACCEPTED MOSTLY!

Only the fear of God can make you remain faithful to your wife

YES AND NO.Yes with determination and the grace of God. No because the person might give in to temptation.

It makes it easier. It takes a great deal of self control and God's grace to abstain from pre-marital sex. Someone that abstained not cos he didn't have enough money or was shy around women byt cos he had enough self control and consciousness to say no to premarital sex will most likely be able to stay faithful to his wife.

You can't stop a man who decides to cheat

Only the fear of God can keep a person from sin, but chastity increases the chances and the disipline required for a person to be faithful

Cutehector:
Well first of all it depends on the reason why one isn't sexually active...



Cuz if I say to myself I am abstaining from premarital sex until I finally get married, and begin to chase other ladies, den what is now the need of all those years of self control? It's gone to the wind then...


One thing I have noticed about nigerians is that they tend to see the impossibilities of men just loving only one woman or men being virgins. Some people even doubt the possibility of our Lord Jesus Christ abstaining from sex during his youth. Others question the impossibilities of Saint Joseph not having sex with Blessed virgin Mary...


Look. Op, if u really ask me, I will tell you a capital YES, it is possible for one who after abstaining from premarital sex to be faithful to his wife.


And I also stand on my grounds to say YES to your second question.


There will be a "BUT" tho


Cux there Is room for repentance in life regarding your second question. There are men out there who still believe that adultery is a no go area.. even if they commit other sins, they strongly believe in their heart that commiting adultery is off from their black book.

So there will be exceptions to that. Concluding, I should say "NO" that because one have committed series of premarital sex in his past, dat doesn't mean there wouldn't be a room for repentance and responsibilities.

AS FOR ME AND MY KIND FAITHFULNESS TILL DEATH WITH MY WOULD BE WIFE

Serious comment.


Whatever made the man to have that self disclipline and control all those years will keep him after marriage....I am an "example".

So the anwer is yes...u will get a very strong chance that he will be faithful,...

Howevwer it is still possilble for a man to change ...many things can cause such changes

May God not let it happen to me in Jesus name..AMEN

NO

Oh yeah! I want my man clean!

I will not categorically say that it will, but if a man could do without sex until marriage, then chances of being faithful is almost 100%.

Yes

I am going to Heaven! Not because I am a Baptist
preacher. Not because I attend church. Not because
I have been baptized. Not because I pay my tithes.
Not because I try to live right. All of those things are
good and every saved person ought to do them,
but those things cannot save the soul. No, I am going to heaven because one day, May 23, 1983, I
came to the place where I looked to no one or no
thing but to Jesus Christ alone. I am going because
I know Jesus. One thing and one thing alone was
required for me to be saved and I did that thing. I
looked to Jesus and He saved my soul! Have you come to the source of salvation? Or, are
you still trying to get it some other way? Listen, stop
trying to do what has already been done, and look
to Jesus Christ by faith, and He will save you from
your sins and from Hell. There is but one way to
Heaven, to God and to salvation and His Name is Jesus. He is the sole source of salvation!

yes its going to promote integrity and love

A resounding yes.

I've been abstaining for years and it isn't as a result of lack of opportunity. It's called self-discipline. It's the right thing to do. I long for a happy home and family.

I don't see me cheating ever.
Shout-out to my kinds out there.

Bless!

UIA04:
Hector you amaze me sometimes on nairaland

@the last paragraph, that means when we get married you'lld be faithful awwwwwwwwwww

lmao!!!! i'v prayed to Jesus to give me a clue as to whome my future wife will be buh he is very much silent on that...

Nope, none of that. And neither does it ensure the wife will be towards her husband faithful, either.

Its more difficult to abstain in marriage than the single old days

Built2last:
Abstinence from cheating is a function of self control.

man is innately promiscuous. It takes grace my brother.

you marry her a virgin and begin to Nyansh, after a while you will get tired.

The urge to try outside will be so strong.

what keeps you at that point is her character, Your fear for God and the vow at the altar.

For any man to start cheating, the woman must give the man a reason.

men don't cheat till they have a reason

Even if there is no reason,he will find one.A man that ones to cheat will cheat regardless,have seen men cheat on their "near perfect wives"even after she tries to keep fit and look appealing,it makes you wonder"what does he really want??

while some of them lament about being bored and craving for something new,what happened to rekindling what u have and enjoying it in new ways?They seem to forget marriage is longterm.

In a weird way I feel its those guys that have had their fill of premarital sex that end up being really faithful eventually, its like they've had enough of it and its time to take a break.
Just like a player turn lover boy ,or a sinner turn saint.At that point its like it doesn't excite you anymore and u ve bulit some kind of immunity towards it. lol,that should make sense.
Also,some guys abstain not because its completely their decision buh probably because circumstances have restricted them,give them an opportunity and they will unleash their potentials.
Finally sha,its all about self discipline and control we are in total control of our actions whatever we do,we do because we choose to.

Built2last:
Abstinence from cheating is a function of self control.

man is innately promiscuous. It takes grace my brother.

you marry her a virgin and begin to Nyansh, after a while you will get tired.

The urge to try outside will be so strong.

what keeps you at that point is her character, Your fear for God and the vow at the altar.

For any man to start cheating, the woman must give the man a reason.

men don't cheat till they have a reason

Pure lie! A man who lacks self control will cheat. Even if his wife has the body of Kim Kardashian he will still cheat. From my little experience in life, when someone wants to do something wrong, he creates reasons backed up with facts, to justify his actions. Truth remains that anyone who cheats in his/her marriage has absolutely no reason whatsoever.

toocutehector:
lmao!!!! i'v prayed to Jesus to give me a clue as to whome my future wife will be buh he is very much silent on that...

Did they ban you?

What did you do

chiwetel:
In a weird way I feel its those guys that have had their fill of premarital sex that end up being really faithful eventually, its like they've had enough of it and its time to take a break.

Enough of kini??

Laffin in chinese.......

I pray the likes of my guy Idris doesn't come your way.

Prales:
See Question! Bros, it's a decision and not a function of anything.

gbam gbamer gbamest!!!

sanyahkod:


Enough of kini??

Laffin in chinese.......

I pray the likes of my guy Idris doesn't come your way.

Lol..fash jhr,no matter how hard core he is there comes a time he would realise he needs to be a little more responsible.

it could take a long time for some, buh either ways he would have to grow up someday.

chiwetel:
Lol..fash jhr,no matter how hard core he is there comes a time he would realise he needs to be a little more responsible.

it could take a long time for some, buh either ways he would have to grow up someday.

Well, I believe in miracles.

It depends on your future wife